▲ 20 r/BambiLesbians+1 crossposts

I’m in love with a woman at my church

She’s so beautiful, and she is truly a kind person. I love her so much it hurts I know she could never feel the same. She’s 20+ years older than me and we are both woman. I hate and love seeing her, every time we hug I just want to hold her forever. She gives so much to others and barely had time for herself. She just understands me and loves me and all my weirdness. Gosh this is stupid but i dont know I needed to get this off my chest

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 9 days ago

I love older women

I want to be in a homo romantic relationship with an older woman. We would watch anime and cuddle. She’s always happy to see me, and she truly understands me.

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 15 days ago

I feel like my love will never be seen as real

Sex is seen as the deepest form of love, and I hate that. I wish sex was not the end all be all in relationship.

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 1 month ago

WHAT A STEAL

Yall should hop on this🤑🤑🤑(63.58$ after tax) drop a photo in the comments if you get them!!!

u/AmountDesperate220 — 3 months ago

I woke up to my mom checking my wrist

We are staying at a hotel so she didn’t just walk into my room. I guess she thought I was asleep I kinda was but I feel her moving the sheets and I’m like “mom? I haven’t done anything 🫩”, and she like,”just checking”. I understand why but it’s just embarrassing I guess

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 3 months ago
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Sakura wasn’t that bad

I feel like Sakura hate was like my first experience with propaganda. Like yeah she was annoying but like she wasn’t more annoying than any other kid, said so ignorant things but she wasn’t nearly as bad as people make her out to be

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 3 months ago

Hot take but I hate when other women can women their “bitchs” or their “hoes” and when they call them “females”

I hate when men do it but
I expect it from them, but when a woman does it, I automatically think less of them because like what is wrong with you? I think it’s just so disrespectful in general, and the fact that you’re a woman saying that too like are you for real?

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 3 months ago

I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know what to do. I feel like I have fallen into like some kind of self harm addiction. I don’t have anyone to talk about this with,and maybe i should talk to someone. I feel like I can’t stop, I do it with out even thinking it’s like my version of doom scrolling, but I feel like I can’t stop myself from doing it no matter where I am if I have a small blade I cut. I’m ashamed I already have burn scars from doing that and my mom said she was gonna go tell my church’s prayer group if I don’t stop (she doesn’t no they are burns she thinks it’s some kind of infection I got from a bracelet that I’m picking on, she doesn’t know it’s self harm) so I stoped when I ran out of patches but then I got this small like facial blade and just started cutting. I don’t really know why. It’s only a matter of time until she finds all these cuts on my arms, and she saw one and i just told her idk where it came from but she’s not stupid. I don’t know what to do I just need to calm down of something, maybe it would be a good thing if she saw them and I talked to someone. I know if I do that it with become a big thing and she’s tell my grandparents and they will freak out and I can’t handle that. Does anyone have and advice or simply some kind words anything helps at this point, I just wanna stop.

Sorry if this is poorly written 😕

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 4 months ago

Do men ever become better?

I (16f) regularly get followed by men. I live in a safe nice town but this still happens to me, I get cat called and just harassed. A guy literally asked me to sit on his face💔.have pretty much lost hope in men. I’m a lesbian but I love people and I don’t wanna live in fear of certain people and avoid them forever. I have met guys that i thought where good/kind but they all end up treating me crappy or trying to hook up :( are men Inherently bad? or am I just unlucky

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 4 months ago

I don’t think i can be friends with straight men

Every time I become friends with a straight man they end up thinking I like them and start treating me like they’re lapdogs. They treat me like I’m dumb after a certain amount of time. I’m a bubble person and I love people and I carry this energy in my friendships with women and men, but I don’t know if this is just the ones I have met bit I guess their not used to that and think it means something more then I’m a nice person. It doesn’t help that I’m pretty either because when you’re talkative and pretty they really think you want them. It’s just pisses me off and I only ever experience this with straight men not even bi or pan men just straight ones 🫩🫩and I’m not out as a lesbian so they think they have a shot and this is at a church setting 🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀and i can’t come out so yay for me ig

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u/AmountDesperate220 — 4 months ago