u/Upstairs_Dentist_454

I’m 24F and recently told my boyfriend I don’t think I want to continue because I feel he’s emotionally unavailable and immature. Whenever I cry or face something difficult, he doesn’t know how to support me unless I explain exactly what I need. Recently, my period was late and I was anxious. I asked him for reassurance, and later told him I wanted more words of affirmation. He replied, “If you want that, you just sit with that,” in a rude tone and cut the call. I called him back three times to explain myself, and he then got another call and hasn’t contacted me since. He says I don’t see his efforts, but I feel like I’m constantly teaching him how to emotionally support me.

What really made me think was that when I used to face problems, my first instinct was always to go to him. But when my period was late, my first instinct wasn’t to seek comfort from him. Today I finally got my period, and I’m unsure whether I should tell him. Part of me thinks he was worried too, but another part feels I don’t need to update him anymore. I’m not trying to get a reaction or use it as an excuse to talk. Am I expecting too much emotionally, or are we simply incompatible?

My ex and I had sex recently, and my period was late. We argued because I told him he was emotionally unavailable, and he cut my call when I said i need words of affirmation.. I would have given him another chance but he repeated the same mistake again and broken my trust.

He knew I was worried but only asked about symptoms instead of reassuring me, even after I told him I needed more emotional care.

Today I got my period. Should I tell him since we had sex and he knew I was worried?

My account got locked out of nowhere. I haven’t linked my email. But there is an option to link gmail even though the account gets locked. I have tried adding my gmail but its not working. What shall I do?

I am offering readings based on donations. If anyone is interested please let me know.

Hi everyone!

I’ve been practicing tarot for about 3 **years**, and I’m offering affordable readings as a side hustle to support myself while balancing work and personal goals.

You’ll receive a **3-card reading** tailored to your question, or a past–present–future spread if you prefer.

I use tarot as a way to encourage reflection and offer guidance, rather than making certain predictions about the future.

If you’d like a reading, send me a **DM**. I’d love to connect!

Hi everyone!

I’ve been practicing tarot for about 3 years, and I’m offering affordable readings as a side hustle to support myself while balancing work and personal goals.

You’ll receive a 3-card reading tailored to your question, or a past–present–future spread if you prefer.

I use tarot as a way to encourage reflection and offer guidance, rather than making certain predictions about the future.

If you’d like a reading, send me a DM. I’d love to connect!

Hi everyone! I'm an experienced tarot reader offering detailed and thoughtful readings in exchange for another reading. I enjoy love, relationship, spiritual and general life readings.

I'm looking for serious tarot readers interested in a genuine exchange. Feel free to comment or send me a DM if you're interested🤍

Hi everyone! I'm an experienced tarot reader offering detailed and thoughtful readings in exchange for another reading. I enjoy love, relationship, spiritual and general life readings.

I'm looking for serious tarot readers interested in a genuine exchange. Feel free to comment or send me a DM if you're interested🤍

Hi everyone! I'm an experienced tarot reader offering detailed and thoughtful readings in exchange for another reading. I enjoy love, relationship, spiritual and general life readings.

I'm looking for serious tarot readers interested in a genuine exchange. Feel free to comment or send me a DM if you're interested🤍

I’m trying to understand a situation with someone who I think may have avoidant tendencies, and I’d really appreciate perspectives from people who relate to that attachment style.

My best friend became friends with another friend of mine through me — let’s call him X. Over time, X and I started dating, but I never told her. I know that sounds bad, and I fully accept I handled it poorly. I hid it because I was unsure about the relationship myself and scared of being judged.

To make things worse, I would sometimes jokingly say things like “why don’t you two date?” whenever we were all together. I also casually joined in when X complimented her appearance. At the time it felt unserious to me, but looking back, I completely understand how confusing and hurtful that could have felt once she found out we were dating.

She found out on March 31, 2026, and things became emotionally intense. She questioned our six-year friendship and brought up my ex, saying he was still suffering while I was dating someone else. That hurt me deeply because it felt like the exact judgment I was afraid of when I chose to hide the relationship in the first place.

After that, she asked for time and space, and I respected it. We both later came back from our hometowns, and now things feel… awkward. She still talks to me and we still coexist, but the emotional intensity, warmth, and closeness aren’t there anymore. It feels distant and careful now.

She has also made mistakes which I forgave her for.

For people who are avoidant or understand avoidant attachment styles:
Is this kind of emotional distancing common after hurt/conflict?
Does giving space actually help rebuild safety?
How do I avoid making things worse while still showing I care?
Is it better to let things rebuild naturally instead of trying to force emotional closeness back immediately?

I genuinely miss my friend and I’m trying to approach this with accountability and patience instead of pressure.

I’m trying to understand a situation with someone who I think may have avoidant tendencies, and I’d really appreciate perspectives from people who relate to that attachment style.

My best friend became friends with another friend of mine through me — let’s call him X. Over time, X and I started dating, but I never told her. I know that sounds bad, and I fully accept I handled it poorly. I hid it because I was unsure about the relationship myself and scared of being judged.

To make things worse, I would sometimes jokingly say things like “why don’t you two date?” whenever we were all together. I also casually joined in when X complimented her appearance. At the time it felt unserious to me, but looking back, I completely understand how confusing and hurtful that could have felt once she found out we were dating.

She found out on March 31, 2026, and things became emotionally intense. She questioned our six-year friendship and brought up my ex, saying he was still suffering while I was dating someone else. That hurt me deeply because it felt like the exact judgment I was afraid of when I chose to hide the relationship in the first place.

After that, she asked for time and space, and I respected it. We both later came back from our hometowns, and now things feel… awkward. She still talks to me and we still coexist, but the emotional intensity, warmth, and closeness aren’t there anymore. It feels distant and careful now.

She has also made mistakes which I forgave her for.

For people who are avoidant or understand avoidant attachment styles:
Is this kind of emotional distancing common after hurt/conflict?
Does giving space actually help rebuild safety?
How do I avoid making things worse while still showing I care?
Is it better to let things rebuild naturally instead of trying to force emotional closeness back immediately?

I genuinely miss my friend and I’m trying to approach this with accountability and patience instead of pressure.