u/TomatilloFabulous753

Pochodzę z mazur zachodzich całe życie sądziłam że moja mowa nie różni się niczym od tej przeciętnej. Jednak odkąd jakiś czas temu wyjechałam na studia do Katowic ciągle jestem pytana o obywatelstwo czy też wprost czy może nie pochodzę z Ukrainy. Na początku myślałam dziwny przypadek ale po 6 razie zaczynam wątpić czy może nie zaciągam. Gdy się spytałam rodziny czy może dla nich mówię jakkolwiek inaczej stwierdzili że nie. Ja sama też nie słyszę szczególnej różnicy. Może ktoś inny ogarnia ten temat lub ma podobne przeżycia?

I love thier hair dye number 9.26 but recently I can't buy it anywhere in Poland. It sold out in every online shop and irl one. It's italian brand so maybe you know more what's up. I can't find anything about it in polish or english. I'm worried they are stopped to making it.

She (20) and me (21) are both in first relationship ever. We are dating for almost 4 month but never done much. I only kiss her goodbye and she is too scared to kiss me. She told me today that next time we see eachother she wants to try making out, yk a shock therapy so she wouldn't be so shy. I agree bc we both want it tbh, I'm just very nervous bc I know I will have to be one to take inicative as always. How to be more calm about?

My mother always had mental problems, me aswell. The diffrence is that I was 3 times in psych ward, got meds, move out to univeristy and got somewhat better (but I still go to therapy). She on the other hand only is taking meds for some time due to money issues (my father is the one helping me out and paying split with me for therapy). I know she have problems, I even know it very well since she always treated me as her therapist/friend when needed. But for some time I'm realy tired of this, about knowing all about her traumas (in detail) when she can't even name the univeristy I go to. Every time I call she starts talking about her problems I try telling her that she have power over her life now but always choose wrong but it can be changed now. Then she starts talking about unaliving herself or tells me to just grab some random knife and do it myself since she is such a m

bad mother. I have two younger sibling (18M and 8F) I'm just worried about them, what would happen if she would do it. Especialy my sister (which is from another father and very abusive one). I'm tired of this situation. My therapist tells me to cut her off but I feel deep down that I can't. I just want her to stop talking about unaliving herself, she wasn't so kind when I in tears told her that I wanted to die at 15 years old. She just told me that she can't do anything with it and to stop cry or leave her room bc she's tired. And now I'm tired and can't tell her to leave me alone.

There were 2 posts, one asking about disicrimination against woman another about man. And ofc one about man wasn't ciritising the system but blaming all their problems on woman. What complains I saw the most: I can't get job as waiter or a cashier bc they prefer woman (like there are no jobs that prefers to hire man), only I have to go to miliatry incase of war (like we didn't fought for right to be a soldier and like being a civilian woman in active war meant easy life and not caring for elders and children, not working in factories that make thier guns etc, not dying and being sexualy assulted by forgin solders), I have to work 5 years longer [retaiment age for woman in poland is 60, for man 65] (like every woman go retire when they can and they don't get lower pension if they retire at just 60), when I go to doctor or school with my kid they don't take me seriusly and assum I don't know anything about my child (I see this as real problem bc not every father is clueless about thier child but It comes more from the social exepctetion that the mother is one who HAVE to know everything about thier child and the father have no obligation so poeple don't exept the knowlage).

And they all do is to blame woman, and they say it's fair bc all what feminism do is blame man and they do nothing wrong. They see themselfs as victims of system they think they have no power over. Or even that the patriarchy doen't exist. (I even saw someone calling poland as a matriarchy!!) But most stupid one I saw must be complaining that some man that had to sit longer at christmas party at thier job and women were let off early so THEY CAN COOK CHRISTMASS DINNER.

Sorry for any grammar errors I was writing this in emotions.