u/Worth_Alternative_50

I never get to be with my partner all the time or see them face to face. I hate it so much. Then I get upset and bored that I'm not getting attention from them bc they're never around, so I "cheat" bc it doesn't feel like a real relationship anyway then they leave bc of my
"cheating". Maybe it's bc I don't have a car yet and am still living with family. But even at college in my dorm, it was an issue. So when I do get a car and graduate college soon, I need to start going outside and meeting people face to face so I can feel like I have a real connection with someone. Any other advice?

My therapist is kinda flirting with me. I do like him and I always talk to him about my dating life, how I’m really obsessed with wanting to get married, my abandonment issues, etc. He compliments me a lot saying I’m a beautiful woman, I have a lot to offer, I’m smart and intelligent, he wants to see my college graduation pictures since I’m graduating in a month, and wants to take me out for Chinese. Anyway, I do like him as a therapist and I really do want a long term relationship bc I’ve never been in one. But I don’t want him to lose his job and license. What should I do?

I met a really cool guy back in the beginning of January. We hooked up 3 days after meeting, ate me out in his car and gave me the most amazing orgasm of my life, then we’ve just been texting everyday ever since. He was really sweet and nice to me and really hot, but kept making it clear at times to tell me that we weren’t dating. I got really attached to him bc he cared about my pleasure and gave me so much attention. Then it all kind of stopped last month bc he knows I do sex work and he told me no guy would ever date me or anything, so I told him I have a fiancé (which I kind of do, and there are men who marry sex workers) and he said we’re done talking. My heart is really broken and I want to talk to him again. He felt like my best friend. We talked every day for months and how he’s just gone

I met a really cool guy back in the beginning of January. We hooked up 3 days after meeting, ate me out in his car and gave me the most amazing orgasm of my life, then we’ve just been texting everyday ever since. He was really sweet and nice to me and really hot, but kept making it clear at times to tell me that we weren’t dating. I got really attached to him bc he cared about my pleasure and gave me so much attention. Then it all kind of stopped last month bc he knows I do sex work and he told me no guy would ever date me or anything, so I told him I have a fiancé (which I kind of do, and there are men who marry sex workers) and he said we’re done talking. My heart is really broken and I want to talk to him again. He felt like my best friend. We talked every day for months and how he’s just gone

I met a really cool guy back in the beginning of January. We hooked up 3 days after meeting, ate me out in his car and gave me the most amazing orgasm of my life, then we’ve just been texting everyday ever since. He was really sweet and nice to me and really hot, but kept making it clear at times to tell me that we weren’t dating. I got really attached to him bc he cared about my pleasure and gave me so much attention. Then it all kind of stopped last month bc he knows I do sex work and he told me no guy would ever date me or anything, so I told him I have a fiancé (which I kind of do, and there are men who marry sex workers) and he said we’re done talking. My heart is really broken and I want to talk to him again. He felt like my best friend. We talked every day for months and how he’s just gone

I met a really cool guy back in the beginning of January. We hooked up 3 days after meeting, ate me out in his car and gave me the most amazing orgasm of my life, then we’ve just been texting everyday ever since. He was really sweet and nice to me and really hot, but kept making it clear at times to tell me that we weren’t dating. I got really attached to him bc he cared about my pleasure and gave me so much attention. Then it all kind of stopped last month bc he knows I do sex work and he told me no guy would ever date me or anything, so I told him I have a fiancé (which I kind of do, and there are men who marry sex workers) and he said we’re done talking. My heart is really broken and I want to talk to him again. He felt like my best friend. We talked every day for months and now that’s just, gone.

I’m banned from all dating apps now anyway, which I’m glad about bc I wanna start talking to people in real life again.

Whenever I do try to interact with men irl, I feel like they just laugh at me or try to keep their distance. I had a group of 3 guys literally run away from me bc I thought they were trying to talk to me. I was at college, sitting by myself on a bench outside the dining hall, and heard them say or snicker something in my direction. So I walked up to them to see what they wanted or if they were trying to talk to me, and they said one of them was shy, then he said “what do I have to be shy about?” then they all laughed and ran away. And whenever they saw me around campus after that, they’d still laugh and run away. I tried to go to my school’s title IX bc I thought it was SH but they said it wasn’t. Idk if this makes sense, sorry.

But yeah any ways to approach men in the wild?

