u/greggers1980

Hi all does anyone know when deathsmiles is coming to update all ? Am itching to play it on my candy cab

I hate how people affect my energy.if I'm forced to be around someone who I don't click with or who I have studied and figured out I just don't like them I find them exhausting to be around to the point my joints start to ache .just one person walking past who I like and click with feels like they activate a switch and suddenly feel energised and happy. I find this so frustrating as you can't always be around those you like.

Any one else experience this?

Sorry if I haven't worded it well.ive re read and changed it a few times to try and make more sense but I always feel like I talk absolute nonsense

Does anyone else find when they have to visit their life bringers that they ask the same questions everytime?

I get asked the same 4 questions and just say fine. I'm so done with it. Actually got up and left after I got asked them a second time.

Sucks they never take interest in your hobbies or interests

Hi everyone. I have adhd but find incorrectness very triggering. For example when people talk about football at work they say "we won we played well". My brain says "you didn't do a thing. They won. You were simply a spectator and have a parasocial relationship". Of course I don't actually say this. I would say something like "oh they won I didn't know they were playing". That's the truth as I don't watch football. To me it's just a bunch of millionaires running around a field. It doesn't make any difference to me life so I don't give it any thought.

How do you all cope with this?

Its so draining as this is just one example.

What triggers you?

I've come to realise that maintaining friendships with neurotypical people is impossible for me personally. Conversations don't flow and and all the last minute cancellations stress me out.

Anyone got any ideas where I can hang or meet people on the adhd wavelength?

I did consider conventions but I don't have any interest in pokemon, warhammer, superheros ect so would feel out of place

So today I tried again to explain how adhd affects me and was told "oh you should be greatfull. There all people worse off than you". It really hurt as I'm always invalidated. I hate having adhd.i feel because people can't see a disability they don't accept we are disabled. It's a curse and no one cares. They just think your being dramatic and a wimp. This is the last time I try and explain to anyone. The only people who understand me are here.i want to thank you all for the ongoing support. It really means alot to me as I can't even turn to my family. Thank you for caring.

So I recently woke up on my day off and have no idea what to do. I spent all week thinking "ooh I'll go here do this get a coffee ect" and now that the day has finally arrived I'm sat in bed for the last three hours watching random YouTube videos with no idea what to do or where to go.Happens every weekend

Anyone else experience this?

So I recently woke up on my day off and have no idea what to do. I spent all week thinking "ooh I'll go here do this get a coffee ect" and now that the day has finally arrived I'm sat in bed for the last three hours watching random YouTube videos with no idea what to do or where to go.Happens every weekend

Anyone else experience this?

So today I got asked for the bazillionth time "don't you feel lonely alone? I couldn't do that. I wouldnt know how to cope if I broke up with my partner and I was alone".

I tried to explain that I need "ME TIME" . I like coming home to an empty home that I can relax in, do as I please and not have to compromise with anyone. They just looked at me in puzzlement like I'm not following the program. Why can't people accept that we are different?

Some of us need space

Hi all. Just wanna know what you do to cope when your intrusive thoughts take over and you can't stop yourself speaking your mind. I instantly regretted it and felt sick all day even though it didn't get me in trouble. It kept going round and round in my head and I couldn't sleep for thinking about how I may be trouble even though I'm not in trouble.

Hello everyone I'm currently looking at this bike to buy. My question is does anyone have any experience with it?

I live in the UK and can't find any reviews on it. Only for the other models.

My current bike is road only with hybrid tyres and 48 tooth chain ring and 12 tooth rear cassette as the hardest gears.This is My physical limit in terms of pedal power and I never run out of gears when powering on flat or downhill roads.

I've noticed that the hybrid pro has a maximum of 40 tooth chain ring and 11 tooth rear cassette. Will this gearing be enough for me or will I be peddling faster than the bike can handle?

Any information is greatly appreciated