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The first 3 photos are current day – I typically wear it up/back for work like in the second photo, and when it is down, I don’t think it’s very flattering on me. I recently got a haircut as a refresher, but I’m still not quite pleased with how I look.
I can’t decide if I would look best if I just stick it out and keep growing it, or if I look better with it shorter like in the last two photos, which are from about 2019-2020.

I’ve been growing my hair out for a little over a year now, but I feel like I need a change! I’m almost 30 and am lacking any edge in my appearance anymore. The first two pictures are current day, and the last three are about 6-7 years ago. Honest thoughts?

I hardly ever wear my hair down, whether it be for work or for convenience – I like the way it looks up, but it sometimes feels pointless to even keep it longer if I never show it. I’ve had short hair at many times in my life, the last 3 pictures being about 6 or 7 years ago. Do I continue to grow it out, or should I chop it off again? Which suits me better?

I love my personal style and don’t intend on changing it completely, but it’s become increasingly difficult to find pants or bottoms that fit in a way that make me look proportional. I obviously know I can’t change my body shape simply by how I dress, but I have a clear pear shape and don’t want to appear so bottom-heavy. I just want to dress appropriately for my age and size – I’m 28 and 6’ tall

I love movies like Ghost In The Shell, Alien: Covenant, and Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind – what are some books that have a similar vibe or premise?

I haven’t read, or even finished a book in years, and after purchasing Spoiled Milk about a month ago, I actually managed to read it all!
I think this was the perfect starter book for me – the right length, with a mild amount of supernatural horror and sapphic elements.
I feel like now I am ready for something more intense, though. Any recommendations?

There are two people that I get somewhat frequently. Curious to see if any of you name them or not!