u/duckduckgoose911

If you see someone doing something you think is lazy assume they are doing it for accessibility. You will find yourself less annoyed.

Phone app you think it’s stupid: accessibility
Kitchen gadgets you think is totally useless: accessibility.
Someone sitting in disabled section of the bus: accessibility

Found it is better to assume something is for accessibility purposes than stupid ones. If you are asking yourself why would anyone do that, thinking about how it could be used to make life more accessible makes you happier.

You end up happier. And more enjoyable to be around

Edited for better examples

I have no idea how to feel. I feel as if my world has just broke like I am shocked and confused. I feel guilty.

He abused me for almost a year. I was 15-16. There were 8 other girls youngest was 13. He was 21. Cops said the thousands of discord messages were not enough evidence. I have moved on I am happier than ever. Me and the other women tried to warn his current partner we tried. He sent me to the hospital to the psych ward. I had a flashback of him last night.AND HE IS GETTING MARRIED.

I just feel stupid

I went to withdraw 100+ dollars. Suddenly my account has been closed. I want my money.

I have my reference ID and have opened a ticket but I swear to god. I want my money. I want answers

I am gen Z. Why do none of my peers respect other people’s time.

Planned to go to pride with 2 friends (who did not know each other) one of them asked what time I will be there. I rush to get there. They are not there. Say they are on their way don’t arrive for another 4 HOURS.

Trying to make plans with friends. One is busy and can’t make it. Set a time with the other one. We (partner and I) are hosting. I turn down other plans. Partner moves a shift. We wake up early to get the house ready.

30 min before friend is meant to arrive the one who can’t make it texts asks if they can join us around 5pm (it’s noon.) Sure.

Then actually can we do it at their house. NOPE. My partner and I have cleaned and bought food. Also they live with their parents, hosted last time and bedroom is not big enough to fit all of us. Also it’s an hour bus drive for us.

Then actually they will be here around 7.

Friend who was planning on coming earlier says they actually will be here around 5pm because the other friend won’t be here till late. FINNNEEEE

Anyway now I got up early for no reason, am now going to have to make a dinner, turned down plans I could have gone to, and my partner moved a shift for no reason.

What is it with people having no respect for others time.

It’s bullshit.

EDIT: Friend who we changed all the plans for just canceled. FUCK THIS SHIT

We want to camp Saturday to Sunday. I know they are all booked but what about first come first serve? Do we have any chance of that? Disperse camping? Any shot at that? Where would be the best place to go? I just don’t want to drive somewhere and have nowhere to sleep. Ok getting there super early.

I like a show that has at least one pregnancy storylines per season. I know it can be kind of like misogynistic and I obviously want depth to female characters but I love it when like in any book or show or any media you get a surprise pregnancy, planned pregnancy, completed pregnancy just any of it.

So my partner and I live in a small 1 bedroom apartment. I am in some mutual aid groups and so sometimes we say people can crash on our couch (air mattress) we have two main house rules that we tell people from the get go. Please do not have sex/jack off while here we have very thin walls and there is no way it could be private enough for us to feel comfortable. Second one is please don’t use or be clearly on any substances (including alcohol) while in our home.

We have two people hear tonight who needed a place to crash we told them our rules and they agreed. But said for the sex rule they are hyper sexual and can they do it if we are not home. Which I said yes.

Anyway they are here and just making both me and my partner uncomfortable I do not trust them to follow either of the rules we have. It’s late and they would not be able to get into a shelter but my partner and I are both so uncomfortable and don’t like the vibe.

What can we do? We are just feeling so uncomfortable but it feels really evil to kick them out

I am 19 they are 20. I know it’s a bad idea.

We have been together for 3 years. We have been homeless together, traveled internationally, been camping (heard that was make or break for a lot of people), had a miscarriage, I have had multiple major major health issues and we have gotten through them all they take care of me and have had to be my caregiver for a bit.

We have worked together. Met each others extended family (including their maga family)

We have never had a disagreement that has not included giggles and a side conversation (no matter how serious the disagreement)

We have an obsession with ducks (we have a painting of ourselves as ducks and so so many duck items)

Not once have I questioned our relationship, we live together we got through the roommate phase. They are my second half. We are up each night giggling, I have never felt this connected to anyone. I want to spend my life with them. I want to make them smile every day, I want to be weird with them for eternity.

They have a laugh that is louder than anything I have ever heard, a smile that is so pure. They are so unbelievably kind and caring.

We both want to move internationally and have kids one day. I want to explore the world with them.

They have supported me through my biggest highs and lows.

I want to see the person they will become. I want to see them become a parent and fulfill their dreams. I want to become a parent with them and have them by my side at every achievement.

I know I should wait till we are older but everything inside me thinks it is right. I want to marry them tomorrow.

I want them to be my best friend forever.

Edit: I am doing it I am proposing. I need to design a ring and I know when I want to propose. The ring is the scary part the rest I know. I don’t know how to keep this secret from them for that long tho I want to tell them today.

I started yesterday and have 122 dollars earned but only two that I can withdraw what is the timeline to be able to withdraw the money

I have been sick for 5 months now. I got diagnosed with dyssynergic defecation and EoE. Got the DD diagnosis yesterday, it does not feel like enough. Not for the level of suffering. Where my pain sits, the vomiting and retching I constantly have. As well as the blood in my stool and unexplainable weight gain.

But that’s the diagnosis I guess. Part of me wants a second opinion because it’s not adding up to me. But I know my family and everyone will tell me no and I don’t want to be humiliated.

They want me to do Pelvic floor physical therapy. I don’t know if that is gonna work. It’s not the main recommended treatment.

I hate hearing it is gonna take more time for me to get better.

It feels like my diagnosis means I am not sick enough to justify how completely shitty I feel.

So I have been sick for a few months and so not been showering that much.

The main thing I am struggling with is every time I shower I don’t feel like I am getting clean. I always come out feeling sticky. I have dead skin and dirt that I am able to rub off all the time.

How do I get actually clean? I don’t want the layer of grime.

Central Columbia city

Scared the living fucking shit out of me my god

Someone if you got a picture send it to me