u/gilligan888

My wife told me today I “never do anything nice” for her or buy her flowers.

Here’s the catch: if I do buy flowers, it turns into a fight because it feels “forced” or like I’m only doing it because she brought it up. If I don’t, then I’m in the wrong for not doing it at all.

Feels like I can’t win either way here.

Men who’ve been in this situation, how did you navigate it without turning every gesture into a problem?