I wish people could turn their attraction for other people on or off at will so that no one feels the urge to cheat or the need to be in the friend zone

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u/Ummah_Strong — 11 days ago

The bodies of the prophets?

Yesterday I heard a Hadith about the bodies of prophets not decaying. Instinctively I doubted it but perhaps that was wrong of me

How do you navigate questioning Hadith without rejecting it out of hand

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u/Ummah_Strong — 11 days ago

I wish Reddit comment sections were always kind and compassionate towards the OP, fellow redditors, and innocents mentioned in the post

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u/Ummah_Strong — 15 days ago

I wish every redditors most down voted comment floated above their head on every February 29th. The day shall be known as Red Feb.

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u/Ummah_Strong — 1 month ago

I wish every job was required to tell applicants when and why they are not accepted to the job. It must be within 10 business days, and in the applicants main language easily understood.

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u/Ummah_Strong — 1 month ago

Ghusl and recitation

Been thinking a lot about these two topics lately. As in, both have very different presentations in Hadith vs Quran.

I've been thinking on why there are silent rakats when there is a verse that tells us not to recite silently. Why is that?

I've been thinking about ghusl and wishing I understood enough Arabic to grasp the nuance.

Just thinking I guess. Do you all ever think about these thing?

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u/Ummah_Strong — 1 month ago

I am distressed. No matter what I do I feel like my hair is always falling out and not growing

I moisturize, I rarely use combs, I sleep with silk bonnets. I don't currently have braids or pony tails, my hair is usually covered by my when I'm out.

I fear I am doomed to be dang near bald headed for ever.

I don't really know how to care for my hair beyond that and I wish I did. Is there any hope?

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u/Ummah_Strong — 2 months ago
▲ 63 r/Quraniyoon+1 crossposts

MY HUSBAND DOESNT LIKE ME FASTING - even though I make myself available for him.

Need your advice please. I love fasting and praying tahjud, but I've come to realise my husband isn't comfortable with it. He complains and give me attitude each time he realises I'm fasting. I make myself available in the night when he needs me. We're both working full time so daytime we are not even at home/together. He goes to work and I go to work too so I don't understand why he would be uncomfortable with his wife fasting. Each time I fast, I get questions like "Are you fasting again? For what? And so on." This behaviour is consistent that I've to start fasting sneakily for him not to be aware. He is someone that the only fasting he does is Ramadan and sometimes shawal. No other fasting until another ramadan. He knows the Sunnah fasting and I've spoken to him about the importance of fasting, but to no avail. I find it hard to stop fasting as it makes me feel empty, like something in me is missing. I'm sad I ended in a situation like this. Do I need his approval to fast? I need your advice pls.

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u/Hungry-Talk1785 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/trauma

My traumas are stupid and I am tired of thinking about them. How do I stop being traumatized

I don't know how to make a better title sorry. My traumas are stupid. Other people have more important traumas and I can't sit around moping for no reason.

I'm already in therapy and on meds and it's taking too long. Is there anything that fixes it faster? Something I should ask the doctor or therapist about maybe?

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u/Ummah_Strong — 2 months ago

My perfect hotel alternatives? Candy is not cozy

The game used to be very relaxing. I even paid for add free but now they've added this candy currency so you are forced to either watch multiple adds or wait several IRL minutes for an NPC to give you 3 small tasks to earn candy. This does not spark joy.

So any similar games anyone recommends? I enjoyed eatventure and egginc as well

u/Ummah_Strong — 3 months ago
▲ 212 r/ontario

A reminder that Ontario law gives you the right to refuse unsafe work!!

If your job requires you to be excessively in this air and you are not an emergency responder you most likely have the right to refuse unsafe work. It will involve going to your health and safety committee or supervisor depending on your company structure but it's better than this!

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u/Ummah_Strong — 3 months ago
▲ 248 r/Quraniyoon+2 crossposts

Learning about religion(s) without outside voices in my ears

When you log into twitter, a lot of people talk crap about each other, they accuse each other's religion of being violent, so me (not a religious person) decided to do some research of my own. I like researching and learning, this will be a great journey.

Born and raised in the US but was never religious, parents are super religious, and myself, I do believe that there is something and I hoping to figure out what that is, in my experience i have never met a person who tried to tell me about their religion (other than jehovas witness) and one muslim preacher...who didnt even speak English, dude had a IRL google translator.

I will be reading without bias and without judging a faith based on the actions of its followers,

EDIT: already had 2 people message me to buy stuff, spoiler, im not

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u/CtrlAltNotDlt — 4 months ago

Those of you who maintain the traditional view that 4:34 allows wife beating, why?

It contradicts the concepts of dwell together in tranquility The Romans (30:21)

وَمِنْ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًۭا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةًۭ وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَـَٔايَـٰتٍۢ لِّقَوْمٍۢ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ٢١

And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect. — Dr. Mustafa Khattab, The Clear Quran

And it is used to excuse domestic violence.

If the verse also allowed men to be beaten would you be so keen to agree?

I have always found this to be a very convincing argument: https://www.quran-islam.org/main_topics/quran/misinterpreted_verses/manipulation_of_4:34_(P1571).html

u/Ummah_Strong — 4 months ago

Beaver tails question

Am I hallucinating the Mandela e effect or did they use to have the apple pie Beaver tails at wonderland?

Entire park no longer has them and I am so sad. Can anyone confirm?

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u/Ummah_Strong — 4 months ago