u/UniqueRecognition773

I had around 1,200 Instagram followers, but after dealing with some harassment and for my own peace of mind, I removed almost everyone. Now I only have about 100 followers also I removed everyone from my hometown as well jinse I used to talk pehle but then lost contact because I moved to Delhi now I only have people which are just my close friends, family, and a few college friends. I even removed most of my hometown friends.

My birthday is v soon , and I’m feeling anxious that people might notice they’ve been removed and confront me or create drama. I’m worried people will message me asking, “Why did you remove me?” or make it into a big issue.

Has anyone else done a major follower cleanup? Did people actually notice or confront you? Am I overthinking this, or should I expect some awkward conversations?

Does anyone of you also feel anxious as well while studying thinking that when will this complete and yeh bas jaldi khtm hojaye while actively studying it

Guys sabke hi flatmates are same or what

Hey there, I hope you are doing well.

I’m a new reader and because of the hype

I got ikigai a few days back

I really feel now after reading 50-60 pages that it has generic content

Altho I really really like the cover page

Gives aesthetic and relaxing vibe but not as I expected

Also did you guys find your ikigai?

When did you first read it? Is someone currently reading it? What do you like about it? Do you think the same as me? Do share

Hey there, I hope you are doing well.

I’m a new reader and because of the hype

I got ikigai a few days back

I really feel now after reading 50-60 pages that it has generic content

Altho I really really like the cover page

Gives aesthetic and relaxing vibe but not as I expected

Also did you guys find your ikigai?

When did you first read it? Is someone currently reading it? What do you like about it? Do you think the same as me? Do share

lately I’ve been getting anxious over the smallest things. Even if it’s something that isn’t actually a big deal, my mind starts overthinking every possible outcome and I can’t calm down.

I’ve also developed this habit of scratching my scalp whenever I’m stressed, and I keep doing it until it starts bleeding. My periods have become irregular and are getting delayed too, which makes me wonder if all this stress is affecting my body.

The scary part is that there isn’t even a major problem in my life right now. It’s just that every tiny thing feels huge in my head. I constantly feel this heavy, uneasy feeling in my chest and stomach.

I’m only 19, and I keep thinking if I’m this stressed already, how will I handle actual adult responsibilities later in life?

Has anyone else gone through something similar? Did it get better, and what helped you? I just don’t want to feel like this all the time anymore.

I’m 19, and lately I’ve been getting anxious over the smallest things. Even if it’s something that isn’t actually a big deal, my mind starts overthinking every possible outcome and I can’t calm down.

I’ve also developed this habit of scratching my scalp whenever I’m stressed, and I keep doing it until it starts bleeding. My periods have become irregular and are getting delayed too, which makes me wonder if all this stress is affecting my body.

The scary part is that there isn’t even a major problem in my life right now. It’s just that every tiny thing feels huge in my head. I constantly feel this heavy, uneasy feeling in my chest and stomach.

I’m only 19, and I keep thinking if I’m this stressed already, how will I handle actual adult responsibilities later in life?

Has anyone else gone through something similar? Did it get better, and what helped you? I just don’t want to feel like this all the time anymore.

I moved to Delhi from a small town in MP around 9 months ago and honestly it’s been a lot to process.

When I first came here I was quite naive and ended up getting fooled by people a few times, which already made me anxious about trusting others. I stayed with my brother initially but during that time I got severe dengue and had to be admitted to the ICU for a week. It was really traumatic, I literally saw people dying around me and it affected me more than I realised at that time.

After that I shifted to a flat in North Campus with a few girls (we didn’t know each other before, the broker just put us together). That flat had no sunlight and just felt very off to me, plus there were constant issues with the upstairs neighbour and eventually we had to leave. It was my first time dealing with all this and it stressed me out a lot.

Now I’m in a new flat with the same flatmates and things are much better. There’s sunlight, I finally have a routine and I’ve started studying properly again. The only issue is that the flat itself has some problems like no washing machine, high rent and some things not being fixed by the owner.

