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So my dad is 55 years old and hes been on dialysis since April, he barely survived. His energy is better since dialysis and his appetite and everything is better except his coughing. I should mention that he smokes and has been smoking since he was like 17 BUT it was never this bad. since he started dialysis his cough is awful and he cant stop it, and on average he starts coughing every like 5 minutes and its not a dry cough and it lasts for at least a 2/3 minutes.
He got an x-ray of his chest and its all fine. They said that its probably water around his lungs from dialysis and they gave him antibiotics. Its been three days since hes taking antibiotics and on today dialysis they pulled more water out, but hes still coughing like constantly and its crazy and his lungs hurt so much and he looks exhausted. he literally cant sleep because of it. if anyone has any tips or advice please help i dont know what to do anymore and he is in so much pain.

So my dad is 55 years old and hes been on dialysis since April, he barely survived. His energy is better since dialysis and his appetite and everything is better except his coughing. I should mention that he smokes and has been smoking since he was like 17 BUT it was never this bad. since he started dialysis his cough is awful and he cant stop it, and on average he starts coughing every like 5 minutes and its not a dry cough and it lasts for at least a minute. is this normal and should i be concerned because its really starting to worry me.

also i know that some people said that it might be some like blood pressure pills but i dont think that it is because of that.

So my dad is 55 years old and hes been on dialysis since April, he barely survived. His energy is better since dialysis and his appetite and everything is better except his coughing. I should mention that he smokes and has been smoking since he was like 17 BUT it was never this bad. since he started dialysis his cough is awful and he cant stop it, and on average he starts coughing every like 5 minutes and its not a dry cough and it lasts for at least a minute. is this normal and should i be concerned because its really starting to worry me.

also i know that some people said that it might be some like blood pressure pills but i dont think that it is because of that.

so i met this guy on Saturday lets call him Jake. and jake was my best friends friend and he just moved here from his town to study. we were out for the coffee the three of us and i started getting the feeling that he likes me. the next day we were texting and then he called me. we were on face time he called me pretty, he said that he love my eyes, he made a list in his notes about me like my favourite colour, food, date of birth etc, he said he is going to buy me a promise ring, he said that he is a lover boy for me, he complimented me and he wanted to go back to his old town for couple of days but i told him not to go and he didnt go because of me and also he asked me what haircut to get and he got the one i told him the next day. the next day we went out, we talked and then we kissed. after that i was out with my best friend and her boyfriend and he came by and we talked he kissed me again and he paid for all of our drinks. later that night he introduced me to his whole friend group he kissed me in front of them, he held me and everything. also he told my best friend that holding my hand felt so real and that he was so scared and he called me an angel. then 2 days after he was out with his two best friends and i was with them also and he was so affectionate and everything i was amazing. the next day we were out he literally cried in my arms and i comforted him and everything it was really emotional. then on Sunday (8th day of us knowing each other) he was sick and i went over to his house. we were cuddling and then we got intimate, we didnt have sex but i gave him head. after that i had a heavy heart and he cuddled me and everything and i asked him where is this all going. he said that he really likes me and that this is going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other because atp we had known each other for like 8 days. so we talked about all that and he was giving me reassurance and cuddling me and kissing me softly all of that stuff. the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorted and he would take like 5/6 hours to respond. on Wednesday i was fed up and left him on liked, after hour and a half i reached out to him we shared like 2 messages and he left me on delivered. that really hurt me so i decided to reach out and ask him if everythings okay, he gave me like a short answer basically an answer just to get rid of me so i left him on liked. he posted an instagram post and in that post as a recent picture of him and his ex.

i wrote this maybe like 3 weeks ago and i found out that he is not over his ex that broke up with him in september. and all of his reposts are about how much he misses her, how she hurt him, stuff like “enjoy your life and forget my name” but also that he would text her back. so basically hes not over her.
i cant stop thinking about him and i want him to come back. but my question is was it real everything between us, and i know thats stupid to ask because we only knew each other for like 7 days, but he seemed really genuine.
and another problem that i have is this guilt about the sexual stuff that we did, i know that it was wrong and im not that type of person this was my first time doing that. but what if that like pulled him away from me, what if he thinks that im that type of girl. i would really like a guys point of view especially about all of this intimate stuff. i would really like someones advice and help

