u/fezzori

hi, i’m trans mtf and want to get laser hair removal on my back as well as bottom

normally in my local clinic a woman does it but tbh im not comfortable w that. are there any places with men/trans ppl that do it.

i did reach out to livemore but they don’t have the YAG laser so no point in me going there (i have brown skin).

i know of one place that does have men but i also cant get over the discomfort of doing it in general 💀 like being exposed like that to someone. i also want to do the shaft and testicles which idek if they do.

i know this is a complicated ask sorry but any thoughts and experiences are appreciated cuz i feel sooo alone

hi, i’m in north west sydney and was wondering if there’s any places that have male technicians to do male brazilian. unfortunately i wouldn’t feel comfortable with a woman performing it. is this rare to find? my local place only has women doing it i think

hi, i have real debrid + stremio + torrentio but sometimes i never have any streams show up

and also sometimes its barely one or two links in 480p or 720p even for popular shows. i cant help but wonder why im paying for real debrid when its so hit or miss

like ive been watching the show Adults and also love island which are two popular shows and can barely find links sometimes

is this the normal experience ? i followed this guide off reddit but i wonder if its correct. are there any other add ons i should install besides torrentio / real debrid?

i’m male fitzpatrick 4 and i’ve been going to a place that does candela gentle max pro YAG, and have had great results

i was thinking of doing my stomach and side of stomach but there’s really thin hairs there. is it safe to laser those hairs?

they aren’t thick like my arms, chest, legs, etc

also same with my butt like there’s thin hairs on the cheeks but if you go deeper there’s thick hairs.. can i safely do the entire butt ?

i’ve done ipl in these areas in the past (probs like 10-15 sessions of ipl at home) and saw no results so wanted to consider laser because i want the thin hairs gone. they’re barely noticeable but like why not.

ok i’m so confused bc im non op and deal w chasers ofc bc im “different” aka have a dick or some masculine features

but like when i go online i see so many chasers even in comments of post op fully passing women and they know she’s gotten the surgery but they still be commenting and obsessing like crazy

are they not chasers just regular men who are like catcalling women ? I’m just curious what ur exp is like if you’re a post op trans woman

i’m struggling to find any results of Dr Paddle’s VFS

i had a consult with him but my dumbahh forgot to ask him for before and afters, or even just afters. i just wanted to see the quality of the voice

idk when im next seeing him but if anyone could point me to some i would REALLY appreciate this

does anyone know approximate costs for a day surgery in melbourne?

i’m planning to get vocal feminisation with dr paddle but don’t know the hospital costs, the procedure is 1.5 hours but i’m guessing the hospital will charge me some crazy amount so i’m curious how much is it

i love high end mascaras ( my fav is lancome hypnose drama) but i can’t justify spending so much and they dry up after like 6 months anyway

does anyone have mascara recs for drug store or affordable. i love something thick and volumising! any type of mascara is ok even if it’s hard to remove

hi i’m looking for a place to map my brows and do my shaping

are there any nice places in sydney cbd or around northwest sydney (metro line) i live in rouse hill tysm

yall i need a wearable push up bra in australia

im only 2 years on hormones so the shape isn’t rlly there yet but when i use my hands to push them up they look rlly good😩😭 does anyone know of any good brands. i dont want something bulky but an extreme push up would be nice

hi, anyone who has done electorlysis on brows here? i have some thick hairs under my brows. its not a lot of hair so im wondering how long it’d take.

i’m a trans woman but after years of tweezing theres not a ton of hair left, id say i could probably get a full clear in 60 mins of both brows

i was wondering if anyone has done that here and how long it took, and how’s the pain level like? it being close to my eyes scares me for some reason lol

i’m looking for a hydrating kbeauty toner that’s on the cheaper side (or has a lot of ML)

it has to be thick since i have dry dehydrated skin. normally i use a lot of kbeauty toners but they are very thin and feel more like water, which feels like it’s doing nothing?

a lot of our transition is often waiting for stuff to happen

so how do u dolls handle the wait for your surgeries

i’m getting ffs done like 8 months from now and to say i feel debilitated would be the least. like i just can’t wait anymore to get it done with,

i just feel like i have nothing else to live for and dont even feel comfortable finding a job 😭 like idk how to lock in and actually live until then.

i also have voice surgery a year from now which is my last surgery but honestly god knows when ill feel comfortable 🥲 i’m just exhausted and burnt out from life fr

i’m mtf and what do leading medical professionals and experts here suggest? cuz no one believes me when i say i’m biologically female. ofc i can’t change their opinion but i need to be able to defend myself ty

i left this sub a while back bc it felt so negative and people here just seemed depressed and hateful (i mean i am depressed too but i don’t externalise it😭).

not to mention the amount of cis men here giving their input when it’s not needed (sometimes it’s helpful but not always)

but i’m back now and it’s soo much better than before, i guess we finally have mods or smth now cuz i actually feel like yall are sm nicer and better. i hope eventually we can make this a private sub so that we only approve respectful people

so i continuously get asked all these specific questions about chromosomes and biology etc which im obv not a biologist im just trans, but like im curious if theres a doc with detailed info on dealing with conservative talking points so ik how to defend myself if needed

so after i get ffs i’m probs going to pass really well and i’m wondering if passing girls are shaving their adam’s apple too ..

does it rlly make a practical difference or is it more of a mental thing ?

i feel like it doesnt rlly bother me but i do get comments abt it online and like ofc i shouldn’t take the hate to heart , but im also practical for safety reasons etc

ok so plz don’t take this the wrong way.

but everytime i see trans girls online who have voice trained, it sounds so fake and unnatural

like its very rare to see girls actually have cis passing voices

and all the advice i see from people online is to voice train etc which i believe works for trans women who genuinely talked like men before transitioning. their mannerisms and the way they spoke just wasn’t feminine to begin with. so for them voice training made a huge difference in that they can speak like women but to me it still sounds unnatural due to the “strained” effect that i hear.

i feel like for a lot of straight trans girls ive seen it be the opposite where we already talked feminine bc we were twinks or whatever

and every time i’ve voice trained i feel like it sounds fake too so atp is this just how voice training is ? is it rare to actually have a natural sounding voice that doesn’t take effort

i’m considering voice feminisation surgery now bc of this. lll voice train more beforehand but yea it seems like the only viable option for me now

i am lowkey tone deaf tho so like any thing i say is to be taken with a grain of salt but im curious what yall think ty

idk why but voice training when many trans women do it, to me, it sounds a little forced and fake.

no judgement or hate but it’s just that the voice isn’t natural to me, and i feel this when i voice train too. some trans women do it extremely well though but i think that just isn’t me.

so if i don’t like my trained voice and get surgery, would it actually improve?