▲ 7 r/lonely

I wish I had somebody

I have nobody to talk to, and it just sucks. I keep seeing people online. Make great friendships even when the other person knows their deepest darkest fears. Well, I try to go out and try to fit in both in person and online, but nobody ever really pays attention to me at most. I just get brief acknowledgment at best, but nothing ever actually developed anything.

Am I doing this whole adult thing correctly at 19??

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u/WakkoHat — 1 day ago

[19/NB] Florida/Anywhere - Looking for a long-term texting buddy to infodump about story-driven games and shows!

Hi! I’m Raine (they/them). I’m a 19-year-old non-binary person from Florida!

I’m putting myself out here because I want to find a dedicated texting buddy. I'm looking for a friendship built on deep conversations, trust, and shared interests: not just a one-day chat because you're bored.

Because I’m autistic, clear and direct communication means the world to me. I’m not great at playing guessing games or reading mixed signals, so I thrive with a friend who is comfortable just telling me exactly what they mean.

In my downtime, you can usually find me drawing, listening to music, or getting entirely too invested in story-driven games and shows. I'm a big fan of live-action stuff like Doctor Who, Breaking Bad, and Better Call Saul, but I also love animation and indie projects like Steven Universe, Hazbin Hotel, The Amazing Digital Circus, and other indie web shows. On the gaming and podcast front, I really love OMORI, Persona, Deltarune, and The Magnus Archives.

One of my favorite things in the world is listening to people enthusiastically infodump about their interests. So if you have something you love, please tell me all about it!

If you are looking for a genuine, long-term texting friend and value kindness, emotional maturity, and consistency, I would love to hear from you. Send me a Reddit message and tell me a little about yourself and what your biggest interests are!

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u/WakkoHat — 1 day ago

19NB from Florida looking for long-term friends

Hey, I’m Raine (19, they/them) from Florida! I’m here looking for some chill, long-term friends. I love having deep conversations and genuinely getting to know people over time.

I spend a lot of my free time drawing and getting way too invested in story-driven games. Some of my favorite things are Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona, Deltarune, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, and The Amazing Digital Circus. I also love hearing people infodump about their interests, even if I know absolutely nothing about the topic.

If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’ve been into lately, or what your current favorite game, show, or hobby is. I’d love to hear about it.

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u/WakkoHat — 1 day ago

19NB Looking for people who enjoy deep conversations

Hey! I’m Raine (19, they/them, Florida).

I’m looking to make some long-term friends who are down for genuine, low-pressure conversations. You don’t have to be super outgoing, constantly funny, or have a million hobbies to talk to me: I honestly just love people who get excited about things.

Seriously, please infodump to me. Tell me why everyone misunderstands your favorite character, explain the entire lore of a game I’ve never played, or drop a ten-paragraph essay on some obscure piece of media. I genuinely love listening to people talk about what they care about.

As for my own stuff: I draw, play a ton of story-driven games, and spend way too much time overanalyzing characters and narratives. Right now, my brain is mostly occupied by Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona 5, Deltarune, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, and The Amazing Digital Circus (also, I really love NBC's Hannibal). Music-wise, I listen to a lot of The Living Tombstone and Vylet Pony. I’m basically the exact right audience for a conversation that starts with a random video game and somehow turns into a deep life chat at 2 a.m.

We definitely don’t need to share the same interests. If you’re passionate about something, I’m here for it, and I'd love to hear you ramble.

If you think we’d vibe, shoot me a DM! You can totally skip the generic "hey" and instead, hit me with your current obsession or introduce me to a character you could talk about for hours.

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u/WakkoHat — 1 day ago
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19 [NB4M] #Online #Florida — Non-binary person looking for a soulful long-term relationship

Hey! I’m Raine, I’m a 19-year-old non-binary person (they/them) living in Florida, and I’m looking for a monogamous boyfriend for a long-term relationship. I really want something built on a artless emotional connection, good communication, and shared values.

Just to get the big compatibility stuff out of the way first so nobody's time is wasted, I have a few hard boundaries. I am completely and permanently childfree, so I don't want kids under any circumstances. I’m also not interested in hookups or friends-with-benefits, and sex is not something I want to be part of a relationship at all. I’m looking for a connection that stays entirely emotionally focused and mutually committed in a romantic way, without any sexual expectations.

I’m autistic, which means I do best with super direct, straightforward communication. I really appreciate people who just say exactly what they mean instead of expecting me to read between the lines or guess. I also prefer taking things pretty slow at first so trust and comfort can just develop naturally, rather than trying to rush into anything.

When I’m not doing that, I spend a lot of my time drawing, listening to music, and getting deeply invested in story-heavy games and shows. Some of my absolute favorites are Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona, Deltarune, Steven Universe, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, The Amazing Digital Circus, and The Magnus Archives. I love diving into deep lore, symbolism, and character analysis, and I honestly love hearing people infodump passionately about the things they care about.