so i met this guy on Saturday lets call him Jake. and jake was my best friends friend and he just moved here from his town to study. we were out for the coffee the three of us and i started getting the feeling that he likes me. the next day we were texting and then he called me. we were on face time he called me pretty, he said that he love my eyes, he made a list in his notes about me like my favourite colour, food, date of birth etc, he said he is going to buy me a promise ring, he said that he is a lover boy for me, he complimented me and he wanted to go back to his old town for couple of days but i told him not to go and he didnt go because of me and also he asked me what haircut to get and he got the one i told him the next day. the next day we went out, we talked and then we kissed. after that i was out with my best friend and her boyfriend and he came by and we talked he kissed me again and he paid for all of our drinks. later that night he introduced me to his whole friend group he kissed me in front of them, he held me and everything. also he told my best friend that holding my hand felt so real and that he was so scared and he called me an angel. then 2 days after he was out with his two best friends and i was with them also and he was so affectionate and everything i was amazing. the next day we were out he literally cried in my arms and i comforted him and everything it was really emotional. then on Sunday (8th day of us knowing each other) he was sick and i went over to his house. we were cuddling and then we got intimate, we didnt have sex but i gave him head. after that i had a heavy heart and he cuddled me and everything and i asked him where is this all going. he said that he really likes me and that this is going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other because atp we had known each other for like 8 days. so we talked about all that and he was giving me reassurance and cuddling me and kissing me softly all of that stuff. the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorted and he would take like 5/6 hours to respond. on Wednesday i was fed up and left him on liked, after hour and a half i reached out to him we shared like 2 messages and he left me on delivered. that really hurt me so i decided to reach out and ask him if everythings okay, he gave me like a short answer basically an answer just to get rid of me so i left him on liked. he posted an instagram post and in that post as a recent picture of him and his ex.

i wrote this maybe like 3 weeks ago and i found out that he is not over his ex that broke up with him in september. and all of his reposts are about how much he misses her, how she hurt him, stuff like “enjoy your life and forget my name” but also that he would text her back. so basically hes not over her.
i cant stop thinking about him and i want him to come back. but my question is was it real everything between us, and i know thats stupid to ask because we only knew each other for like 7 days, but he seemed really genuine.
and another problem that i have is this guilt about the sexual stuff that we did, i know that it was wrong and im not that type of person this was my first time doing that. but what if that like pulled him away from me, what if he thinks that im that type of girl. i would really like someones advice and help

so i met this guy on Saturday lets call him Jake. and jake was my best friends friend and he just moved here from his town to study. we were out for the coffee the three of us and i started getting the feeling that he likes me. the next day we were texting and then he called me. we were on face time he called me pretty, he said that he love my eyes, he made a list in his notes about me like my favourite colour, food, date of birth etc, he said he is going to buy me a promise ring, he said that he is a lover boy for me, he complimented me and he wanted to go back to his old town for couple of days but i told him not to go and he didnt go because of me and also he asked me what haircut to get and he got the one i told him the next day. the next day we went out, we talked and then we kissed. after that i was out with my best friend and her boyfriend and he came by and we talked he kissed me again and he paid for all of our drinks. later that night he introduced me to his whole friend group he kissed me in front of them, he held me and everything. also he told my best friend that holding my hand felt so real and that he was so scared and he called me an angel. then 2 days after he was out with his two best friends and i was with them also and he was so affectionate and everything i was amazing. the next day we were out he literally cried in my arms and i comforted him and everything it was really emotional. then on Sunday (8th day of us knowing each other) he was sick and i went over to his house. we were cuddling and then we got intimate, we didnt have sex but i gave him head. after that i had a heavy heart and he cuddled me and everything and i asked him where is this all going. he said that he really likes me and that this is going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other because atp we had known each other for like 8 days. so we talked about all that and he was giving me reassurance and cuddling me and kissing me softly all of that stuff. the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorted and he would take like 5/6 hours to respond. on Wednesday i was fed up and left him on liked, after hour and a half i reached out to him we shared like 2 messages and he left me on delivered. that really hurt me so i decided to reach out and ask him if everythings okay, he gave me like a short answer basically an answer just to get rid of me so i left him on liked. he posted an instagram post and in that post as a recent picture of him and his ex.

