u/beyondhelp7854
This app would be saved by a NO filter
If I want to screen out women who "sometimes" or "never" exercise, I can't. There are women who clearly exercising IN ONE OF THEIR PICTURES that don't answer the prompt.
Same thing with politics. Why cant I just say no "moderates", "apoliticals", or "conservatives"? What if I don't need someone intentionally liberal but I DEFINITELY don't want someone intentionally anything else.
Telling people to join clubs to meet a romantic partner assumes they dont have a life already
I do not have the time or energy to deal with an entirely new social circle. I don't want to make a season-long commitment to give up hours of my weekend. I have friends. I have things I like to do. My cup is full, so to speak, so the thought of adding more to it on the off chance I'll meet a partner sounds exponentially worse than just being alone.
How's speed dating these days?
Are you gentlemen/ladies sitting down with attractive people? Ive heard that men dont go to these, but it always looks like the men part is sold out.
Why do we pretend like there aren't a lot of factors that influence whether expectations are considered respectful or controlling?
I remember having an ex that towards the end, complained about the fact that being in a relationship meant they had to "feel bad" if they made out with someone else. Obviously I told them, "you don't have to, but Im not going to stay with you if you do".
And I keep thinking about the fact that even though society would call them an asshole, there are probably lots of things they did that affected me where it would be "controlling" to ask them to address it
Best everyday jeans I can beat up a little. Ideally with spandex
I need a good pair of black jeans. Im fine paying Ironheart prices, but I need jeans that I can wear every other day, wash every two weeks (hanging and babying is fine ].
Im a huge fan of Buckle Jeans. I like that they have a percentage of spandex. The problem is that they fade quickly