As far as communication goes, I definitely prefer texting at the beginning while we're getting to know each other, and we can move to voice calls once I start feeling comfortable. If this genuinely sounds like your vibe and matches what you're looking for, feel free to reach out. To start a conversation, tell me a bit about yourself and something you could talk about for hours.

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u/WakkoHat — 2 days ago

19 [NB4M] #Online — LF a long-term relationship and someone who loves a good story

Hey! I’m Raine (19, they/them). I'm looking for a guy who wants to build something real and meaningful over time; definitely not looking for hookups. Distance isn't a big deal to me, so I'm totally open to getting to know someone from anywhere!

A bit about me: I draw, I love music, and I’m a massive fan of story-driven stuff (Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona, Deltarune, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, TADC, Breaking Bad/Better Call Saul, and I actually just started House MD). I absolutely love hearing people ramble about the things they're passionate about, whether it's character analysis, worldbuilding, or breaking down a narrative.

I'm big on taking things at a comfortable pace and actually communicating. Also, I heavily prefer voice calls over endless texting once we get to know each other a bit; I make a much better dedicated co-pilot when we can actually hang out on call!

If we sound like a match, send me a message with a little intro and tell me about a piece of media you could talk about for hours.

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u/WakkoHat — 3 days ago

19NB (FL) looking for long-term friends!

Hey, I’m Raine (19, they/them). I’m from Florida and trying to find some actual long-term friends who enjoy deep chats and just hanging out.

I draw and get way too obsessed with story-driven games. Huge fan of Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona 5, Deltarune, Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss, and TADC. Also, I honestly love listening to people infodump, so feel free to rant to me about your hyperfixations even if I have no clue what they are.

Hit me up if we have anything in common! Shoot me a DM with a bit about yourself and whatever show or game you're currently obsessed with.

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u/WakkoHat — 3 days ago
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19 [NB4M] #Online #Florida — Non-binary person looking for a genuine long-term relationship

Hey! I’m Raine (19, they/them), from Florida, and I’m looking to meet a guy who’s interested in a genuine, long-term relationship.

I’m really into drawing, music, and story-driven games and shows. Some of my favorites are Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona, Deltarune, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, The Amazing Digital Circus, Breaking Bad, and Better Call Saul. I love talking about characters, stories, worldbuilding, and hearing people enthusiastically ramble about the things they enjoy.

Once we’re comfortable, I’m definitely a voice-call person. I think it’s a much better way to get to know someone than texting forever.

I’m looking for someone who’s interested in taking things slowly, communicating openly, and seeing whether we genuinely click. I’m not looking for hookups or FWBs: I’d rather build something meaningful over time.

If any of that sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re passionate about, and what’s a game, show, or piece of media you could talk about for hours.

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u/WakkoHat — 3 days ago

19NB from Florida looking for genuine, long-term friends

Hey, I’m Raine (19, they/them) from Florida! I’m here looking for some chill, long-term friends. I love having deep conversations and genuinely getting to know people over time.

I spend a lot of my free time drawing and getting way too invested in story-driven games. Some of my favorite things are Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona, Deltarune, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, and The Amazing Digital Circus. I also love hearing people infodump about their interests, even if I know absolutely nothing about the topic.

If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’ve been into lately, or what your current favorite game, show, or hobby is. I’d love to hear about it.

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u/WakkoHat — 4 days ago

19/NB looking for long-term Discord friends!

hey, i'm raine (19, they/them). looking to make some actual, genuine friends on here to chat with and hopefully play some games over time.

i'm super into indie games like OMORI, Deltarune, and OneShot, and i love shows like The Owl House, Helluva Boss, and Digital Circus. i also spend a lot of time drawing, listening to music (mostly indie/art-pop), and working on random creative projects.

i definitely prefer slower, natural conversations rather than forcing a vibe right away. i really appreciate people who are consistent and just kind. mostly looking for long-term friends and mutual chats, not really into short-term small talk or super dry interactions.

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u/WakkoHat — 6 days ago
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19 [NB4M] #Online — Non-binary person looking for a slow, genuine connection

Hi, I’m Raine (19, they/them), non-binary, and I’m only interested in men.

I’m here because I’d like to meet someone in a slow, natural way, starting from friendship and letting genuine compatibility develop over time. I’m not interested in hookups, casual arrangements, or anything rushed, so if that is your goal, we probably won’t be a match.
A bit about me: I enjoy drawing, games, animation, and storytelling. Some of my interests include OMORI, Persona, The Amazing Digital Circus, Helluva Boss, Hazbin Hotel, and similar creative media. I also really enjoy conversations that can range from thoughtful and reflective to casual everyday talk about life, hobbies, or whatever we’re both into.

I can be a little quiet at first, but I open up more as I get comfortable with someone. Consistency, patience, and clear communication matter a lot to me, and I appreciate people who are straightforward rather than disappearing or losing interest without explanation.
If you message me, I’d really appreciate something a bit more personal than just “hey.” I’d love to hear a bit about you, what you’re into, or what made you want to reach out.