i wrote this maybe like 3 weeks ago and i found out that he is not over his ex that broke up with him in september. and all of his reposts are about how much he misses her, how she hurt him, stuff like “enjoy your life and forget my name” but also that he would text her back. so basically hes not over her.
i cant stop thinking about him and i want him to come back. but my question is was it real everything between us, and i know thats stupid to ask because we only knew each other for like 7 days, but he seemed really genuine.
and another problem that i have is this guilt about the sexual stuff that we did, i know that it was wrong and im not that type of person this was my first time doing that. but what if that like pulled him away from me, what if he thinks that im that type of girl. is all of this because of me or that he is not over his ex? i would really like someones advice and help

my dad has been going through dialysis since april, he goes 3 times a week. his condition has gotten better, he has more energy and everything. the only thing that concerns me is his coughing. he is coughing like constantly and its not a dry cough. he coughs like all the time and it lasts for like a minute at least. i read somewhere that its normal for dialysis patients to cough a lot so i just want someones opinion or experience. when he got hospitalised in april they said his lungs are okay i guess but especially because he has been smoking since he was 16 and hes now 55 and still smokes.

my dad has been going through dialysis since april, he goes 3 times a week. his condition has gotten better, he has more energy and everything. the only thing that concerns me is his coughing. he is coughing like constantly and its not a dry cough. he coughs like all the time and it lasts for like a minute at least. i read somewhere that its normal for dialysis patients to cough a lot so i just want someones opinion or experience. when he got hospitalised in april they said his lungs are okay but especially because he has been smoking since he was 16 and hes now 55 and still smokes.

im currently writing this while im crying because i dont know what to think anymore. i had a boyfriend last year over the summer and he ended up losing feelings and he cheated on me. then i had a situationship for like 3 months and he found a girlfriend and left me. now what is hurting me the most is something that recently happened. so about 3 weeks ago i (18F) met this guy (19/20M) and he was my best friends’ friend. he started liking me so we went out on a date, we kissed and it was great. and clearly he was more interested in me, he was talking about future, he made a list in his notes about me (like my favourite colour, food, date of birth and stuff like that), i was out with his best friends and he was always kissing me and showing affection in front of them, we would talk on face time and everything, he noticed details about me that no one has ever noticed, told his grandma about me, introduced me to all of his friends on face time and in real life, got the haircut that i told him to get, he even cried in front of me and i held him while he cried. also after our first date he called my best friend and told her that i am an angel, that holding my hand felt so real and that he was so scared the entire time etc… the point is that he was REALLY interested in me or so i thought. then two weeks ago on a sunday i went over to his house because he was sick, i brought him a lot of food and drinks, we were laughing and cuddling and then we were physical with each other (we didnt have sex but i did stuff for him) that was really weird because we had known each other for just a week at that point. so after that i had a heavy heart and i asked him openly where is all of this going. he said that its probably going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other and that we need to stop with the kissing and all that until we get into a relationship and i was honestly fine with that. (im scared that because all of the physical stuff he thinks less of me and maybe thinks that im that type of person, which im not this was my first time doing something like that. now after everything i just feel used). the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorter and shorter and it would take him 5/6 hours to respond. i was mad at that and left him on liked and then and hour later i reached out to him and he ghosted me on wednesday last week. i couldn’t bare the silence anymore so i reached out to him yesterday and got some really short response basically showing that he doesn’t care. now he posted a post on instagram and in that post was a picture of him and his ex situationship that was recent. and i really wanted to be with this guy in a relationship because to me it was perfect, we just naturally liked each other and for me this is the first time that i felt like i was falling in love and now its all gone.

the point of this is that im losing all hope in love. and i dont know what to think anymore for the last couple of days i have been a mess, i dont go out anymore i just lay in my bed and cry constantly, it was never this bad. as i said earlier i had “two” break ups lets say but i would be better after like 3 days, but now its been a week and its only getting worse. i feel like nothing brings me joy anymore and i have never felt worse in my life. im scared that i wont find love soon and that its always going to end like this by all of them just leaving me for some reason. can anyone that has been through something similar just tell me is there hope and how to deal with all of this. i feel so lost and like there is no hope for me to find someone and on top of that i live and a small city so all of these things scare me so much. i just want some advice and reassurance if possible and maybe an opinion about the situation with this last guy.

