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Without getting into much detail, basically I'm at a very low point in my life

My life has been going downhill for a long time now and sadly there isn't much I can do about it but to let time pass.

During a big mental breakdown I kneeled at Mother Hecate's altar telling her that I didn't deserve any divine help, that I was not worth of her guidance etc etc, I explained the situation and then told her I was sorry and took her altar down. I did it with respect and I kept her things in a safe place with much love, but yet very ashamed of myself. I felt like a stray dog hiding.

Now I see that I was dumb. I pushed her away when I needed her the most.

She was very aware that I was drowning in a deep hole before I did all of this, she herself asked me to just take care of my mental health and nothing else, she never asked me for any offering in specific but that.

*How can I ask for her forgiveness and set her altar up again?*

Putting a harness and a leash on my dog is always a struggle. As soon as I grab the leash she starts jumping and running and all of that. It's very hard to make her sit down long enough to put a harness on her. She tries her best to stay still but the excitement is just too much 😅

I've tried waiting until she's tired of jumping and running, whenever she's a little bit calmer, but when I try to secure the harness she just keeps moving and it turns very frustrating for both of us, how can I fix this situation?

Busco trabajo remoto ya que en mi pueblo no hay nada. Literalmente NADA, ni siquiera en pueblos cercanos.

Necesito dinero suficiente para mudarme, asi que pense en un trabajo remoto...

Donde puedo conseguir uno que no sea una estafa descarada?

Manejo inglés, me falta un poco de practica en el acento pero es fluido.

I'm looking for new cleansing baths and any other ritual that can be done regularly.

I also wanted to ask if you know of a good ritual to help get a job? bc I'm really struggling to find one 🥲

I had a long conversation with my partner mainly about how I feel about her reaction to all of our arguments. It always ends up with her suggesting we should break up but kinda pushing me to be the one ending our relationship, and lately I've been feeling like no matter what she does, my response to her actions and words end up being worse than what she originally did. Like I have no right to react or I'll be the one to blame at the end.

I confronted her about it, I told her it made me feel like I was a toy and that she wasn't taking US seriously.

She got offended and asked if she had ever treated me like that (like duh, that's exactly what I just told you with detail of how and when).

After that, I was just asking her if this had a solution, if we could make it work because from my side I was very willing to try. She said yes, but her face showed me something else. I felt like she was just agreeing to end the conversation, like she was not content with the resolution and the agreements we made... I was honest and asked her again If she was sure because I didn't want to have another fight because of the same thing months later (something she does often, agrees to it and after weeks she brings it up again during a totally different argument). She said yes again, with a face of disgust...or at least it feel like that. She wasn't even looking at me, she was sitting pointing towards another direction... it just didn't feel honest.

Am I seeing things and overthinking it, or is she just too overwhelmed by the intense conversation?

for several reasons, i decided to ask hecate if she would like to work with me. I've worked with totally different deities before, so I don't know much about her.

I asked for a clear sign, expecting to see spiders, a black dog, or something like that... but instead of that, a coin dropped from the ceiling, right in front of me, out of nowhere. I feel like that might be the sign, but since I know nothing about Hecate, I wanna know what you all think!

also, any tip, advice, book, etc, about her is very welcomed 🙏🏻

I wanna start training, but there are no muay thai gyms near where I live. The closest one would take me half a day to get there and half a day to come back home.

Is it possible to start at home until i save enough to move somewhere else and find a gym?

My Gf's cat somehow dropped her laptop, and the hard drive died. Her laptop is old af but I don't know which model it is and I can't ask because I wanna surprise her with the new hard drive. I'm struggling with money rn.

I was thinking about getting her the Crucial MX500 500GB. She's interested in programming, and she's about to take a basic course (i think Python and stuff like that, idk). Will this hard drive be good enough?

I'm sorry if I sound dumb I actually know nothing about laptops or PCs. I barely know how to turn them on lmao.

Thanks in advance!

Many muay thai shorts have great graphic designs, may I see your favorite ones? (either ones you own or ones you have seen on other fighters)

How do I know if I'm a bad person? like, genuinely, how do I know what I'm lacking or what needs to be improved when I have no one I can trust pointing out something wrong about me?

I'm working on stuff i know I'm not doing very well, but if immature people tell me I'm in the wrong, can I believe them?

How do you deal with women? I swear to God, my GF is the only one that can get me on my nerves in a matter of seconds! i love her with all my heart and soul, but sometimes I just dont know how to deal with her. This is my first serious relationship, so I guess that's part of it.

I'm more of a chill person, I have adhd so I try my extra-best to regulate my emotions and communicate clearly since I was a kid (even before being diagnosed) but it just upsets me when she shuts down or starts too much drama for nothing 🫠

We don't plan on breaking up any soon, but I would love to hear your advice for a more chill relationship

I'm looking for a fragrance that has sandalwood as the base, but with something that feels fresh, too.

Two of my favorites are tokyo milk tainted love, and Legend by body works, but it got so freaking expensive and the quality is mid now, compared to what it used to be.

I hope these references help to understand what my preferences are.

Thanks in advance!

My GF (23F) and I (22F) had a really hard time with money back in my hometown. It's almost impossible to find a decent job. My last job there paid me 1000 pesos (equivalent to 60 US dollars rn) for 40 hours a week plus unpaid overtime. Absolute misery.

We talked for about 4 months about me coming back to the US to work and be able to buy a car, and eventually move out to a better place, get married and bring her to the US legally for whatever she wanted, vacations, work, whatever.

That brings us to now. Right now, I'm in the US with my brother and my dad. It's been 3 weeks and I haven't been able to find a job! not even at warehouses.... I feel terrible, trying my best not to fall into depression (something I've dealt with my whole life). However, I've never failed to keep my promise of sending her money, texting her all the time, FaceTime her, etc.

Even with that, she has been pressuring me into coming back right now. After many conversations, I decided to give in and started looking for tickets for this month.

I had to delay my travel one week because the person that can drive me to the bus station will only be free by then.

My Gf got mad enough to tell me I shouldn't come back and that if I come back, things will never be the same. I bought her an expensive pair of Dr. martens, a few sets of clothes and more stuff.... But now I don't wanna go back, I don't wanna just give up the plan we had, the effort I've been putting into this.

I can deal with not finding a job but still sending money, to work my ass off whenever I get a job, to deal with my ADHD unmedicated until I can afford it here, to live with my abusive father who used to beat the shit out of me, to be isolated because I don't own a car, to miss her the same way she misses me... but she can't wait for me...?

I feel like shit because I love her, but I don't know how to feel about her attitude with this whole situation. What if I come back and I realize it was just a waste of time and money?

Early Renee phoenix songs like Indestructible (by the explicits) sound kinda like she was gargling her screams, lol. What technique was she using?

Because I've seen other versions or live presentations, and she isn't doing the same thing. Links in the comments for both things I'm talking about!

How do I get started in Oklahoma City? other than construction and warehouses, because i applied everywhere and haven't had luck yet.

I moved to Okc almost a month ago, and I'm still looking for a good school to start!

How do you create a melody for your own lyrics? I've been struggling with it for a while now, none of my songs feel catchy or "natural", it kinda feels like a toddler making up a random song 🫠

I've been told it does many things. Personally, it has helped me regulate my emotions and stay calmer.

Have you ever worn one? what's your experience wearing it?

Also, is it okay if I wrap it twice around my neck? it's so long it gets stuck everywhere bc it shows under my shirt, lol.