Heated Rivalry from A-Z will resume tomorrow!

Hey hey! Unexpected circumstances tonight. I’ll be posting the next letter tomorrow instead of today. See you at the cottage 🏠

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u/vanillablue_ — 8 hours ago

G is for Glasses back on! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 8: H

*tap tap tap tap*

Hhhhhhappy Saturday folks! What are your favorite phrases or words from the show that begin with H?

As a reminder, the phrase "Hollander, you are having panic attack!" is ineligible today since we used it in the last game. (I'm not scared!)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Let's go!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 1 day ago

New England-style ice cream @ Power Cone, Arvada

Stopped in last night because I heard people say that this place does New England-style soft serve. Being originally from CT & MA I had to test this for myself. Let me tell you the people are RIGHT. The soft serve has a higher fat % and less air whipped in, using local dairy and simple ingredients. The owner is charmingly eccentric and very friendly. It is also a very clearly LGBTQ-embracing establishment, with a few flags on the walls. (both of these things also reminded me of home, lol.) 10/10 it’s worth stopping by. 🍓🍦It’s on 58th/Ralston.

u/vanillablue_ — 2 days ago

F is for Found you! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 7: G

"So you were looking for me?"

Another day, another destiny. Whaddaya got for the letter G???

As a reminder, the phrase "Gimme kiss" is ineligible today since we used it in the last game. (You're cold...)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Davai!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 2 days ago

E is for Everyone, Shane Hollander is an asshole! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 6: F

Everyone must know this.

Let's get skating! What are your favorite words or phrases that begin with F?

As a reminder, the phrase "Fucking make me!" is ineligible today since we used it in the last game. (Oh fuck, Shane...)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Let's go!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 3 days ago

Word to the wise - rookie mistake 😩😂

Y’all, don’t be like me. I’ve been donating plasma for over a year in New England, at sea level. I just moved to Colorado at hi elevation and donated yesterday, one month in. Oh my god. Please. DRINK. YOUR. WATER. I have made a rookie mistake here lol, I am glued to my bed with fatigue this morning and felt bad during the night. 😅

Shoutout to Vitalant tho for being kewl - I had to switch from ARC because they don’t have any plasma beds at their centers here in Denver. Positive experience and they are closer to me than my old Red Cross was which is wicked!

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u/vanillablue_ — 4 days ago

D is for Don't marry Svetlana! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 5: E

"We can figure something else out, okay? 🥺"

Sorry for the delay folks! But here we go! What do you got for letter E?!

As a reminder, the phrase "Extra Banana" is ineligible today since it was used in the last game. (Thanks again, Kip.)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Thank you for pasta!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 4 days ago

Speculate with me - do you think Ilya ever tells Shane what he said during the Russian monologue?

I always wonder if in some theoretical world, Ilya later “translated” some of what he said on that phone call to Shane. Like telling Shane that he did say he loved him, etc. Or maybe not? What do you think? Just for fun.

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u/vanillablue_ — 5 days ago

disability costing me multiple job opportunities

fucking sucks. i just lost 3 job opportunities because there was no realistic way to accommodate my disability. i was otherwise extremely qualified. i hate this. just had to vent.

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u/vanillablue_ — 5 days ago

C is for Cottage! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 4: D

Aren't we all forever at the cottage? <3 Now give it up for the letter D! 😈

As a reminder, the phrase "Don't go to Russia" is ineligible today since it was used in the last game. (Hollander you know I can't do dat...)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

For you Mama!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 6 days ago

B is for Bol'she! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 3: C

Y'all ready to play bol'she today?! Let's go with the letter C!

As a reminder, the word "Compatible" is ineligible today since it was used in the last game. (I looked up that word...)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Davai!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 7 days ago

A is for All the things she said! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 2: B

"I promise I won't make you dance."

Great showing for Round 1! Now we're onto Round 2...give it up for the letter B!

As a reminder, the word "Boring" is ineligible today since it was used in the last game. (Oh my god, Hollander.)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A could not be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Davai!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 7 days ago

PUCK DROP! Heated Rivalry from A-Z - Day 1: A (Please read post)

Welcome back to the ice! It's day 1 of Heated Rivalry from A-Z, round two of the Alphabet game! Davai!!

What are your favorite words or short phrases/quotes from the show that begin with the letter A? I love it, I love it!

As a reminder, the word "Asshole" is ineligible for today's entry since it was used in the first game. :)

Here are the gameplay guidelines:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. Each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A cannot be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Top comment by tomorrow wins! Upvote all your favorite comments. Please let me know if you're unable to see upvote counts.
  7. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Let's go!!🏒

u/vanillablue_ — 9 days ago

PREGAME HUDDLE: The A-Z of Heated Rivalry, part 2! Gameplay Guidelines - please read entire post

I’m coming (back) to the cottage and am dropping the puck for round two of the Heated Rivalry Alphabet!

For those of you who played last time, welcome back to the ice! For those of you new to the game, here is the rundown on how it works and general guidelines.