EDIT: i wrote this whole thing like a week ago and i still haven’t heard from him. but its weird because we still have each other on social media like in his cf and finsta and all that. i feel like if it were over between us he wouldn’t keep me there right? maybe this is weird to say and delusional but i have a strong gut feeling that it isnt over between us idk.

hi i just want an advice from someone about love because im losing all hope. im currently writing this while im crying because i dont know what to think anymore. i had a boyfriend last year over the summer and he ended up losing feelings and he cheated on me. then i had a situationship for like 3 months and he found a girlfriend and left me. now what is hurting me the most is something that recently happened. so about 3 weeks ago i met this guy and he was my best friends’ friend. he started liking me so we went out on a date, we kissed and it was great. and clearly he was more interested in me, he was talking about future, he made a list in his notes about me (like my favourite colour, food, date of birth and stuff like that), i was out with his best friends and he was always kissing me and showing affection in front of them, we would talk on face time and everything, he even cried in front of me and i held him while he cried. then two weeks ago on a sunday i went over to his house because he was sick, we were physical with each other (we didnt have sex but stuff like that) that was really weird because we had known each other for just a week at that point. so after that i had a heavy heart and i asked him openly where is all of this going. he said that its going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other and that we need to stop with the kissing and all that until we get into a relationship and i was honestly fine with that. (im scared that because all of the physical stuff he thinks less of me and maybe thinks that im that type of person, which im not this was my first time doing something like that. now after everything i just feel used). the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorter and shorter and it would take him 5/6 hours to respond. i was mad at that and left him on liked and then and hour later i reached out to him and he ghosted me on wednesday last week. i couldn’t bare the silence anymore so i reached out to him yesterday and got some really short response basically showing that he doesn’t care. now he posted a post on instagram and in that post was a picture of him and his ex that was recent. and i really wanted to be with this guy in a relationship because to me it was perfect, we just naturally liked each other and for me this is the first time that i felt like i was falling in love and now its all gone.

the point of this is that im losing all hope in love. and i dont know what to think anymore for the last couple of days i have been a mess, i dont go out anymore i just lay in my bed and cry constantly. i feel like nothing brings me joy anymore and i have never felt worse in my life. as i said i went through “two” break ups lest say and i would be better after like 3 days but now its been a week and just getting worse. im scared that i wont find love soon and that its always going to end like this by all of them just leaving me for some reason. can anyone that has been through something similar just tell me is there hope and how to deal with all of this. i feel so lost and like there is no hope for me to find someone and on top of that i live and a small city so all of these things scare me so much. i just want some advice and reassurance if possible and maybe an opinion about the situation with this last guy.

hi i just want an advice from someone about love because im losing all hope. im currently writing this while im crying because i dont know what to think anymore. i had a boyfriend last year over the summer and he ended up losing feelings and he cheated on me. then i had a situationship for like 3 months and he found a girlfriend and left me. now what is hurting me the most is something that recently happened. so about 3 weeks ago i met this guy and he was my best friends’ friend. he started liking me so we went out on a date, we kissed and it was great. and clearly he was more interested in me, he was talking about future, he made a list in his notes about me (like my favourite colour, food, date of birth and stuff like that), i was out with his best friends and he was always kissing me and showing affection in front of them, we would talk on face time and everything, he even cried in front of me and i held him while he cried. then two weeks ago on a sunday i went over to his house because he was sick, we were physical with each other (we didnt have sex but stuff like that) that was really weird because we had known each other for just a week at that point. so after that i had a heavy heart and i asked him openly where is all of this going. he said that its going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other and that we need to stop with the kissing and all that until we get into a relationship and i was honestly fine with that. (im scared that because all of the physical stuff he thinks less of me and maybe thinks that im that type of person, which im not this was my first time doing something like that. now after everything i just feel used). the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorter and shorter and it would take him 5/6 hours to respond. i was mad at that and left him on liked and then and hour later i reached out to him and he ghosted me on wednesday last week. i couldn’t bare the silence anymore so i reached out to him yesterday and got some really short response basically showing that he doesn’t care. now he posted a post on instagram and in that post was a picture of him and his ex that was recent. and i really wanted to be with this guy in a relationship because to me it was perfect, we just naturally liked each other and for me this is the first time that i felt like i was falling in love and now its all gone.

the point of this is that im losing all hope in love. and i dont know what to think anymore for the last couple of days i have been a mess, i dont go out anymore i just lay in my bed and cry constantly. i feel like nothing brings me joy anymore and i have never felt worse in my life. as i said i went through “two” break ups lest say and i would be better after like 3 days but now its been a week and just getting worse. im scared that i wont find love soon and that its always going to end like this by all of them just leaving me for some reason. can anyone that has been through something similar just tell me is there hope and how to deal with all of this. i feel so lost and like there is no hope for me to find someone and on top of that i live and a small city so all of these things scare me so much. i just want some advice and reassurance if possible and maybe an opinion about the situation with this last guy.

