u/liakio

I'm (F25) interested in a guy in his 30's, he doesn't have any other social media, we keep contact through WhatsApp and he invited me to Snapchat before.

But when I first started it was just chaos, the AI features, the ads for in-app purchases, the never ending friend suggestions that I can't turn off, the spotlights, etc. I hate its UI so much, and then I saw some friend recommendations from his town because he's the only friend I have up there, and she was a stripper...

So with everything together, I decided to delete my Snapchat. Later on I read that Snapchat is used for sneaky links and sexting and stuffs like that. The app is not widely used in my country so I don't have enough insights on it.

Please let me know your thoughts on this!

I'd alway known that I'm quite a kinky person, I like it rough and I'd always been someone who's submissive. I know about CNC but I'd never known of "free use".

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Today I was scrolling Reddit and I came accross a video of two roommates, he just went up to her and shove his dick up her ass. I suddenly had the feeling that if I were to have a boyfriend, I'd want us to have a day or two like that as a weekend activity.

It made me remember that I'm the most turned on when my ex would jump on me without any warning. Then I went into a rabbit hole with the free use sub, and it's mind-blowing! Now I'm squirming at work and I don't know what to do...

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I obviously can't tell this to any of my friends, maybe when I have a partner, but right now I just have to let it out of my chest a bit.

Thank you for listening.

Like Bond Touch or Totwoo brand, for a remote play experience, it will have a day long battery, it vibrates everytime your partner touches their "control" or whatever. I know there are app remoted vibrator but it's not spontaneous enough.

We had a fight and it was just because I was pestering him with my emotional needs. I feel so ashamed. He got mad and texted some stuffs that are so disrespectful, saying he just doesn't care because he already has a lot of problems on his hands. I do think that his problems are much more important than me, we were not even dating but the connection that we had was real to me. So after 3 months of daily texting, I'm pulling back to give him some space, and because I want what's best for him. I sometimes wish we'd never started talking at all :( I'm so emotionally attached to him that my heart aches everytime I think of him now.

As the title said, I (25F) know that I have lots of issues with myself, even with my deep infatuation towards him (33M). We met on Reddit (he's in the US and I'm in VN) and started as pen pals, then we moved on to a couple other platforms. We instantly clicked and kept on talking with each other, he had showered me with sweet words in the beginning when we were infatuated with each other, but then I took it way too seriously, so he was taken aback. He said he doesn't want to date me exclusively and that he wants us to meet face to face first, which I think is fair and I was rushing things. I really want to meet him but I cannot afford to meet him, especially with my VISA as a freelancer atm. But ever since meeting him, I have the motivation to work harder and save money, I started working out because I think that he'd deserve the best of me, I helped him with his work whenever I can, he triggered some insecurity in me that made me realised that I have to heal those parts of myself. And he's very patient and supportive with whatever I do!

The problem with us is that I'm a big texter and he's not, he's been falling out from texting because he's getting into his busy season with work, and it makes me feel very insecure knowing that he has a couple of "complicated relationships" as he said. I know that I'm in no position to feel jealous or anything like that, but I can't help it :(. He still tries to text me on the daily despite being extremely busy with work (I went through a phone call with him while he's at work and knows how busy it can get at a restaurant) and I really appreciate his effort! But when we finally get to get onto a call with each other, he's always busy or he's too tired to be emotionally present (his mom is currently in the hospital).

I'm unfortunately depending on him on the chance of us finally getting to meet due to financial reasons, but I can't help but think that he's going to lose interest soon and that I'm just someone who's bothering him... What should I do?

Things I had tried:

• Threw myself at work and gym (worked but very tiring physically and emotionally)
• Tried to meet new people (I can't be interested in multiple people at once, I can only date one person at a time)
• Meeting friends (worked only for a moment)
• Hobbies (I instantly want to share it with him)

I think I have limerence from ADHD and it's not the first time I'd felt this way. I can't stop falling for people so early on :( he said that he needs plenty of time to get to know someone and because we'd only talked for 3 months, he cannot tell if we can be exclusive. I begged for exclusivity because if we were in a relationship, I'd actually spend my time planning my life with him and actually have strategies to get to that goal. But he's more of a enjoy the present kind of person, and I'm not enjoying the present that much... He said he's still interested in getting to know me but I feel like he's so distant most of the time. Advice?