Moving from Arizona

I’m moving with my family from Phoenix Arizona to Tennessee because of a job opportunity for my husband. My daughter is 4 and starting school fall 2027 but we are, more likely than not, going to homeschool. One of the places we really like and are considering is Clarksville.

Right now our biggest issue with Phoenix is how hot it is the majority of the year and how boring it is to look at/be around. We are a very outdoorsy family and love hiking and taking walks but where we currently live (near downtown Phoenix) it’s just not safe for me and my young daughter to do those things alone. We enjoy going to the Phoenix zoo often and the library but honestly those are the only two “enriching” places we visit unless we’re day tripping to Sedona.

Does anyone have any insight on the area and how it’ll be for being outdoors? I know the weather is very different, I’ve visited TN before and was living on the east coast for the majority of my life until having my daughter. The weather doesn’t really concern me. I know it’s humid and I’ve lived in humid states before along with snowy states so overall the weather isn’t an issue. What is the cost of living like for an average family there? From what I’ve seen the cost of living for the area compared to where we currently is cheaper for groceries and gas but it seems like rent is more expensive there for the apartments we’re seeing (≈$1300/m here, ≈$1800/m there). What is shopping like? We almost exclusively shop at Aldi which we love but obviously we can adjust if need be.

I’m looking for a slower, more meaningful life in TN. My child is only going to be this age for a little and I want to fill her life with a slower pace, being in nature and just a calmer environment. Phoenix is full of homeless people who are violent and very confrontational. Obviously there are drug problems everywhere but we’re less than 5minutes from the highway and cannot go two streets past our community without seeing homeless and hard drug use. I don’t want her growing up seeing that and thinking it’s normal. Another thing to note is that we are not white. I have friends in TN but they are white so they see things through a white lens which isn’t their fault but it’s hard to find information online about where is safer for my family and not all white. We are also queer, I know Tennessee as a whole is pretty conservative, white and religious which is fine! I’m not looking to “California your Tennessee” but I am a little concerned about my daughter not seeing a lot of diversity.

If you live in Clarksville, what is your experience living there? Is it a good place to raise a child? What are your monthly expenses like if you rent? How long does it typically take to go to larger chain stores (Walmart, target, Home Depot, goodwill, Aldi)? What is your favorite part of living in Clarksville?

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u/uncertainty2022 — 16 hours ago

Trade received!

Thank you u/unesheet for the awesome cat toys and the cute polishes! They’re so well made and adorable! I hope you love the pick mat and polishes too!

u/uncertainty2022 — 3 days ago

Moving from Arizona to Old Hickory TN

I’m moving with my family from Phoenix Arizona to Old Hickory because of a job opportunity for my husband. We’re going to be living near Old Hickory Country Club. My daughter is 4 and starting school fall 2027 but we are, more likely than not, going to homeschool.

Right now our biggest issue with Phoenix is how hot it is the majority of the year and how boring it is to look at/be around. We are a very outdoorsy family and love hiking and taking walks but where we currently live (near downtown Phoenix) it’s just not safe for me and my young daughter to do those things alone. We enjoy going to the Phoenix zoo often and the library but honestly those are the only two “enriching” places we visit unless we’re day tripping to Sedona.

Does anyone have any insight on the area and how it’ll be for being outdoors? I know the weather is very different, I’ve visited TN before and was living on the east coast for the majority of my life until having my daughter. The weather doesn’t really concern me. I saw the schools nearby are well rated if we decide to do public schooling and having the lake right nearby seems great. I’m most worried about cost of living for the area compared to where we currently are but it seems like rent is more expensive there (≈$1300/m here, ≈$1800/m there) but most other costs are less expensive. I’ve seen also that there are no large grocery chains near (there’s something called a “Piggly Wiggly”?) which concerns me a little because we pretty much exclusively shop at Aldi right now.

If you live in Old Hickory, what is your experience living there? Is it a good place to raise a child? What are your monthly expenses like if you rent? How long does it typically take to go to larger chain stores (Walmart, target, Home Depot, goodwill, Aldi)? What is your favorite part of living in old hickory?

