How to approach him? Pls help your girl out

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Saw his insta id in mutuals..he's my 2 friends classmate back till 10th, his profile is public with around 200 followers and I've caught myself visiting his profile 3-4 times now with my alt id. Told that friend she is convincing me to approach him now. But we don't know eachother I've never done smtg like this before idk how to even do this but he's sooooo fine omg😭😭

Help girls and guys!!!? He's a gym guy like full gym bro with athletic build and loves techno music? His bio says "just give me the aux"

He's doing engineering and is in 2nd year maybe? And ..I'm gonna start my college this year in God knows what course cuz I had 2 drops.

Pls help a girl out😭🥹🥹🥹

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u/Weird_Sea_5941 — 4 days ago

He said he's too fucked up for me.

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After making me fall in love with him over a year.

And left without a goodbye, our last conversation was our first major argument. It's been 5 days now and I still can't wrap my head around this. Crying like crazy..don't know what I'm eating what I'm watching. I reached out from another account since my main insta and wp are blocked. Didn't reply to my msg request and rejected my follow request twice.

The worst thing he could have said to me was..

"Yk what the worst thing about this was? I should have never come this far with you"

"Do i have to end up marrying you to justify the emotions and efforts"

"Fuck off genuinely"

I didn't even ask for a label just said that there's an imbalance, it's like he's too deep in my life, slowly peeling all my layers but I'm still standing at the doorway waiting for permission. He said he's incapable of giving me what I want.

Just blocked me like that .. without a goodbye.

Feels like shit rn. I had so many questions. What about me? What about my take..the things I had to say?

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u/Weird_Sea_5941 — 4 days ago
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2 drop years later feeling lost.

19 F, wanna know where's life taking me. If I'll be getting out of my hometown/city this year for higher studies. Is it academia and research or surgery and dental.

When can I see a peak in my career and financial independence?

u/Weird_Sea_5941 — 4 days ago

This ache in my chest where my heart was...cuz it belongs to you and idk if you left me forever or should I have hope of you returning.

My love,

I don't know if you'll ever read this, and I'm not sending it to convince you or make you feel guilty.

I just... I hate that our last conversation ended on a misunderstanding.

When I said "let me in", I wasn't asking to know every little thing about your day or interrogate your life. I was asking for something much smaller and much bigger at the same time. I just wanted to feel like I belonged in your world the way you belong in mine.

You spent that whole night explaining why you couldn't give me your whole life, while I kept wishing you'd understand that I wasn't asking for your whole life.

I know you're hurting. I know you've been honest with me from the start. I know you weren't trying to mislead me. That's not what broke me.

What broke me was that after a whole year, after calling me yours, after telling me you'd never run away... our first real difficult conversation ended with you disappearing.

If you blocked me because you genuinely need space, I'll respect that. I won't keep trying to force my way into your life.

I just wish you had let us end that conversation as us. With one goodbye. With one "take care". With anything that didn't make me wonder if the person I knew for a year could really leave like this.

Maybe I'm still misunderstanding you. Maybe you're still misunderstanding me.

I just hope one day, if you ever feel ready, we get one honest conversation where neither of us is trying to defend ourselves. Just... understand each other.

Your sweetheart.

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u/Weird_Sea_5941 — 7 days ago

Trying to make peace and slowly killing the hope that he's not coming back.

My love,

I don't know if this message will ever matter to you, and I'm not sending it to make you come back or change your decision.

There's just one thing I don't want to leave unsaid.

Somewhere along this year, I fell in love with you.

Not because you were perfect. Not because I expected you to fix my life. I just loved you. Your honesty, your care, the way you existed in my life.

Maybe you already knew. Maybe you didn't.

The saddest part for me isn't even that you said you couldn't give me more. It's that I never got the chance to tell you this without it becoming part of an ending.

If you truly need distance, I'll respect it.

I just hope that whenever you think of me, you remember that I loved you with honesty. I never wanted to change you. I only wanted to feel close to you.

Your sweetheart.

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u/Weird_Sea_5941 — 7 days ago

Hey seniors, please guide!

Hi everyone so I gave re neet 26 it was my second drop and scoring 500.. according to rank predictors I may get ~50-55k rank. I'm from Delhi, and wanted to know if I can get any govt dental colleges in this rank range?

Pls don't ignore, thanks.

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u/Weird_Sea_5941 — 13 days ago