That’s pretty much it :)

u/WakkoHat — 4 days ago
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19 [NB4M] #Online #Florida — Non-binary person looking for a genuine long-term relationship

Hey! I’m Raine (19, they/them). I’m non-binary, from Florida, and looking to meet a guy for a genuine, long-term relationship.

My main hobbies are drawing, music, and story-rich games. I'm really into Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, The Amazing Digital Circus, Doctor Who, OMORI, Persona, and Deltarune. I love hearing people talk about things they’re passionate about, and I’m a big fan of moving to voice calls once we get comfortable.

To be upfront: I’m strictly looking for something serious. No hookups or FWBs. I want someone who communicates, puts in actual effort, and doesn't ghost after a day. I don't want to rush anything either just looking to vibe, take it slow, and see if we actually click.

If that sounds good, hit me up!

Send a little about yourself and your favorite game or show so we have more to go off than just "hey."

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u/WakkoHat — 6 days ago
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I wish I had people to talk to

Every day is just the same thing. I don’t have anyone to talk to even through Im 19 and should have a successful social life, but I’m just unable to get people to stay. I feel so pathetic.

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u/WakkoHat — 6 days ago
▲ 93 r/toastme

It’s been a lonely year. Toast me?

Hey everyone. I’m 19, (non binary), and it’s been a pretty rough year. Between graduating high school, dealing with a lot of changes, and struggling with loneliness, I’ve been feeling a bit lost lately.

I’m a huge fan of Doctor Who, animation, drawing, video games, and all kinds of creative stuff. I try my best to be kind to people, even when life feels difficult, and I’m still figuring out what comes next now that school is over.

I guess I’m posting here because I could really use a little positivity today. Thanks for taking the time to stop by and read this. I hope you’re all having a good day.

u/WakkoHat — 6 days ago

19 | FL | Looking for actual friends (not just a one-day chat)

Hey, I’m Raine (they/them). Honestly, finding people online who actually stick around can be rough, so I’m really just looking to meet some open-minded people who want to put effort into a genuine, long-term friendship.

I’m massively into drawing, gaming, music, and cycling through way too many shows. My usual rotation includes Doctor Who, Hazbin Hotel, Good Omens, Helluva Boss, Heartstopper, The Amazing Digital Circus, The Owl House, OMORI, Deltarune, and Persona. I also draw and make music whenever my motivation decides to actually cooperate.

If you're looking for a real connection, shoot me a message!

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u/WakkoHat — 7 days ago

19 | Winter Haven, United States of America | Looking for a genuine connection

Hey! I'm Raine (19, they/them) from Florida
I'm putting myself out there to find a genuine, long-term relationship with someone kind, emotionally mature, and easy to talk to.

A bit about me: I love drawing, animation, gaming, and Doctor Who. I'm always down to geek out over shared interests! I'm definitely someone who prefers deep conversations over small talk, and I like taking things slow to really get to know a person rather than rushing into anything.

Ultimately, I'm looking for a solid connection built on honesty and trust. If you think we'd vibe, shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself!

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u/WakkoHat — 8 days ago

19NB | Looking for Long-Term Roblox Friends & Fellow Animation Fans

Hii! I’m Raine, 19, and I’m looking for some people to play Roblox with and hopefully build some genuine friendships along the way.

I recently decided to distance myself from a few unhealthy friendships, and it’s made me realize how much I value people who actually enjoy talking regularly and putting effort into getting to know each other.

Outside of Roblox, I’m a huge fan of Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, and The Amazing Digital Circus. I also enjoy chatting about animation, random internet things, favorite characters, lore, and whatever hyperfixation happens to take over my brain that week.

I’m usually pretty talkative once I get comfortable, and I genuinely enjoy checking in on friends and hearing about their day. Whether we’re playing games, sharing memes, talking about our interests, or just hanging out in a call, I’d love to meet some kind people who are looking for a long-term friendship too.

If that sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out!

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u/WakkoHat — 8 days ago
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Am I supposed to be this alone at 19?

I swear, everyone else at my age already has a perfect, welcoming social life. While Im over here barely able to get people to actually acknowledge I exist in the same room as them. I seriously feel like my ex-boyfriend rrally messed up my social skills when we were dating…

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u/WakkoHat — 8 days ago

19NB Looking for friends after my lonely graduation

Hii! Looking for some Roblox buddies after recently cutting a few toxic people out of my life. I’d love to meet people who are interested in actual friendships and who put effort into staying in contact instead of fading away after a few days.

I’m down to play games, chat, and get to know new people. If you’re looking for a genuine long-term friend, I’d love to talk!

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u/WakkoHat — 16 days ago
▲ 6 r/lonely

Post graduation loneliness “What was I supposed to do?”

Did anyone else just graduate without having a single friend? I just ended up skipping attending graduation because I don’t have anyone to talk to here in Florida and even online my relationships are extremely one-sided. I don’t know why nobody actually wants to get to know me.

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u/WakkoHat — 16 days ago