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u/uncertainty2022 — 6 days ago

ULPT request: how to make moving across the country easier

I need all the best tips for moving across the country (USA) easier all while saving money. We have money saved (about 10k) but we’re looking to move asap. We already have a job lined up whenever we move and a place to live but getting there is the issue.

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u/uncertainty2022 — 11 days ago

Why do some brands have such inappropriate names? 😭

Not to sound like a prude because I love a good, quirky name just like the next pal but painting my nails is something I enjoy with my child and she always asks me the name of the polish we’re using. How do I explain these stupid inappropriate names to her 😭😭 obviously this is totally just a me issue and I’m mostly just ranting into the void but it is frustrating to see these weird names because I also like to gift my friends my favorite polishes so I can share them with others but it’s so embarrassing giving away polishes with weird names like these.

This is no hate to BCB lacquers, I have a couple and enjoy them but ugh I wish brands would stick to more sfw names instead of these sexual undertone names.

And before anyone says “just don’t buy those ones!!!!!”, yes obviously I’m not going to buy these but it sucks because I do like these colors along with others from different brands that also have weird suggestive names. But whatever, RANT OVER LOL

u/uncertainty2022 — 14 days ago

My LynBDesigns order FINALLY arrived!

I ordered a bunch of thermals over a month ago for my daughter, even though we live in AZ and it’s literally peak heat right now I didn’t think about transporting these polishes. My regret came when my order took more than 2weeks to arrive 😭

Luckily everyone came unscathed by the heat! My daughter immediately wanted Green Beans in the Passenger Seat because it looks like Baja Blast and Baja Blast Midnight lol. First image is the hot/warm state outside in AZ “overcast” weather, second pic is the transitional state of cold tips, third pic is of them in complete cold state. The fourth and fifth pic are of the others I picked up, I must confess the pinky and pointer are of ones I previously had. I just added them to make it look more intentionally rainbowish lol.

Last pic added of my little buddy’s nails. She is OBSESSED with thermals at this point lol.

u/uncertainty2022 — 14 days ago

Send thoughts and prayers 😭

We have now been waiting officially 1month for our LynBDesigns order from the date we purchased. The package finally arrived here in AZ almost a week ago and now for some reason it’s gone back to MI. The purchase was mostly all thermals so I’m panicking hardcore especially because this whole order was for my daughter in her thermal era. I am SO WORRIED the polishes are going to be damaged especially because it’s consistently over 100° here now (today it’s 114°f) and I’m assuming they have been in a truck this entire time so the temps have been even hotter. Please send good vibes my way!! I am anxiously awaiting their arrival.

u/uncertainty2022 — 19 days ago
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Temporary mani until my thermals come (hopefully) tomorrow!

I got another ILNP order today of some I forgot to add on my previous order but this wasn’t the mail I was hoping for today. I ordered some thermals for my daughter from LynBDesigns almost a month ago I think now (?) and I’ve been getting “arriving today” updates from my Shopify app for three days. We live in AZ so I’m very worried they’re going to be damaged by the heat but we’ll see what happens. This is the temporary mani I put on today just to refresh until our long awaited order comes.

u/uncertainty2022 — 21 days ago
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My ILNP order came today!!

My ILNP order came in today, is it bad I have another order probably coming on Friday 🫣 I also saw they’re releasing a new collection on Thursday/Friday but none of them are bright enough to peak my interest right now!

I wanted to get some holographic polishes because I’m destashing my 2022 Cirque Colors bubbly/soda collection and wanted to find replacements that I like better. I just didn’t care for the muted colors and wanted something brighter now that I’m really leaning into colors that make ME happy to look at. These ones are AMAZING. The polish that started the whole order is the green one on my thumb called Someday. This one is BEAUTIFUL. I loveeeee green polishes so much, they are so near and dear to my heart because I had a miscarriage a few years back but the baby’s due date was in august so now I’m always trying to find the sparkliest peridot green polish and I know this green isn’t super peridot stone but it’s still great. The other green on my pinky (Sundance) is nearly the same shade of green as my peridot stone ring so that was pretty perfect.

