u/YamNo5010

I work in HR .

I have been feeling so depressed for some time .

I was doing work for 2 people from last year and now they have decided to give me one person to share a workload .

But since I am old I know workload will always be on me and thus new joinee will take some time to understand things.

Everyday I feel so anxious going to the office .On top of that i am underpaid. The rest of my colleagues get to leave early and they are always having fun with each other.

I sit alone in a separate office from the main HR Team.as I am looking after another unit alone.

I am thinking of resigning without any offer.

I think my mental health and this stress for the past 1 year will haunt me in a longer Run.

I don't enjoy going to the office.

I hate it

What should I do

Please can someone refer me to their company for HR job

I work in an indian manufacturing firm.

No matter how much you handle workload they will always pay salary according to experience.

They have their salary structure according to exp.

Literally we have a manager working in my depot who gets to leave early but we stay behind to do work.

Some people are just lucky to be present at a certain job roles.

Going to turn 29 soon

Parents are so hell bound on marriage.

I kind of live in a town which is developing.

I want my partner to know about the world, tv shows , and sports.

Parents are looking for girls from my native village or area and I am damn sure they don't know much about things like we know .

Like what if am watching one piece and she will make fun of me watching cartoon.

I love animated movies. Love football .

Like to hear English songs .

It's like we will ruin each other lives and it's not fault of other girl also.

Sab kehte hain shadi toh karni padegi.

My mother remains ill . sometimes I think I should marriage with a village girl which can handle our home

But I would like to have a working partner and managing the home equally. Don't know if it will work out or not .

I don't know if a city girl will be content with me.

I have never been to cafes, restaurants and theatre much . But would love to do with my future partner. But I hope she doesn't get frustrated with my lack of inexperience in dating and other stuff.

Not satisfied with career as well .I don't earn much .

Kind of income u can expect in towns .

But i like living here.

If possible I want to travel with my partner all over India .

That's why I am avoiding marriage .Maybe parents will one day get tired with me and leave me alone. They ask me to make my biodata and send pics to them but I don't do that lol.

I am fighting with my beliefs.

What's your story ?

I am from the Obc community.Wanted to ask about the OBC NLC certificate for central govt exams .

Would be grateful for any help

Please hear my story out.

I will turn 29 soon .Doing a private job that pays only 25k

I was good in studies.Could have cracked govt exams and cleared CA exams but i never got the fire from inside to study hard .

I discovered football in 2010 and I immediately got fascinated by football. I love doing dribbling. I learned so many skills on my own and I was good at it.

There is nothing in world which I love more than football .I can't be a footballer at this stage but I want to remain around the football ground.

I want to know how I can make a career in football.

How to become a coach ? Or something?

I don't like doing my private job. Everyday is hell.

I am unmarried as well so I can take risks.

I never get bored and frustrated from football.

I adore football.

Please help your brother.

6+128

Is it good deal ?

I never paid attention to my hair, beard, and what clothes to wear . Never groomed myself in my early 20s or teenage years.

Now I have started to focus on it the past few months.

Some people have complimented my face that it looks good and they assume that I have something to my hair and face skin. But I have done nothing extraordinary.

I just improved my diet slightly.

Still there is room for a lot of my improvement.

Will turn 29 in 2 months.i don't know why I feel so scared that I am reaching my 30s .

I want to focus on my health as I want to live as long as possible without any major disease.

I have never been in a relationship or in love ( don't regret much about it in daytime ).

Probably will end up single for the rest of my life. So that's why I want to improve myself so that I can live on my own.

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M28

I hate going to my job.

I don't even want to travel places ( but maybe I never tried traveling)

I just want to sit at home doing nothing maybe some gardening,reading and watching shows .

I feel my office as a cage.Like where i get trapped for 9-10 hours .and then I wait for Sunday to come and then disappear soon.

Only 2nd Saturday is off for us.

No friend I my hometown.Only some kids with whom I occasionally play football and I love it .Seeing those kids who don't know about the cruel world after college makes me remind of my days.

How I am supposed to do it for another 25-30 years

Already decided not to marry as I am not content my myself and we are poor af. But what else I can do beside some low paying private jobs.

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Same as title

I took loan for plot purchase but something happened now it is being delayed.

I have 10L sitting in my account for last 6 months doing nothing.

Can I put in some safe mutual fund for some return even if it is small.

Like someone is living away from their home state and relatives and it's hard to find girls from your caste there for arrange marriage.

It's enough for me

What one thing you did in your childhood that is unheard of ?

I was a huge fan of animated movies when I was a kid. I watched so many Disney movies, and they always fascinated and amazed me.

I used to watch the end credits of those movies and write down the directors' names in the Notes app on my mother's keypad phone. I thought that when I grew up, I would meet them one day and thank them for making those wonderful movies. Hahahaha!

My craze for animated movies continued until my early twenties. I watched almost every famous animated movie out there—literally all of them.

At one point, I even started downloading lesser-known animated movies from Australia and other countries just to satisfy my appetite for them.

I don't know exactly when it happened, but my interest in movies and TV shows faded after I started doing job and responsibilities.

Some of my favorite animated movies are:

Toy Story

Madagascar

A Bug's Life

Ice Age

Cars

UP

Kung fu panda

The pets life

Over the hedge

Wreck it Ralph

Ratatouille

Flused away

Monster INC

Finding Nemo

COCO

Inside out

Shark tale

Rio

Zootopia

And many more that I can't remember right now. And anime movie deserves another post .Like studio Ghibli is a universe of its own.

Btw how many of u know about cartoon show called Recess ? I loved it.

How someone who is avarage or below average can change their life for good ?

Average studies and average job(non technical )which is not enough to live comfortably for even 2 person.

Have u seen someone who has done this like in your locality ?

There are lot of problems if we don't get married in same status family .

My sister's mother in law is such a horrible person.

We didn't know about this side of her .

She purposely married her son with our sister so that she can control everyone of our family.

Also didn't take dowry but she expect a grand marrige which we did by taking loans .

My father and I did mistake after seeing their wealth and properties. They own some business.

Husband have to explain every expenditure he makes on himself and my sister .

All properties and finance is with his parents.

My sister rarely visits us as her mother in law don't allow it and my sister can't even talk openly with us on phone.

My sister's MIL keep sending money to her daughter.

Daughter and mother always keep plotting against my sister .

What exactly happened after Covid that women have become so independent, fierce and confident ?

Though many girls and women are still unaware of what they could do .In cities and towns I have seen major shift how women now carry themselves.

Growing up in the 2010s era, it's fascinating to see the change.

Wish I would have guided my sister but she is a traditional housewife constantly being troubled by her mother in law.I feel sad about it . Her husband is good but Mama's boy.

Sry it's a confusing post.

It's funny thing to ask.

Is there any one here who isn't getting a girl in AM setup ? Like you parents are getting failed .lol