im currently writing this while im crying because i dont know what to think anymore. i had a boyfriend last year over the summer and he ended up losing feelings and he cheated on me. then i had a situationship for like 3 months and he found a girlfriend and left me. now what is hurting me the most is something that recently happened. so about 3 weeks ago i met this guy and he was my best friends’ friend. he started liking me so we went out on a date, we kissed and it was great. and clearly he was more interested in me, he was talking about future, he made a list in his notes about me (like my favourite colour, food, date of birth and stuff like that), i was out with his best friends and he was always kissing me and showing affection in front of them, we would talk on face time and everything, he even cried in front of me and i held him while he cried. then two weeks ago on a sunday i went over to his house because he was sick, we were physical with each other (we didnt have sex but stuff like that) that was really weird because we had known each other for just a week at that point. so after that i had a heavy heart and i asked him openly where is all of this going. he said that its going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other and that we need to stop with the kissing and all that until we get into a relationship and i was honestly fine with that. (im scared that because all of the physical stuff he thinks less of me and maybe thinks that im that type of person, which im not this was my first time doing something like that. now after everything i just feel used). the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorter and shorter and it would take him 5/6 hours to respond. i was mad at that and left him on liked and then and hour later i reached out to him and he ghosted me on wednesday last week. i couldn’t bare the silence anymore so i reached out to him yesterday and got some really short response basically showing that he doesn’t care. now he posted a post on instagram and in that post was a picture of him and his ex that was recent. and i really wanted to be with this guy in a relationship because to me it was perfect, we just naturally liked each other and for me this is the first time that i felt like i was falling in love and now its all gone.

the point of this is that im losing all hope in love. and i dont know what to think anymore for the last couple of days i have been a mess, i dont go out anymore i just lay in my bed and cry constantly. i feel like nothing brings me joy anymore and i have never felt worse in my life. as i said i went through “two” break ups lest say and i would be better after like 3 days but now its been a week and just getting worse. im scared that i wont find love soon and that its always going to end like this by all of them just leaving me for some reason. can anyone that has been through something similar just tell me is there hope and how to deal with all of this. i feel so lost and like there is no hope for me to find someone and on top of that i live and a small city so all of these things scare me so much. i just want some advice and reassurance if possible and maybe an opinion about the situation with this last guy.

im currently writing this while im crying because i dont know what to think anymore. i had a boyfriend last year over the summer and he ended up losing feelings and he cheated on me. then i had a situationship for like 3 months and he found a girlfriend and left me. now what is hurting me the most is something that recently happened. so about 3 weeks ago i met this guy and he was my best friends’ friend. he started liking me so we went out on a date, we kissed and it was great. and clearly he was more interested in me, he was talking about future, he made a list in his notes about me (like my favourite colour, food, date of birth and stuff like that), i was out with his best friends and he was always kissing me and showing affection in front of them, we would talk on face time and everything, he even cried in front of me and i held him while he cried. then two weeks ago on a sunday i went over to his house because he was sick, we were physical with each other (we didnt have sex but stuff like that) that was really weird because we had known each other for just a week at that point. so after that i had a heavy heart and i asked him openly where is all of this going. he said that its going towards a relationship but we just need time to get to know each other and that we need to stop with the kissing and all that until we get into a relationship and i was honestly fine with that. (im scared that because all of the physical stuff he thinks less of me and maybe thinks that im that type of person, which im not this was my first time doing something like that. now after everything i just feel used). the next day he went to his old town and the messages started getting shorter and shorter and it would take him 5/6 hours to respond. i was mad at that and left him on liked and then and hour later i reached out to him and he ghosted me on wednesday last week. i couldn’t bare the silence anymore so i reached out to him yesterday and got some really short response basically showing that he doesn’t care. now he posted a post on instagram and in that post was a picture of him and his ex that was recent. and i really wanted to be with this guy in a relationship because to me it was perfect, we just naturally liked each other and for me this is the first time that i felt like i was falling in love and now its all gone.

the point of this is that im losing all hope in love. and i dont know what to think anymore for the last couple of days i have been a mess, i dont go out anymore i just lay in my bed and cry constantly, it was never this bad. as i said earlier i had “two” break ups lets say but i would be better after like 3 days, but now its been a week and its only getting worse. i feel like nothing brings me joy anymore and i have never felt worse in my life. im scared that i wont find love soon and that its always going to end like this by all of them just leaving me for some reason. can anyone that has been through something similar just tell me is there hope and how to deal with all of this. i feel so lost and like there is no hope for me to find someone and on top of that i live and a small city so all of these things scare me so much. i just want some advice and reassurance if possible and maybe an opinion about the situation with this last guy.

