u/alexgrae9614

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Firing a PostPartum doula

So I terminated a contract with a PostPartum doula, I terminated the contract on 4-28-2026, and should be receiving a check in the mail within 30 days “based on the bank, her words” I fired her for guilt tripping, trauma dumping, lack of professionalism, her saying babies were yucky, so on and so forth. I have Medicaid and she said she takes it, however we also paid 1500 out of pocket up front. We paid with an HSA card. I want opinions on when I should dispute the claim with the HSA company.

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u/alexgrae9614 — 5 days ago
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Postpartum Doula

So I terminated a contract with a PostPartum doula, I terminated the contract on 4-28-2026, and should be receiving a check in the mail within 30 days “based on the bank, her words” I fired her for guilt tripping, trauma dumping, lack of professionalism, her saying babies were yucky, so on and so forth. I have Medicaid and she said she takes it, however we also paid 1500 out of pocket up front. We paid with an HSA card. I want opinions on when I should dispute the claim with the HSA company.

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u/alexgrae9614 — 5 days ago

Please reach out!!

I don’t know who remembers my last post but I was actively su*****. I went inpatient Sunday night and feel more like myself! Got to feed my little one and for the first time I didn’t feel like a chore… if you are struggling with PPD then please reach out for help!

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u/alexgrae9614 — 6 days ago

First Mothers Day- Trigger Warning

Needless to say I almost ended inpatient, we don’t have anyone to keep our 3 month old and my partner goes back to work tomorrow. PPD is kicking my ass and we are trying (therapist, psychiatrist and I) are trying to avoid psychosis… I am a recovering self-harmed. I convinced him to let me get a blade today for safe keeping, it’s in our safe, I don’t have a key and it’s only for if I get to the point where I can’t handle it anymore… I told him if it gets any worse I’m gonna end up dead due to my own doing. This shit is hard and my body has recovered but my brain literally is losing its shit. I am safe at this point in time. I just know there might come a time where I might not be.

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u/alexgrae9614 — 12 days ago

First time mom, son is 3 months old. My best friend got us a lion king backpack off of Etsy but it is not big enough. I’m opening to any recommendations around $200 or lower!

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u/alexgrae9614 — 19 days ago

We have the 20% off at Target for dropping off a car seat. I was looking at the Joie Pepper Spin SI Rotating 4in1 seat. We currently have the Ginger/Mint latch system by Joie and have been very satisfied.

Is there a better seat that rotates and grows with baby? My guy is 3 months old but very tiny. So we’ve got awhile just wanna use the coupon before it expires!

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u/alexgrae9614 — 20 days ago

So we had our Ped appointment today, they switched us to Hypoallergenic formula and added in Pepcid for reflux issues since we are still not on the growth curve and slowly dropping weight. We have to go back in a week for another weight check.

My question: in your experience what is the most tolerated hypoallergenic formula as far as taste goes? We’d prefer to use something that comes in a larger can as we have to fortify the formula to 24 calories.

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u/alexgrae9614 — 25 days ago