The main thing stressing me out right now is that my flatmates are in third year and are planning to move out soon. I’ve already spoken to them and the broker and they said they’ll inform at least a month in advance and that replacements can be found easily. But I still keep overthinking that something might go wrong and I might suddenly be forced to leave.

They haven’t actually done anything wrong to me, but because of my past experiences here I keep feeling like people might manipulate me or things might go out of control.

Am I overthinking this? How do I stop feeling anxious about something that hasn’t even happened yet?

Update: I spoke again to both the broker and one of the girls and they reassured me that replacements will be found and they’ll give a one month notice because they also don’t want any security issues for the flat. I still feel anxious though.

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Nahi so pa rahi bhaiii kon kon nhi soya

Hello everyone, I recently shifted to Delhi around 9 months ago for college

And I’ve been noticing kuch 9-10 months se (ab idk yeh bhi overthinking hai ya real mein ho raha) ki I’ve been facing constant anxiety like the free floating one, koi dikkat na ho toh bhi tension, feeling like everything is an emergency so that mere daily ke tasks complete ho jaye

Jab kisi cheez ka solution pta hai tab bhi tension

I can’t wake up tension and anxiety free

Yeh mere entrrence exams ke time bhi hota tha

Now I’m not able to figure out ki mujhe genuine koi mental problem hai jisse mai psychologist ke paas jau ya fir yeh bas normal overthinking hai jo sabko hoti hai

Jab kisi kaam me hoti hu tab itne thoughts nhi aate dosto k sth hoti hu tab nahi aate

But humesha aisa lagta hai ki har cheez emergency m ho.. aur jaldi jaldi hojaye

Should I do yoga? Or meditation?

Fix my sleep scheudle?

Go gym ya develop a hobby?

What should i do?

Is this serious

I have NO idea.

Please help me.

On air with rj rini

So hi guys im a beginner and i love love reading short and comforting story books.

Along with novels and memoirs

If someone has read this

Pls lmk how’s it

Guys how to do it like waking up at 9am will also be fine.

And should I like sleep for 7 6 or 8 hours idk

When to sleep when to wake up?

Guys tell realistic ways which actually actually works for you

Btao btao leaving for hometown in few days so really really bored at home

Up for a chit chat ???

Hi aaj my end sems got over , sare dost ghar nikal gaye , what should I do for these 2-3 days? Solo date clubbing? Kya karu koi batao need reccomendations

So I’m 19f living in Vijay Nagar, north campus there is this guy I’ve been seeing almost 2-3 times In empire cafe, he sees me I see him but I’m usually with my male friends (both of them are gay) so i think Esliye guys and specially him don’t approach me.

I really want to talk to him and I hope I see him again!

I speculate he lives in Vijay Nagar only kyuki mujhe 2 baar mila hai

How do i find him i remember his face nicely

Also should i talk to him next time I see

Him

He sees me a lot but I feel baat nhi krta cuz ladko k sth hoti hu

Guys what do in Kamla Nagar north campus as alone ??

Hi, 19f here from Delhi dating 19M

He’s 2-3 months younger to me.

We’ve been talking to each other from December (met on hinge) and then we met irl in Feb uske baad se we have met 8-9 times.

He’s a very very good guy, he loves me.

Best guy I could ever get

I moved to Delhi 9 months ago from my very small town so keep in mind I had no exposure of guys.

So this is one of the first guys I met

And he proposed me in a full flegid manner , still I asked time but he was kind of rushing things and wanted everything fast

Pressure mein aake I said yes.

Now im feeling very very empty

I can’t keep it going I don’t feel attracted to him

Mujhe Milne ka bhi nahi man hota

I dont feel sexually aroused and even get irritated of

Him

He isn’t aware of all this

But I think the more I extend the more it will hurt him

But I feel he is the best I can get

So I’m not able to leave him either

Should I tell him?

Because it will eventually turn into cheating which I don’t want to!!