u/muchoAurthoDonto

First things first, a quick but very serious disclaimer, If you are a cis guy or someone pretending to be a woman, don't even bother trying. I have a 100% success rate at catching people doing this, and you will be immediately blocked. Please just save us both the time.

I’m 22, lesbian, femme, and currently enjoying some downtime while I prep for a new job, and get ready for an upcoming move to Manhattan. Right now, my schedule is pretty open, but once I'm settled in the city, I’ll mostly be free to chat or hang out after 7:00 PM EST.

When I'm not studying or prepping for work, I spend a lot of my time designing and stitching my own dresses. I am also absolutely obsessed with perfumes, I love baking, and I try to work with children in need as much as I can. On the more adventurous side, I'm a big fan of surfing and scuba diving.

Just a heads up on my vibe, I don't play video games and I'm not on Discord, and I’m really not looking to be pushed into that world. I’d much rather spend time joking around, exploring different aspects of life, and having actual, meaningful conversations.

To be totally clear, I'm looking for friends only. I'd love to meet people who are genuinely passionate and hardworking whether that's about your career, your studies, or just your life goals in general.

The most important thing to me is emotional intelligence. I feel like so many people just want to yell their points and totally forget to actually listen and understand the other person. I always bring empathy to the table, and I need that in return. If you aren't someone who values empathy, sympathy, and a bit of intellect in your conversations, we probably won't be a good match.

But if you are, and you're looking for a real, supportive friendship, send me a message!

genuinely curious, if someone touches an erogenous zone, does an asexual person's body still react biologically (hormones, physical arousal, etc.) even if there is zero actual attraction? Thanks for putting up with the nosiness!

Just trying to understand how the biological side works compared to the attraction side. Thanks!

Heya! Besties! I’m trying to find a floral earring and bracelet set, but everything online right now is either super cheap quality or insanely overpriced.
If you have any go to indie brands or Etsy shop links, please drop them!! Tysm 🤍

I would just love to wake up next to my partner, cuddle her and our baby, feed our baby, and make breakfast for her. Something simple like that.

Does anyone else daydream about these quiet little domestic moments?

heya girlies! i’m 22, femme, and living out in san diego. my daily vibe is basically just a sundress and a ridiculous amount of citrus based perfume.

i’m really just looking for some genuine friends to casually text throughout the day. i want that dynamic where we can just share our days, talk about fashion, movies, art, and bounce random opinions off each other. i’m a very patient and empathetic person, so i love just being a safe space for my friends to vent or talk.

a little about me: i love cooking, baking, and finding good asian food (but i have zero spice tolerance lol). in my free time, i’m usually driving around shopping, restaurant/bar hopping, watching thai GLs, or singing terribly in the bathroom.

i’m also a massive art nerd i love creating visual interpretations of life events and i'm obsessed with the restoration of renaissance paintings.

my dms are technically open, but reddit gets messy. so to make sure we actually vibe: my absolute biggest hot take is that pineapple 100% belongs on pizza.
leave your most controversial food or media hot take in the comments, and i’ll dm you first! 🫶

just venting because i feel like i'm going crazy lately. getting back into the dating pool here in SD and it is “so” jarring.

some days i’m completely in my head wondering if i’m even “femme enough” to be noticed. but then when i do meet someone, the extremes are insane. girls are either totally emotionally unavailable, or they are “so” intense and eager to lock things down immediately. where is the middle ground??

i just want a normal, grounded connection. i’m honestly so burnt out on it.

just kind of feeling lost and need to know i'm not the only one feeling this way.

just venting because i feel like i'm going crazy lately. getting back into the dating pool here in SD and it is “so” jarring.

some days i’m completely in my head wondering if i’m even “femme enough” to be noticed. but then when i do meet someone, the extremes are insane. girls are either totally emotionally unavailable, or they are “so” intense and eager to lock things down immediately. where is the middle ground??

i just want a normal, grounded connection. i’m honestly so burnt out on it.

just kind of feeling lost and need to know i'm not the only one feeling this way.

hey girlies 🫶 woke up and my skin is literally freaking out rn. need someone to text so i don't just bed rot all day. going through a pretty rough breakup and i desperately need a distraction so i don't just lay here and spiral thinking about her. pls save me 😭💀