I would really like to get everyone’s advice and opinion on this story because this just happened a week ago to me and I don’t know what to do or what to think. I don’t know exactly where to start but I have known this guy since 2023 because we are in the same class and he was in a relationship with one of my then close friends that is also in our class for like a year. then at the end of 2025 in October I went through a break up and then we really started getting close and he was there for me and our friendship became really good, i could tell him everything and he always made me cheer up and made me happy. at one point our friendship started to get like really weird where people started constantly asking us if we were together and all of that because he really likes physical touch, especially with me. we would just be standing around school or sitting in our class and he would be hugging me or he would lick my hand for some reason or play with my hair or something like that. now where this all gets interesting is last week we were on a school trip for 10 days in Italy in Spain and all of that and for the first three days we were constantly together like he was in my room with my friends, we were together talking on the bus and all of that. also when i was sick on the second day of the trip he spent the day in our room trying to cheer me up and distract me from sickness. it was really nice, then he randomly came up to me and hugged me in my room and told me that he missed me a lot. And then we went to a club and he got drunk and when he was drunk, he came up to me and hugged me and told me that I’m his favourite person in the class even though his guy best friends are in our class and all of that, I mean he told me multiple times before that I’m his favourite person in the class and then we can always talk. Then throughout the whole night he was constantly hugging me but not just a regular hug. He was like cuddled up to me laying on my neck laying on my chest we almost kissed a couple of times then his best friend came up to me and told me like “come on give him a chance, are you two official finally” and stuff like. And that hugging continued throughout the whole night where we would hug for at least a minute a minute and a half where we would “cuddle”. then in the middle of the night while I was standing he came up and picked me up and held me in the air for a good minute. then we were in front of the club waiting for our professors and he sat down next to me and laid on my chest and hugged me and we were sitting down like that for maybe 5 to 10 minutes and everybody was looking at us. After that, we were in the hotel and I guess my best friend came up to him and told him that the whole situation is uncomfortable and he apologised to me if he made me uncomfortable or anything like that and I told him that he didn’t and that I enjoyed it. And that is the last time we spoke because the next day he refused to speak to me or to my friends he ignored us. He bought a T-shirt that says I love my ex. He started texting his ex again and I caught him multiple times just staring at me and looking at me or waiting for my reaction or something like that or when we were on the bus, he was trying to be extremely loud so I can hear him. And when he saw me talking to my ex, he was just stearing at us like really obviously and I guess that bothers him. I forgot to mention that the day after all of that happened I actually came up to him and asked him if he is mad at me or if I did something and he just brushed it off and said everything’s fine and all of that, even though I know it is not. now I have asked every single person for their opinion and they told me that he is probably in love with me and that he felt some type of guilt because of the whole situation and because he was drunk and basically confessed to me all of that and I didn’t give him a reaction back because I do not like him. another thing that is important about him is that he is obsessed with attention and the moment I didn’t give him that attention back meaning like a kiss or a relationship he started talking with his ex again and tried to make me jealous. i’m currently really sad that I lost such a good friend because I have to see him every day in school and we can’t even say hi to each other and I don’t know if I did something wrong. Maybe the only thing is that I was hugging him back and giving him that attention and maybe leading him on I guess. but I would really like other perspectives and maybe a male perspective of all of this because I don’t.
please help guys

if anyone has any questions about my story or anything they would like to know, i would love to tell you.
please help guys

