u/aokocat

Am I amazing and talented and awesome or what 😏

None of the tips, tricks, fashion ideas etc. anyone suggests on here help me at this point, no posts about sales have been able to help me in a long time, my clothing choices are t shirts (yes, anything else will show the one bra that fits, there's genuinely no way to prevent that), I just feel like once you hit a certain size you can no longer relate to like... "normal" big sized boobs? Idk. I'm sad, when I was a smaller size I was able to find many friends on reddit with the same size and problems. Putting this under rant advice welcome in the off chance anyone knows a community better suited for me but I highly doubt it, I've searched before and only came across fetish content in the past sadly.

I'm tiredddddd

Damn, what do I do for the next 12 days at work now :( genuinely distraught looking at the schedule and also wondering what they need two weeks off for when they never mentioned going on vacation 😕

I'm autistic and have a fear of driving, and have a very odd family dynamic where my mother does not want me to get a license and drive (she doesn't work, I financially support her, I imagine this must tie in to that). Despite being autistic and not having a license being a big challenge, I have been excelling at my job recently and have been starting to gain a sense of personal accomplishment and pride that's given (or did give me) enough confidence to feel ready to learn driving a lil bit. I asked my mom to let me drive around the neighborhood and to shorten this story up she ended up screaming at the top of her lungs about how I am a stupid piece of shit, never will get my license, cops are coming after me, I'm a dissapointment, etc etc etc (my steering is not smooth, I tend to overestimate how hard I need to turn). Not exaggerating about her screaming, my ears were seriously hurting it was so loud. I was in complete shock and the pressure of trying to drive while she was doing that was terrifying, but anyways she ended up making me pull over, kicked me out and made me walk home. Guys I'm crushed, every time I think about driving my heart hurts thinking about this. I don't know if I should believe in myself and believe I have potential and she's just crazy OR believe I'm really that bad and give up. I just do not know. I told my coworkers I am close to getting my license and that is so not true, I basically lied to them out of shame. It's a taboo to not drive in my town. I walk everywhere and people assume I'm homeless because of it. My bosses want to give me a promotion but I feel like such a faker, how can I be so good at work and not be able to do this thing everyone else can, I must just be scraping by and no one knows yet. I am so scared I'm truly a piece of shit incapable of this like she says and I fear taking a professional lesson in case they confirm it and then I'm just out a 100 bucks and will have no hope left at all. Plus, it's an hour away and she won't take me anyways. I find myself asking what the hell am I going to do many times throughout the day. There is no uber / bus / taxi here. I have never tried a professional lesson before. I so badly want to believe she is the problem and the answer is to not expect any help from her going forward, but I can't help but give in to what she says and I'm tempted to accept I can't do it. I am not a religious person but the situation is so depressing to me I sometimes pray for courage and strength to get out of this situation tbh. If you're in a similar situation or better yet worked your way out of a similar situation feel free to let me know, I'd love to know I'm not alone or that there's a possibility this can be turned around.

Just curious so I can compare my times to y'all's 👀🤫

Bought a week and a half ago and lose a percentage of battery every couple of minutes. Usually down to 50% after 8 hour work shift where I check my phone a handful of times. What the fuck?

Scared as hell that the sizing is going to be wrong, even more scared that the shape is gonna be irreconcilable and I'll truly, finally be out of options for my evil ass boob shape (have been told for years to try EM for my narrow root, close set FOT, havent wanted to shell out the money, been forcing myself into Elomi instead which is probably the opposite of what I need). Decided on Ewa instead of Bravissimo so I didn't have to sister size. Genuinely praying this works after getting fitted in person at Breakout Bras and going home with sister size bras that still hurt after an hour ahahaha (crying crying). Pray for me guys?? I am scared but super excited too, it's coming in just a few days!