u/doubleGvots19

New to the single life and I recently accepted my bisexuality. I’ve been super into women lately and I want to try and be with one.

Every time I think I find a cute, fun girl she either has a man or wants a threesome. It’s so difficult and I didn’t realize how many couples want a third. It’s fine that they want a third I just get disappointed once they tell me that’s the goal of being on the app

I just got out of a long relationship and honestly the idea of being with another man rn makes me uncomfortable. It just sucks. Rant over

Edit: it’s not too many I’ve just had too many interactions where I’ve swiped and then I get hit with “I have a fiancée” or “I’m in a couple” and it’s wildly disappointing. Look for a unicorn all you want if that’s what you’re into but don’t tell me after we’ve already agreed to meet up

I (24F) live in Elgin and due to some unfortunate life changes, I find myself with some nice downtime after work.
I’m struggling a bit to meet new people outside of work and wondering if anyone knows of or is apart of some fun clubs in / around the area!

I’ve reached my breaking point. I’m numb and unhappy. I know that’s what I have to repeat to myself to stay strong and commit to leaving him but how do you look at him and stay strong?

I know in a way he manipulates me to stay I’m just nervous I’m going to cave as soon as he starts crying and trying to talk me out of it because I’m so concerned with his feeling and his future that’s there’s a part of me willing to risk unhappiness to keep him comfortable. Our relationship is not healthy and I feel like I’m the only one who sees that so when I try and break up he talks me out of it.

I just don’t know how to do this I guess. This is my first breakup, he’s my high school sweetheart and my first bf. I’ve talked to my mom and when she says she sees in me what she went through with my dad, I know it’s time to say goodbye. I guess I just want some peer to peer advice on ending a long term relationship.

Well basically the title. I (24f) have been in a relationship with my bf (24M) for 7 years. 8 this year. Over the last few months I’ve come to realize my bisexuality and I recently came out to him.

Lately I’ve been very into women and it makes me feel badly for him. We have had our issues over the last year and honestly if things don’t work out with him I want to be with a woman but I also just feel like I’m not being fair to him during all this.

I’ve talked with him about it and he’s honestly super insecure and has been our whole relationship so when I came out to him he only really thought of himself and if we were breaking up over it and if I was still attracted to him. Idk I’ve just been thinking a lot and there’s a part of me that just feels like I’m not being loyal or faithful to him since, honestly, all I can think about is kissing another woman. He’s been supportive and says he’s here if I “need time” but I don’t know what that means and he’s asked me if I wanted to experiment and I said yes. He acts like he wants to get married but hasn’t purposed and we aren’t living together. Ugh I don’t need to bore you with my own personal drama.

I’m just wondering if anyone else had similar experiences and has any advice, thanks for reading!

I (24f) have been in the industry for 5 years and I love it. I love being creative, the adrenaline, the atmosphere, and just food in general. I have gone to school overseas twice for schooling and I feel like I am just getting started.

However, there is a major elephant in the room that I have ignored but lately it has become harder and harder. I have a chronic stomach condition. No one knows what it is or what causes my constant pain and nausea. It is just labeled as IBS but its much more than that. The heat of the kitchen obviously doesn't help and neither does being on my feet all day.

When I get sick, it is way worse than it should be and it always causes my stomach to keep me down for days at a time. My first kitchen job I was out for two weeks because I got the stomach flu.

To make a long story short, I was to stay in this industry so badly I truly have no idea what else I would do with my life but I fear that this career might not be the best for my health.

Is there any job out there that would let me be in this industry but not have it take such a toll on my body? Any advice is welcomed, Thanks to everyone who read my rant <3