u/V-fyh

what should I do?

I wanna start training, but there are no muay thai gyms near where I live. The closest one would take me half a day to get there and half a day to come back home.

Is it possible to start at home until i save enough to move somewhere else and find a gym?

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u/V-fyh — 1 day ago

I know nothing

My Gf's cat somehow dropped her laptop, and the hard drive died. Her laptop is old af but I don't know which model it is and I can't ask because I wanna surprise her with the new hard drive. I'm struggling with money rn.

I was thinking about getting her the Crucial MX500 500GB. She's interested in programming, and she's about to take a basic course (i think Python and stuff like that, idk). Will this hard drive be good enough?

I'm sorry if I sound dumb I actually know nothing about laptops or PCs. I barely know how to turn them on lmao.

Thanks in advance!

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u/V-fyh — 1 day ago

Cool shorts designs

Many muay thai shorts have great graphic designs, may I see your favorite ones? (either ones you own or ones you have seen on other fighters)

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u/V-fyh — 6 days ago

how do I know?

How do I know if I'm a bad person? like, genuinely, how do I know what I'm lacking or what needs to be improved when I have no one I can trust pointing out something wrong about me?

I'm working on stuff i know I'm not doing very well, but if immature people tell me I'm in the wrong, can I believe them?

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u/V-fyh — 7 days ago

How to have a healthy long term relationship?

How do you deal with women? I swear to God, my GF is the only one that can get me on my nerves in a matter of seconds! i love her with all my heart and soul, but sometimes I just dont know how to deal with her. This is my first serious relationship, so I guess that's part of it.

I'm more of a chill person, I have adhd so I try my extra-best to regulate my emotions and communicate clearly since I was a kid (even before being diagnosed) but it just upsets me when she shuts down or starts too much drama for nothing 🫠

We don't plan on breaking up any soon, but I would love to hear your advice for a more chill relationship

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u/V-fyh — 7 days ago

Looking for a new scent

I'm looking for a fragrance that has sandalwood as the base, but with something that feels fresh, too.

Two of my favorites are tokyo milk tainted love, and Legend by body works, but it got so freaking expensive and the quality is mid now, compared to what it used to be.

I hope these references help to understand what my preferences are.

Thanks in advance!

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u/V-fyh — 10 days ago

AITJ for sticking to the plan?

My GF (23F) and I (22F) had a really hard time with money back in my hometown. It's almost impossible to find a decent job. My last job there paid me 1000 pesos (equivalent to 60 US dollars rn) for 40 hours a week plus unpaid overtime. Absolute misery.

We talked for about 4 months about me coming back to the US to work and be able to buy a car, and eventually move out to a better place, get married and bring her to the US legally for whatever she wanted, vacations, work, whatever.

That brings us to now. Right now, I'm in the US with my brother and my dad. It's been 3 weeks and I haven't been able to find a job! not even at warehouses.... I feel terrible, trying my best not to fall into depression (something I've dealt with my whole life). However, I've never failed to keep my promise of sending her money, texting her all the time, FaceTime her, etc.

Even with that, she has been pressuring me into coming back right now. After many conversations, I decided to give in and started looking for tickets for this month.

I had to delay my travel one week because the person that can drive me to the bus station will only be free by then.

My Gf got mad enough to tell me I shouldn't come back and that if I come back, things will never be the same. I bought her an expensive pair of Dr. martens, a few sets of clothes and more stuff.... But now I don't wanna go back, I don't wanna just give up the plan we had, the effort I've been putting into this.

I can deal with not finding a job but still sending money, to work my ass off whenever I get a job, to deal with my ADHD unmedicated until I can afford it here, to live with my abusive father who used to beat the shit out of me, to be isolated because I don't own a car, to miss her the same way she misses me... but she can't wait for me...?

I feel like shit because I love her, but I don't know how to feel about her attitude with this whole situation. What if I come back and I realize it was just a waste of time and money?

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u/V-fyh — 12 days ago

Early Renee phoenix songs like Indestructible (by the explicits) sound kinda like she was gargling her screams, lol. What technique was she using?

Because I've seen other versions or live presentations, and she isn't doing the same thing. Links in the comments for both things I'm talking about!

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u/V-fyh — 14 days ago

How do I get started in Oklahoma City? other than construction and warehouses, because i applied everywhere and haven't had luck yet.

I moved to Okc almost a month ago, and I'm still looking for a good school to start!

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u/V-fyh — 21 days ago

How do you create a melody for your own lyrics? I've been struggling with it for a while now, none of my songs feel catchy or "natural", it kinda feels like a toddler making up a random song 🫠

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u/V-fyh — 22 days ago

I've been told it does many things. Personally, it has helped me regulate my emotions and stay calmer.

Have you ever worn one? what's your experience wearing it?

Also, is it okay if I wrap it twice around my neck? it's so long it gets stuck everywhere bc it shows under my shirt, lol.

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u/V-fyh — 22 days ago