Heart breaking

I used to love concerts. Bouncing around and singing with my friends, the throng of bodies all dancing together because the music and atmosphere is so fun!

Recently, even though I knew it couldn't work, I went to one. The music was great, the show was great but I had to take drastic measures to get through it. I ended up having the most awful flare up and other stuff I don't want to talk about.

I realized that I'd never be able to do it again. Today a friend told me about an AMAZING gig coming up and in a sad moment we both realized that it could never happen. And my heart is breaking.

I'm sorry about the sad dump but I don't want to burden anyone else with this sadness.

I know that you guys understand what this disease takes from us and it's okay to grieve.

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 11 days ago
▲ 0 r/Bones

Alcoholism for two?

I'm currently rewatching and I'm on s9 and this entire season is showing that every evening Booth and Bones are drinking. Sometimes it's red wine, sometimes it's whisky. But it's basically EVERY time we see them at home! Has anyone else noticed this?

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 1 month ago

Dresses

How are we doing up our dresses that have a zip at the back? I just literally can't do it! I live alone so this has become a real issue. Do I just avoid buying outfits that have this zip? Because that limits SO MANY cute outfits. Lmk if anyone has any tips/ideas!

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 1 month ago
▲ 37 r/HouseMD

The Chase kiss

Am I the only one that thinks Chase giving that 9 year old a peck on the lips wasn't that bad?

He ABSOLUTELY should have said no! It was a not great choice. But he genuinely thought she was gonna die and even because everything went okay, she still only had a year left to live 😭

It shouldn't of happened dgmw! But I don't think he's a weirdo for that.

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 1 month ago

Sweet dog

Hello guys!

I've rescued a very lovely dog called Teddy and he's looking for a permanent home.

He's 7 years old, very bouncey and happy, very gentle overall a pretty perfect dog. He's neutered, has a microchip and is up to date with all vaccines.

Adopting him would require a walk with us and a home visit with a £50 fee to ensure that he only goes to someone serious, kind and loving.

Lmk if you are interested!

u/longestyeahboiiiever — 1 month ago

Holloway road 21 bus

I know this is a long shot but just wanted to say thank you again to the lovely man on the bus who paid for me to get on!

For some reason my bank card wasn't working and I was about to jump off and he said 'I'll pay for you. '

If you see this, you're amazing! And I'd love to pay you back and maybe give you a little pastry or something! 🥰

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 1 month ago
▲ 32 r/Bones

Oliver Wells

Why did they add him into the show? There is NOTHING enjoyable about his character, he's not interesting, he does nothing but annoy and frustrate the audience! Pelant was a great character, even though he's also unlikeable. Daisy was also annoying, but again had some redeemable and fun characteristics. He adds nothing to the story and doesn't even further the plot?

Does anyone have a logical or reasonable idea as to why he was added?

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago

Queer relationships

Has anyone else noticed that there are no examples of healthy queer relationships in House? If there are any that I'm missing, please do let me know! But even including 13, they generally perpetuate the stereotype that bi/other queer people are promiscuous.

EDIT: I don't know why so many people have been defensive about this take loool!!! It's still an amazing show, just something I noticed 😂

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/Bones

Confused about Pelant?

I'm at season 7 episode 13 and they've introduced Pelant but I have no idea who he is, but he seems to have some sort of connection to Brennan and Booth?

I must have missed those episodes surely, right? Or is that just how they introduce him?

I've seen this show before but I have a memory disorder so there's so much that I can't recall, so I know that there's a character called Pelant and that he's a bad guy but beyond that I have no idea!

If I've missed episodes, can someone give me a quick run down of what's happened please? Thank you so much in advance, I'd really appreciate it ❤

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago

Hard day

I've just had enough today and I'm crying. I've been in a lot of pain for weeks because I've swapped my injections to costynex and obviously our biologics have an accumulative effect so I'm still waiting for it to work. I can't even sit forward. My morning pain/stiffness has been lasting until 12/1pm.My morning meds just made me feel nauseous and woozy even though I ate with them. I had to use my heating pad even though it's warm/humid rn. I've done some gentle movements to help and it didn't. My left knee has just been wrecked, painful. My ankles have been swelling and painful. I can't shit because of the severe constipation from the pain killers so I'm so bloated. And to top it all off? I have endo and today I'm getting pretty bad intermittent uterine pain and lumps in my vag.

I'm sorry about the paragraph but I just wanted to get it all out because I'm low and crying and angry. And none of my loved ones or doctors can do ANYTHING about it. This is for life man.

I hope everyone is doing okay rn and that your flare ups are short ❤

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago

How do I tell my fiance I'm gay

Hi all, I'm absolutely terrified. He's actually asked me a few times if I think I might be and has said that he's afraid that one day I'll realize I'm a lesbian and leave him. Seems like he knew before I finally accepted it.

We have a whole life plan! We've built our whole futures around each other. How do I tell him that I'm now snatching it all away? He's going to be devastated and it's devastating me. I genuinely don't even know how to start. And I'm 31, I feel so stupid for not accepting it sooner. I could have avoided all of this if I had just accepted what my brain and body have been telling me since I was a kid.

Any tips on how to survive through this and how to hurt him as little as possible? (Probably impossible I know). Just... How do I do this?

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago

Ice poles that snap in half

Does anyone know where I can get some of these in/around Holloway? I've checked in all the off licences, corner shops etc around me but I can't find any!

EDIT: I GOT THEM!!! I FOUND EM! Went to 3 shops and got em on the third! 🥰

u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago

Knee popping out?

I have the HM element to my AS and of course with that I get the thing where my knees bend the wrong way and it really hurts. But I also get this thing where my knee will just pop out, the little bit on the outer side of the knee, and my leg just suddenly will NOT take weight and I have to lift it up and I nearly fall over.

I've tried knee braces but it's not working. How are all of you forcing your knees to stay in place? It's really impacting my exercise routine.

THANK YOU!

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago
▲ 17 r/Bones

Is this Zack?

So the guy on the motorcycle who drops the tooth bomb who is Gormagon's apprentice, is that Zack? Because that guy throws the little kid in the plastic pool cover because he knows Booth would save the kid rather than chase him, and I just don't see Zack doing that?

u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago
▲ 91 r/Bones

Hodgins

I have to say it! Without him the team would genuinely not have solved half of their cases and Brennan would have died during the gravedigger arc!

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 2 months ago

Red John

This guy should have been red John!!! He irks Jane, Jane keeps calling him a ghoul, and he fits the description Jane initially predicted of red John's profile.

And because he's so weedy and lame and ghoulish, it's too obvious so we never would have seen it coming!

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 3 months ago
▲ 1 r/Bones

What logic?

Rewatching bones after quite a while and when they say that Zack was the apprentice because he got drawn in by perfect logic, wth are they talking about? I don't get it? How could Zack be influenced to do horrible things? It doesn't make any sense?

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u/longestyeahboiiiever — 3 months ago