All that to say I really love ILNP and I love how I can always come back to my cart and purchase whatever was waiting for me and I don’t need to rush to buy anything.

The first two photos are of the polishes out of the bottle, as is with top coat (Sally Hansen insta dri top coat) but the rest of the photos are with Ball Drop added on top with another top coat layer.

u/uncertainty2022 — 23 days ago

Festive stamping for my first ever PPU order!

This is now my fifth or sixth try stamping I believe and I wanted to do something festive for my first PPU order coming in the mail! I love how it turned out and I’m excited to use this stamp sheet again for my birthday in a couple months!

u/uncertainty2022 — 26 days ago

My first ever PPU order has arrived!!

I always said I wouldn’t participate in PPU because I hate fomo and I’m the type of person who buys backup bottles when I find a polish I love. But I got an email when July PPU rolled around and it was the first time ever I made it to the website before closing. I decided to look “just to see” and now three polishes later my order arrived!

The experience I would say has been 8/10 overall, I love all the polishes I received but I do have an issue with the Cuticula polish because the brush is extremely frayed and hard to use even though it’s brand new. So that sucked. But it’s my first time ever trying out any of these brands so I went into it open minded. The Nailed It! Polish Sugar Spun Fun is solar, the Cuticula polish Wake Me Up Inside is magnetic and the Phoenix polish Alicorn I believe is supposed to be a topper but I really dislike the grayish blue base they used instead of a clear base. But it is still very pretty. I unfortunately do understand the hype behind PPU and I think I will be participating in august!

u/uncertainty2022 — 26 days ago
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Swatches of these all? Bonus if you have all of these and do a skittle!

Requesting a skittle of all except coconut cream but! I’m looking for swatches of these in general. I’m looking to buy all but I want to make sure I can do a cohesive skittle with them all. I’m destashing my holographic Cirque Colors and want to find replacements with ILNP and I think these are all pretty cohesive replacements

u/uncertainty2022 — 27 days ago

[SELL] mystery indie and drugstore bundles!

I’m selling mystery boxes of mostly drugstore polishes to make room for more! I am US, Arizona based so if you want to meet up I can do that as well depending on where you are.

Some of these polishes are limited edition, rare, vintage or discontinued colors! I have some indie brands I will also be including (AT LEAST TWO PER BOX) such as Mooncat, Cracked, Fancy Gloss, Cirque Colors, Uno Mas and Maniology. Some of the other brands I’m including are:

-Orly
-Zoya
-Revlon
-salon perfect
-candy moyo
-ncLA
-nyx
-nyc
-sinful colors
-Marie Claire
-China glaze
-Sally Hansen (miracle gel, insta-dri, hard as nails, xtreme wear)
-Essie
-OPI
-pop•arazzi
-one+other
-color vibe
-LA Colors (color craze, la girls gel)
-RK by Kiss

I’m doing 10 drugstore/common polishes per box with a guarantee of 2 indies for $50 flat with shipping included. Most have never been used except to swatch but some I have used for a manicure or two. I’ll also include some cute nail stickers in each box. The transactions will be made through PayPal g&s and shipping will be through PirateShip. Comment here or message me and we can get everything sorted! Thank you!! Happy painting!

u/uncertainty2022 — 28 days ago

Why is F.U.N Lacquer so expensive?

I really like a couple polishes from this brand but I’ve never bought from them before and I’m having a hard time with the price.

I bought from Mooncat and Cracked because they were so hyped and they have been the most expensive single polishes I’ve ever bought and unfortunately I really regret it. The price point was high but I thought because everyone was always raving about them I would enjoy them too but that wasn’t the case so now I’m trying extra hard to make sure I really like the polishes and want them because I want them not because of others, before I buy. Obviously that’s totally a me problem, especially because I was just easily influenced by others and feeling fomo but I’m trying not to do that again.