I'm horrified about the 1% risk of pregnancy with birth control (and condoms break) but this man keeps wanting to put his dick in me. He just thinks I'm not attracted to him or want him. I am terrified of sex! It has nothing to do with attraction. There's always a 1% risk of pregnancy and he doesn't care smh.

The last time we tried to have sex, I apparently scratched him bc I was freaking out and scared. He said I!! made him uncomfortable and that he wanted to leave. How the hell was HE the one uncomfortable when I was clearly having a panic attack.

Edit for context. He has 3 kids and 2 baby moms, so understandably I’m upset and afraid to touch him. I know everyone keeps telling me to leave him but I just feel like I don’t have options. Or that I’ll meet someone who’s compatible. Like a woman or trans man or just anyone who won’t want to put things inside me.

Not one, but TWO TRANS GUYS ASKED ME OUT! 🥰🥰

I want a man that doesn’t have a dick so bad ugh 😩 I’m so sorry if this is insensitive to anyone. I just don’t know if I’m gay or straight or ace, bc I do like men, just not dick/being penetrated, bc I’m deathly afraid of pregnancy. So I don’t want dick near me at all down there, and only like receiving oral sex. Anyway, the people I’ve been meeting on the HER app are really nice

They’re accepting of me not liking penetration ☺️ and screw everyone on here saying I’m not ace. The definition is LITTLE to no sexual attraction. Can’t I be ace/abstinent if I only like oral/being rubbed?

Not one, but TWO TRANS GUYS ASKED ME OUT! 🥰🥰

I want a man that doesn’t have a dick so bad ugh 😩 I’m so sorry if this is insensitive to anyone. I just don’t know if I’m gay or straight or ace, bc I do like men, just not dick/being penetrated, bc I’m deathly afraid of pregnancy. So I don’t want dick near me at all down there, and only like receiving oral sex. Anyway, the people I’ve been meeting on the HER app are really nice

They’re accepting of me not liking penetration ☺️ and screw everyone on here saying I’m not ace. The definition is LITTLE to no sexual attraction. Can’t I be ace/abstinent if I only like oral/being rubbed?

I want to be married, but am afraid of having sex/not even able to because I always tense and clench up whenever anything tries to go in (potential vaginismus). My main fear is getting pregnant even with condoms and birth control bc condoms break and no birth control is 100% effective. I only like receiving oral sex and being rubbed down there (sorry for the TMI). So I want to be with a man and get married, but because I don’t like penetrative sex, people just say I should be a lesbian or asexual, but those communities won’t accept me. So I guess I am just abstinent, not fully celibate, bc I only like oral. So yeah, just yapping. How would I find someone to marry me with all of this?

I’ve been in therapy but it isn’t really helping and I finally found a psychologist but he just always says I’m an attractive young woman with a lot to offer just bc I’m in college I guess. I graduate this August, still living with parents, and don’t drive yet.

I did/do have a fiancé (37M) but he has 3 kids with 2 women that he didn’t marry, and of course I’m afraid to have sex with him. We’ve only done it once, properly. He just thinks I’m not attracted to him. But I’m just afraid he’ll leave me a single mom like he did them. He does take care of them and his kids, though, but he isn’t married to them, which upsets me. He said they intentionally got pregnant, but I don’t get how bc it’s his sperm. We kind of argue every time the topic comes up.

Hii! I’ve always wanted to be a SWer bc I just love getting sexual attention from men as proof that I’m desirable. I did OF a few years ago but quit bc I didn’t really know what I was doing, only made $100 a month which apparently isn’t good, and I wanted a relationship/marriage and for men to take me seriously. Now I learned that there are men who marry sex workers and I want that for me. I also have vaginismus so I don’t like being penetrated. I’m only good with receiving and giving oral sex.

My point is I learned about findom and I want to be that, but want advice. I post a lot on my X page but am really discouraged bc I see a lot of other “Goddesses” posting about how they have a lot of subs who send them money and I’ve gotten nothing yet. The only advice I’ve been getting is that it’s a “luck of the draw”, that they’ll come to be, and don’t talk to men for free. But how do I attract real paypigs? Men keep messaging me asking for free things and saying they’ll pay after, but I know now that that’s bullshit. I know how to stand up for myself now but where do I find the good men that will pay me FIRST and not waste time? People at my school are making fun of me bc I’m doing porn but not making money.