u/Wild-Camera7441

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

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I'm currently going Builda full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

Please help

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

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Building a full pickle-ordering ecommerce site for a relative's small business.

Scope

React frontend — home/catalog, product pages, cart, checkout, login, user profile, order history

Java Spring Boot backend + Spring Security (auth, sessions)

Relational database (users, products, orders, payments)

Live payment gateway, needs to accept orders from anywhere globally, real shipping to real addresses

Full deployment — live domain, hosting, SSL, production-ready

Solo dev (me), ~48 days from spec to launch

What would you quote for this as a freelancer, and honestly —

is 48 days realistic for one person doing this for the first time end-to-end?

Trying to set a fair price, not lowball myself or overcharge family.

I'm planning to go to quater Peter indiranagar ..

with a small croud if possible.

I went there yesterday as well .

It's been two days I'm in banglore. I'm not doing any thing... So planning to meet up people.

ANYONE interested can dm

Need honest female perspective because I think I’m genuinely falling in love with this girl and my brain is confused between “this is real” vs “I’m emotionally overattached” 😭

We’ve known each other for a while and already met 3 times.

First date went really well.

Second time was on her birthday — she had literally told everyone she didn’t want to meet anyone that day, but still met me. I messed up the restaurant reservations and felt terrible, but instead of getting annoyed she took me to her favorite place, held my hand while we walked around, and spent the whole evening with me even though she was sick.

Third time was when I was leaving Bangalore during one of the worst phases of my life (friends drifting away, quitting job, broke, mentally low, confused about life). She ordered my favorite food for me, insisted on paying the bill herself, got excited about doing it, and genuinely looked sad that I was leaving.

We recently planned another meet but I had to cancel because things at home became messy and emotionally overwhelming. She still talks normally with me, jokes around, sends reels and everything, but my brain keeps overthinking whether I disappointed her badly.

And the thing is… I already wanted to send her Valentine’s gifts months ago but stopped myself because I didn’t even have a stable job yet and felt insecure about where my life was going.

I don’t know what exactly is happening between us anymore. It feels deeper than friendship to me, but I’m scared I’m emotionally reading too much into things because life has been rough lately.

From a woman’s perspective:

- do her actions sound emotionally meaningful?

- do girls usually behave this way with “just friends”?

- how do you know when something is slowly becoming love instead of just emotional comfort?

Please be honest 😭

Need honest female perspective because I think I’m genuinely falling in love with this girl and my brain is confused between “this is real” vs “I’m emotionally overattached” 😭

We’ve known each other for a while and already met 3 times.

First date went really well.

Second time was on her birthday — she had literally told everyone she didn’t want to meet anyone that day, but still met me. I messed up the restaurant reservations and felt terrible, but instead of getting annoyed she took me to her favorite place, held my hand while we walked around, and spent the whole evening with me even though she was sick.

Third time was when I was leaving Bangalore during one of the worst phases of my life (friends drifting away, quitting job, broke, mentally low, confused about life). She ordered my favorite food for me, insisted on paying the bill herself, got excited about doing it, and genuinely looked sad that I was leaving.

We recently planned another meet but I had to cancel because things at home became messy and emotionally overwhelming. She still talks normally with me, jokes around, sends reels and everything, but my brain keeps overthinking whether I disappointed her badly.

And the thing is… I already wanted to send her Valentine’s gifts months ago but stopped myself because I didn’t even have a stable job yet and felt insecure about where my life was going.

I don’t know what exactly is happening between us anymore. It feels deeper than friendship to me, but I’m scared I’m emotionally reading too much into things because life has been rough lately.

From a woman’s perspective:

- do her actions sound emotionally meaningful?

- do girls usually behave this way with “just friends”?

- how do you know when something is slowly becoming love instead of just emotional comfort?

Please be honest 😭

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I recently turned 25 and currently with the life's going scenarios and situations I can't take this anymore and i genuinely can't feel like I can go on anymore...

I feel like few months me is worlds apart and 2025 me and 2024, 2023 me are completely different.

I don't have a job, i quit it recently, and I don't have a own house, not to mention a bike, a car as well.

Nothing. And I feel like a failure. With everyone around me doing great, my friends are in foreign and graduating , getting job, marrying, and doing great in media.. I can't take this anymore.

I have failed plans, and failed missions. I can't...

My therapist is not taking my sessions because of issues from her side and I don't have any support..

I feel like shit rn.

Im sorry .

I am a failure.

I recently turned 25 and currently with the life's going scenarios and situations I can't take this anymore and i genuinely can't feel like I can go on anymore...

I feel like few months me is worlds apart and 2025 me and 2024, 2023 me are completely different.

I don't have a job, i quit it recently, and I don't have a own house, not to mention a bike, a car as well.

Nothing. And I feel like a failure. With everyone around me doing great, my friends are in foreign and graduating , getting job, marrying, and doing great in media.. I can't take this anymore.

I have failed plans, and failed missions. I can't...

My therapist is not taking my sessions because of issues from her side and I don't have any support..

I feel like shit rn.

Im sorry .

I am a failure.