Now back to this brand, I haven’t seen many reviews of them on here on my feed (I haven’t gone out of my way to search yet though) but I was wondering what some people’s opinions are about the price point. $18 for one polish seems like a lot to me especially for the bottle size (12ml) but I do understand this a specialty finish (magnetic) so it might be more expensive than other finishes. How do others feel about this brand and their formula? Are they easy to work with? Does anyone have this specific polish to show me a swatch as well?

Thank you in advance!

u/uncertainty2022 — 1 month ago

Our first concert as a family!

I haven’t been to a concert since 2019 with my husband (boyfriend at the time), I was supposed to go see MCR with my father in 2022 but my daughter was only 4months old at the time so I was worried about leaving her. This will be our first concert as a family and a concert for me to mark off my bucket list! When I first listened to MCR in 7th grade I told all my friends I would go to their concert one day but I didn’t know the band was broken up. Well over a decade later but hey! I finally get to see them and with the people I love most. I’m so excited!!

u/uncertainty2022 — 1 month ago

New to stamping! This is my second mani

I received my long awaited order from Bee’s Knees Lacquer today and I wanted to try out some stamping sheets I bought secondhand. They aren’t perfect but I love how they look over the velvet magnetic polish. I’m really excited to try again!!

u/uncertainty2022 — 1 month ago
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RIP Cracker :( 09.25.2024-07.14.2026

When we first got Cracker, she was a rescue situation from a neighbor. We didn’t know what we were doing but we saved her and set up a new tank enclosure a couple days after bringing her into our home. She was so sweet. She was our first mouse.

My daughter loved holding her and petting her and giving her special treats. This photo is from the day we brought her home. I already miss your squeaks and watching you run up to the lid of your tank to be held. Once your three friends pass we will be done with our mouse journey but I’ll never forget you. Thanks for being such a sweetie.

u/uncertainty2022 — 1 month ago

Wanted to show off some manis I’ve done so far this summer!

I always take pics of my manicures but rarely post because I usually use a lot of polishes and hate listing them all out for other subs lol so here’s a collection of photos of my manis this summer so far

u/uncertainty2022 — 1 month ago

First time doing actual nail art!

My daughter wore four leaf clover ladybug pajamas last night to bed so I really wanted to create a nail looking using some polishes I don’t often use to recreate a similar look to the pajamas. The clover didn’t turn out how I envisioned but that’s okay. I love the ladybugs :)

u/uncertainty2022 — 1 month ago
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24M/F couple looking for friends!

My husband and I moved to Phoenix about three years ago with our daughter from San Diego. We have mostly kept to ourselves and don’t have any friends our age.

Our child is 4 and very chill. We love hiking (when it’s under 80° lol), swimming, trying new foods, visiting the library, playing with our pets and doing crafts together as a family. We also love board games, we have a large collection. We’re all neurodivergent: autistic and adhd chaos ensues regularly at our apartment with vocal stimming and many hobbies between us. We are also very pro-choice, lgbt+ friendly, and 420 friendly (when our daughter is asleep).

My husband is a maintenance man so he’s very handy with tools, he loves reptiles and bugs, he has a large collection of RC cars and he used to enjoy doing puzzles. He has a large collection of hot wheels and enjoys cars a lot.

I am a stay at home mom and haven’t worked since I was pregnant with our daughter 4.5years ago. I have very many hobbies and interest that I rotate and hyper-focus on every couple of months such as crafting (resin, clay, painting, other random crafts), plants, calico critters, and reading. My main special interest is doing my nails with regular nail polish but I do also know how to do gel. I would love nothing more than to find a friend who will do their nails with me, my husband and daughter enjoy seeing my collection of polishes but it’s not the same as actually doing them with someone.

We’re open to making friends with a childless couple as long as they can be understanding that while our daughter is awake, our priority is her and being around her. We’d love to have others over when she’s asleep if you’re childfree but if we met another couple with kids then we’d love to get together with the kids and hang out too.

We are located somewhat near (10minutes away from) Burton Barr Central Library. Please reach out if you’d like to be friends or if you have suggestions on where to find some likeminded friends!

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u/uncertainty2022 — 2 months ago