I would really like to get everyone’s advice and opinion on this story because this just happened a week ago to me and I don’t know what to do or what to think. I don’t know exactly where to start but I have known this guy since 2023 because we are in the same class and he was in a relationship with one of my then close friends that is also in our class for like a year. then at the end of 2025 in October I went through a break up and then we really started getting close and he was there for me and our friendship became really good, i could tell him everything and he always made me cheer up and made me happy. at one point our friendship started to get like really weird where people started constantly asking us if we were together and all of that because he really likes physical touch, especially with me. we would just be standing around school or sitting in our class and he would be hugging me or he would lick my hand for some reason or play with my hair or something like that. now where this all gets interesting is last week we were on a school trip for 10 days in Italy in Spain and all of that and for the first three days we were constantly together like he was in my room with my friends, we were together talking on the bus and all of that. also when i was sick on the second day of the trip he spent the day in our room trying to cheer me up and distract me from sickness. it was really nice, then he randomly came up to me and hugged me in my room and told me that he missed me a lot. And then we went to a club and he got drunk and when he was drunk, he came up to me and hugged me and told me that I’m his favourite person in the class even though his guy best friends are in our class and all of that, I mean he told me multiple times before that I’m his favourite person in the class and then we can always talk. Then throughout the whole night he was constantly hugging me but not just a regular hug. He was like cuddled up to me laying on my neck laying on my chest we almost kissed a couple of times then his best friend came up to me and told me like “come on give him a chance, are you two official finally” and stuff like. And that hugging continued throughout the whole night where we would hug for at least a minute a minute and a half where we would “cuddle”. then in the middle of the night while I was standing he came up and picked me up and held me in the air for a good minute. then we were in front of the club waiting for our professors and he sat down next to me and laid on my chest and hugged me and we were sitting down like that for maybe 5 to 10 minutes and everybody was looking at us. After that, we were in the hotel and I guess my best friend came up to him and told him that the whole situation is uncomfortable and he apologised to me if he made me uncomfortable or anything like that and I told him that he didn’t and that I enjoyed it. And that is the last time we spoke because the next day he refused to speak to me or to my friends he ignored us. He bought a T-shirt that says I love my ex. He started texting his ex again and I caught him multiple times just staring at me and looking at me or waiting for my reaction or something like that or when we were on the bus, he was trying to be extremely loud so I can hear him. And when he saw me talking to my ex, he was just stearing at us like really obviously and I guess that bothers him. I forgot to mention that the day after all of that happened I actually came up to him and asked him if he is mad at me or if I did something and he just brushed it off and said everything’s fine and all of that, even though I know it is not. now I have asked every single person for their opinion and they told me that he is probably in love with me and that he felt some type of guilt because of the whole situation and because he was drunk and basically confessed to me all of that and I didn’t give him a reaction back because I do not like him. another thing that is important about him is that he is obsessed with attention and the moment I didn’t give him that attention back meaning like a kiss or a relationship he started talking with his ex again and tried to make me jealous. i’m currently really sad that I lost such a good friend because I have to see him every day in school and we can’t even say hi to each other and I don’t know if I did something wrong. Maybe the only thing is that I was hugging him back and giving him that attention and maybe leading him on I guess. but I would really like other perspectives and maybe a male perspective of all of this because I don’t.
please help guys

if anyone has any questions about my story or anything they would like to know, i would love to tell you.
please help guys

I would really like to get everyone’s advice and opinion on this story because this just happened a week ago to me and I don’t know what to do or what to think. I don’t know exactly where to start but I have known this guy since 2023 because we are in the same class and he was in a relationship with one of my then close friends that is also in our class for like a year. then at the end of 2025 in October I went through a break up and then we really started getting close and he was there for me and our friendship became really good, i could tell him everything and he always made me cheer up and made me happy. at one point our friendship started to get like really weird where people started constantly asking us if we were together and all of that because he really likes physical touch, especially with me. we would just be standing around school or sitting in our class and he would be hugging me or he would lick my hand for some reason or play with my hair or something like that. now where this all gets interesting is last week we were on a school trip for 10 days in Italy in Spain and all of that and for the first three days we were constantly together like he was in my room with my friends, we were together talking on the bus and all of that. also when i was sick on the second day of the trip he spent the day in our room trying to cheer me up and distract me from sickness. it was really nice, then he randomly came up to me and hugged me in my room and told me that he missed me a lot. And then we went to a club and he got drunk and when he was drunk, he came up to me and hugged me and told me that I’m his favourite person in the class even though his guy best friends are in our class and all of that, I mean he told me multiple times before that I’m his favourite person in the class and then we can always talk. Then throughout the whole night he was constantly hugging me but not just a regular hug. He was like cuddled up to me laying on my neck laying on my chest we almost kissed a couple of times then his best friend came up to me and told me like “come on give him a chance, are you two official finally” and stuff like. And that hugging continued throughout the whole night where we would hug for at least a minute a minute and a half where we would “cuddle”. then in the middle of the night while I was standing he came up and picked me up and held me in the air for a good minute. then we were in front of the club waiting for our professors and he sat down next to me and laid on my chest and hugged me and we were sitting down like that for maybe 5 to 10 minutes and everybody was looking at us. After that, we were in the hotel and I guess my best friend came up to him and told him that the whole situation is uncomfortable and he apologised to me if he made me uncomfortable or anything like that and I told him that he didn’t and that I enjoyed it. And that is the last time we spoke because the next day he refused to speak to me or to my friends he ignored us. He bought a T-shirt that says I love my ex. He started texting his ex again and I caught him multiple times just staring at me and looking at me or waiting for my reaction or something like that or when we were on the bus, he was trying to be extremely loud so I can hear him. And when he saw me talking to my ex, he was just stearing at us like really obviously and I guess that bothers him. I forgot to mention that the day after all of that happened I actually came up to him and asked him if he is mad at me or if I did something and he just brushed it off and said everything’s fine and all of that, even though I know it is not. now I have asked every single person for their opinion and they told me that he is probably in love with me and that he felt some type of guilt because of the whole situation and because he was drunk and basically confessed to me all of that and I didn’t give him a reaction back because I do not like him. another thing that is important about him is that he is obsessed with attention and the moment I didn’t give him that attention back meaning like a kiss or a relationship he started talking with his ex again and tried to make me jealous. i’m currently really sad that I lost such a good friend because I have to see him every day in school and we can’t even say hi to each other and I don’t know if I did something wrong. Maybe the only thing is that I was hugging him back and giving him that attention and maybe leading him on I guess. but I would really like other perspectives and maybe a male perspective of all of this because I don’t.
please help guys

