I’m getting so annoyed with trading

I’m getting so annoyed with trading

I’m a returning player to classic after many many years and the whole worth thing has been very hard for me. Trying to navigate wiki is already really tedious for me as well. I think I have gotten a couple decent items so far and have put them on my trade list. I’m working so hard to gain some value in the game. A lot of people have traded me but I have no idea the worth of their items so I go to wiki to look them up. But every single time, by the time I come back they’ve canceled the trade. What am I supposed to do? I want to make sure it’s a good trade but nobody has the patience. I can’t chat it through like on play wild to let them know I need a min to figure it out. Any advice?

u/Areotew — 9 days ago

Is any of this worth anything?

This is my recent TFD haul. I’ve been grinding to hopefully make some dims. Does any of this have any value?

u/Areotew — 1 month ago

As a returning player after 15 years, I need some help

I feel like I am returning to an entirely new game. I don’t know the worths of anything and am not sure how to easily figure that out. I’ve tried wiki but that site is so confusing. Upon my return, I have decided that I NEED one of those feathered hat thingys but I’ve heard they’re crazy expensive. I remember having one way back when and it was awesome. So I guess my question is, how would I work my way up to that? I’ve been playing TFD but idk what to do with any of my stuff. I’ve heard none of it is worth much. So yeah…..help?🥲

u/Areotew — 1 month ago

Are these ever actually new jammers or usually just alts?

I get so tired of the spams asking for free stuff. Like, I love giving stuff to people but not to people that are begging for it. And when I do so I want it to be to someone who needs it and not someone who’s just gonna trade it over to their real account. Can anyone else agree?

u/Areotew — 1 month ago

Is having magnetic chargers and phone holders bad for your phone?

I’ve always heard magnets are bad for phones so what’s different about these chargers and holders?

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u/Areotew — 1 month ago

No one is taking the RSVP seriously

I sent the invites out over a month ago maybe two. Deadline for RSVPs is in a week. I’ve had about 20 people out of around 200 actually RSVP. I live in a rural (everyone knows everyone) area and think people just don’t take that kind of formality seriously and assume that I would just know that they’ll be there. I’ve heard a lot of word of mouth with people who will and won’t attend but they still haven’t sent in their RSVP. What should I do?

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u/Areotew — 2 months ago

I don’t want to dance at my own wedding

I definitely want there to be dancing at my wedding and I want everyone to have a good time. I, however, am not a dancing kind of person by any means even if I’ve had some drinks. How to I avoid dancing but not make it obvious to everyone?

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u/Areotew — 2 months ago

To coincide with my previous post about malls…

So this is my current mall. A lot of you were saying you didn’t like malls due to being overwhelming/disorganized. I’m curious as to how the layout of mine is for those who are more picky about organization

u/Areotew — 2 months ago

What are your feelings toward large malls?

Do people tend to avoid malls or is this something people like? Does it just depend on the people and the mall?

u/Areotew — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/self

I think I’m a terrible person and I don’t know how to stop

I (25F) think this behavior of mine really tracks back about 15 years ago when I was in junior high. I always had a craving for attention, good or bad, and was always doing the dumbest things for it. I thought I was the class clown but in reality I was just weird. I thought I had lots of friends because they would always laugh. The laughs were really just because it was such a weird and awkward situation I was putting them in. Getting into high school I realized how weird I really was. I ended up finding myself a pretty awesome small friend group and we were inseparable for about 6 years then all of a sudden we just fell off and never talk anymore. There wasn’t even a specific conflict. All of a sudden I realized they just backed off until they were gone for good.

I’m thinking who I am as a person is actually just terrible even though I’ve never had poor intentions at all. There’s a couple things I feel like factor into why this is. One being, I’m the youngest of 8 kids. That may even be able to speak for itself for the way I always had to compete with my siblings. Always needing to fight to be the best, win the approval, deserve the special treatment, attention, or praise. The other factor I think might be my work environment. I’ve had this job for maybe 5 years, in construction, and the only female on the team. My whole time here has been fight or flight basically. Everyone is always picking on each other and tearing each other down, but in a joking way. With that being said, I feel like it’s gotten so engraved in me to always be “joking” and sarcastic and picking on everyone not just at work. I’m realizing, maybe with this lack of self control on how I joke with people actually hurts people and makes them not be around me. Is this why I’ve never been able to maintain a long term friend? I don’t know how to change it. I’ve thought a lot over the last year about being different. About changing that part of me and just being kind no matter what. But I always still end up being, honestly, straight up cruel with my words to a degree. And it’s as if no one can ever take me seriously and they can’t have that in their lives. What do I do?

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u/Areotew — 2 months ago

Gifting! (Read description PLZ and pic unrelated, enjoy my cat)

Hiiii I want to do some gifting but I don’t want to make it about me. I tried to make another post for this but nobody gave it the time of day since I didn’t directly say I was gifting people. I’m trying to surprise my bf with lots of gifts as this is his first time being able to participate in a gifting event in AJ since school takes up too much of his time the other two times. So since that post got ignored, here I am again now trying to incentivize people to help out. It kind of upset me how people won’t do anything unless they’re getting something in return. But anyway, let’s get down to it.
I will be gifting people that gift my bf.
Requirements:
-leave your user
-let me know if you gifted (this will have to be partially honor system as I cannot see who gifted, only how many)
-let me know what type of item you’d like (clothing, pet, den items, pots etc)
-drop your favorite colors and themes you go for. I will be ignoring big long expensive lists as I’m not very wealthy.
-incorporate your favorite animal emoji so Ik you read this
As for my bf his user is will386…he likes dark greys, dark red, and blacks. He collects lizards, midnight pets, and dark colored drags. His wishlist pretty much says it all. He just really likes dark colors. His top….unrealistic lol… dream items are blackout spike, a drag like beastOfthenight (literally his celebrity crush pretty much X), and red/ black dragons wings (either the og or a party type)

If you’d like to gift me (I’d almost prefer you didn’t cuz I want this to be all about him and not me) but IF you do my user is iplayedin2012 and I love white clothing items, library, bungalow, loch den items and I’m collecting ugly unis for my first ever rainbow pet. Or literally anything off my ingame will. Again tysm for reading this and helping me surprise my bf!

u/Areotew — 3 months ago

ISO good work boots for flat feet

I’m on my feet all day and also seem to wreck boots fast. Any recommendations?

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u/Areotew — 3 months ago
▲ 3 r/Brides

What dress do I wear for my bridal shower?

I am having a “bride to bee 🐝 “ themed shower and I don’t know if I should wear a white or pastel yellow dress. These are my options

u/Areotew — 4 months ago

Is it worth purchasing invitations from a wedding site?

Wedding invitations are so bloody expensive for no reason. It’s literally just paper. Do I spend that money or is there a cheaper alternative?

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u/Areotew — 4 months ago
▲ 5 r/Advice

What do I do if my fiancé doesn’t like any of the wedding dress styles that I like?

I want to wear something that he finds attractive but I also want to wear what I feel most confident and comfortable in. Basically all of my dream dresses have been shut down. I don’t know what to do

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u/Areotew — 4 months ago

What is this button?

I have a 2017 Honda accord. My tire pressure like has been on since I got the car. I just noticed this button and was wondering if is could help me get rid of the light.

u/Areotew — 4 months ago

Are these prices fair?

First of all, AJ is so mean reminding me I can’t afford my own stuff 😭

Second, do yall think I’m pricing these fairly? I advertise for a while but nothing ever happens. However, I think someone from explorer came and bought one bc my shop number decreased but I never saw the purchase notification or the saps🥲

u/Areotew — 4 months ago