The (not-so complicated and nuanced) Game: There will be a new post every day. Each day, I will propose a letter to you, and you will comment your favorite word or phrase from the TV Series that begins with the letter. You will all then upvote your favorite responses. The next day, the comment with the most upvotes will win the trophy. We will go on like this for 26 days until we have finished the entire alphabet - together!

Now, I appreciate all the input on my recent post asking about methods to pick the daily winners. You made great suggestions. However, for clarity and simplicity’s sake, I will continue the “popular vote” method to choose the winning entries. If there is a tie, I will pick the winner myself.

I strongly encourage everyone to check back throughout the day to keep upvoting entries as they come in! Please let me know if you’re unable to see the upvote count, too! (If it's a persistent problem, I may adjust the method.)

Finally, here are the 6 game rules we’ll be playing by - please read them carefully:

  1. All winning entries from the last game are ineligible. I will post the entire list below, and each day I will include that letter’s corresponding ineligible entry in the post. So for example, A cannot be Asshole, because we picked it last time. 
  2. Only share an entry for the day’s letter - please do not skip ahead. I promise it’s worth the wait!
  3. All entries must be from the TV Series - entries from the books will not count.
  4. No repeats! For example, if Cottage wins C, later entries can't reference the cottage (e.g., a quote that's essentially just about the cottage). I know, part of the game…
  5. Do not change an entry by editing your comment. Just make a new comment to keep things fair.
  6. Be a good sport. Be respectful to all players. If your entry doesn’t win or you disagree with the winner, that’s oké, but just shake hands and say good job, I love you!

Here's all the things we said last time that are now in the penalty box:

A- Asshole!

B- Boring

C- Compatible

D- Don’t go to Russia

E- Extra banana

F- Fucking make me!

G- Gimme kiss

H- Hollander, you are having panic attack!

I- I’m coming to the cottage

J- Jane

K- KiP

L- ✨LOVERS✨

M- Mr. Businessman / Mr. Real Estate / Mr. Landlord 🕺🏻

N- Never in life have I blushed, Russians do not do this

O- Oké

P- Please get on your knees on this filthy bathroom floor and suck my dick… please

Q- Questions, you have too many of them

R- Remember when I made you come hands-free?

S- STUPID CANADIAN WOLF BIRD

T- Then maybe it’s time to wake up, yes?

U- Unlikely animals becoming friends

V- Vodka is for after, as your reward

W- We didn’t even kiss

X- xo Lily

Y- Ya tebya lyublyu

Z- (zzz…) Good morning. I like you.

See y'all tomorrow - Let’s go!!! 🏒

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u/vanillablue_ — 10 days ago

Return of the Alphabet game…?👀

IM BACK BABY!!!

Hey loonies!! It’s me, Blue, back from a cross-country move and ready to play more games.

I’m thinking of rebooting our Alphabet game, with the condition that the previous answers are ineligible (I’d add the ineligible phrase to each post so y’all know).

I did get some feedback that the “most upvotes wins” model favored people who saw the post early. I want to ask you all how you feel about that and if I should tally the votes another way?

And if you have any other game ideas, hit me with them, okéh?!

See you at the cottage 🩵

Edit: the ~15% of you who downvoted don’t get to play 😘❤️

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u/vanillablue_ — 10 days ago

forearm crutches - where do y'all get them?? usa

i have EDS and have tried most interventions in PT and orthoses, all of which have failed. my PCP agreed that assessing me for forearm crutches would be the likely best fit for my needs.

HOWEVER

i cannot find, like, anywhere that does this??? i've checked local orthotists, PT offices, orthopedic surgeons etc. and havent found anything. for those of you who have forearm crutches, what kind of physician did you get them from?!

and if any of you happen to be local to the denver metro... help a girl out!!

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u/vanillablue_ — 10 days ago

feeling demoralized trying to find a new job

USA. i have two mild-moderate disabilities (i can do most things, but with quantified limitations or needing accommodations) and I'm still somehow unable to find gainful, accessible employment. i have a 5-year career in sales, a field I'm desperately trying to ditch because of my disabilities. my college education is not in sales and is also in a field that's no longer accessible to me. so I'm looking at career #3 in less than 10 years, and i cant get any more educaiton right now bc I'm broke.

i just moved across the country so i have zero network. i have applied to ~200 roles that i am suited for, customizing my resume expertly to each one, reaching out on linkedin when appropriate, etc. and i am getting nothing from it. mostly ghosting, then a lot of rejections, and the few interviews i have had didn't work out even though i was qualified.

i am just mad that i have to be disabled because if i wasn't, I'm def the kind of person to do physical or warehouse style labor, hell i'd even do landscaping or any job where you have to be on your feet...so many jobs have to be thrown out the window due to my disabilities, ones that would otherwise be fine.

my partner footed the cost of the entire move ($8k), our rent here (not cheap), and even helping me repair my car when my sales job destroyed it. i have no savings, 10k in debt, and 2k in my bank account. the state DVR is on a massive waitlist. i cant even do doordash or instacart. i feel super fcked and super guilty/bad about myself that apparently i am just not good enough at anything to overcome the barriers my disabilities put on my employment.

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u/vanillablue_ — 11 days ago