u/Anofrog

My ex and I broke up sept 2024. We were together for 8 years and broke up shortly before our wedding. So much arose in my life before the wedding and I wanted to postpone it, but we ended up breaking up. I then had a few traumatic / life changing events take place and thought I was processing the break up during that time, but I feel like in March my life finally started to slow down so I’ve been heavily processing the break up.

I find myself constantly having dreams about my ex, re-running conversations if I were to ever run into him and I look for him everywhere. It’s been over a year and a half and I’m honestly quite scared that I’ll never be the same, will open myself up to anyone, or truly let him go

I’ve tried the carbon filter, I’ve tried the little pod in the waste basket, I’ve tried using both, I deep clean my litter robot monthly, I change the waste basket every 2-3 days (when it hits 65% full). I use their recommended litter. I’ve tried the auto cycle on 7, 15 and 30 minutes. Whenever I walk by the litter robot, it just smells and I don’t know what else to do. I’m really anal about smells so this is driving me crazy. Thanks