if anyone has any questions about my story or anything they would like to know, i would love to tell you.
please help guys

I would really like to get everyone’s advice and opinion on this story because this just happened a week ago to me and I don’t know what to do or what to think. I don’t know exactly where to start but I have known this guy since 2023 because we are in the same class and he was in a relationship with one of my then close friends that is also in our class for like a year. then at the end of 2025 in October I went through a break up and then we really started getting close and he was there for me and our friendship became really good, i could tell him everything and he always made me cheer up and made me happy. at one point our friendship started to get like really weird where people started constantly asking us if we were together and all of that because he really likes physical touch, especially with me. we would just be standing around school or sitting in our class and he would be hugging me or he would lick my hand for some reason or play with my hair or something like that. now where this all gets interesting is last week we were on a school trip for 10 days in Italy in Spain and all of that and for the first three days we were constantly together like he was in my room with my friends, we were together talking on the bus and all of that. also when i was sick on the second day of the trip he spent the day in our room trying to cheer me up and distract me from sickness. it was really nice, then he randomly came up to me and hugged me in my room and told me that he missed me a lot. And then we went to a club and he got drunk and when he was drunk, he came up to me and hugged me and told me that I’m his favourite person in the class even though his guy best friends are in our class and all of that, I mean he told me multiple times before that I’m his favourite person in the class and then we can always talk. Then throughout the whole night he was constantly hugging me but not just a regular hug. He was like cuddled up to me laying on my neck laying on my chest we almost kissed a couple of times then his best friend came up to me and told me like “come on give him a chance, are you two official finally” and stuff like. And that hugging continued throughout the whole night where we would hug for at least a minute a minute and a half where we would “cuddle”. then in the middle of the night while I was standing he came up and picked me up and held me in the air for a good minute. then we were in front of the club waiting for our professors and he sat down next to me and laid on my chest and hugged me and we were sitting down like that for maybe 5 to 10 minutes and everybody was looking at us. After that, we were in the hotel and I guess my best friend came up to him and told him that the whole situation is uncomfortable and he apologised to me if he made me uncomfortable or anything like that and I told him that he didn’t and that I enjoyed it. And that is the last time we spoke because the next day he refused to speak to me or to my friends he ignored us. He bought a T-shirt that says I love my ex. He started texting his ex again and I caught him multiple times just staring at me and looking at me or waiting for my reaction or something like that or when we were on the bus, he was trying to be extremely loud so I can hear him. And when he saw me talking to my ex, he was just stearing at us like really obviously and I guess that bothers him. I forgot to mention that the day after all of that happened I actually came up to him and asked him if he is mad at me or if I did something and he just brushed it off and said everything’s fine and all of that, even though I know it is not. now I have asked every single person for their opinion and they told me that he is probably in love with me and that he felt some type of guilt because of the whole situation and because he was drunk and basically confessed to me all of that and I didn’t give him a reaction back because I do not like him. another thing that is important about him is that he is obsessed with attention and the moment I didn’t give him that attention back meaning like a kiss or a relationship he started talking with his ex again and tried to make me jealous. i’m currently really sad that I lost such a good friend because I have to see him every day in school and we can’t even say hi to each other and I don’t know if I did something wrong. Maybe the only thing is that I was hugging him back and giving him that attention and maybe leading him on I guess. but I would really like other perspectives and maybe a male perspective of all of this because I don’t.

if anyone has any questions about my story or anything they would like to know, i would love to tell you.
please help guys