u/ColdWay6669

I live with my family ( me, twin sister, mom, little brother )

We all cook separately because my mom stopped cooking for the entire family. She just cooks for my little brother an herself.

Which means we all need our own ingredients and own food.

And now there's literally NO Place in our fridge and we struggle to get everything in.

It's so bad that sometimes we forget about food because it's hidden, that it molds without anyone noticing.

ANY advice on how to handle that??? Any tips and tricks to make it better ??

I can't wait to move out damn 🥲

Hallo, ich hab jetzt seit fast 2 jahren probleme mit reizdarm symptomen bin aber gleichzeitig auch zu dünn und versuche jetzt schon soooo lange zuzunehmen. Ich habe immer extreme angst etwas zu essen weil ich angst habe das ich dann wieder symptome bekomme weil das ja echt random kommt.

Meistens endscheide ich mich auch dann einfach gar nix zu essen oder nur sehr leichte dinge (fast ohne kalorien) zu essen. Und so nimmt man ganz sicher nicht zu.

Ich hab bis jz nicht so viele "safe foods" gefunden.

Ich Weis nicht was ich tun soll😭

Hi, I’ve been dealing with IBS symptoms for almost two years now, but I’m also underweight and have been trying to gain weight for soo long. I’m always terrified to eat anything because I’m afraid the symptoms will flare up again—since they seem to strike so unpredictably.

Most of the time, I end up deciding not to eat anything at all, or just having very light things (with almost no calories). And that’s definitely not the way to gain weight.

I haven't really found many "safe foods" so far.

I don't know what to do 😭

Muss nur ganz kurz was abholen und hätte einfach chillig hingehen können. Statdessen steh ich freiwillig extrem viel früher auf nur weil ich den wirklich nicht begegnen will.

Was ist falsch mit mir

Hab das als "meme" markiert aber das ist eigentlich komplett ernst gemeint 🥲

What can I do now???

My morning routine looks like this: when I wake up i take my vitamin pills with water, I brush my teeth, I use mouthwash and then I SOMETIMES manage to eat a few bites of something before leaving.

When i left and when i arrive at work I immediately use gum. And I use gum for the entire day because I'm scared of bad breathe.

But sometimes my mouth feels weird and it feels like I've bad breath and sometimes i even notice it myself because I kinda can smell it myself. But not always.

I'm thinking WAY to much about my breath and it annoys me really really really really much.

I wish there was something I could do/use so i my mouth doesn't feel weird and so that I don't have to use gum all day.

Help me

What can I do now???

My morning routine looks like this: when I wake up i take my vitamin pills with water, I brush my teeth, I use mouthwash and then I SOMETIMES manage to eat a few bites of something before leaving.

When i left and when i arrive at work I immediately use gum. And I use gum for the entire day because I'm scared of bad breathe.

But sometimes my mouth feels weird and it feels like I've bad breath and sometimes i even notice it myself because I kinda can smell it myself. But not always.

I'm thinking WAY to much about my breath and it annoys me really really really really much.

I wish there was something I could do/use so i my mouth doesn't feel weird and so that I don't have to use gum all day.

Help me

This will be the worst summer. And it just started. I'm so unbelievably insane scared of ticks and mosquitoes.

I'd love to use insect spray every second but those sprays are very unhealthy aswell. Plus I don't have the money to buy it that often.

I'm just so scared that I'll get a disease from those insects and its so bad that I'm scared of being outside even for 2 seconds.

I love summer and I love being outside but the fear makes me want to stay inside.

I'm even scared of my family members bringing ticks with diseases into the house because i know that they aren't as much careful as me.

Help😭

I never talked about this but now i feel like telling someone somewhere.

I have a twin sister and we are getting both hated by our mom for no reason??? We have a younger brother and he's her favorite even tho his behavior is the worst a kid could ever have (he's 10 and im serious) my sister and I just turned 20.

In our childhood my mom had a boyfriend (our biological real dad was depressed so she left him 1 year after we were born and we never met him) and he was narcissistic and abusive and a pedophile so you can imagine how our childhood was. The boyfriend moved out when we were 16 years old, which means we went trough the biggest horror of being mentally abused, sexually abused and beaten up for fun, for around 11 years.

Because of that we were completely silent kids. And my mom basically never cared. He only moved out because I told an old therapist of mine.

our 10 year old brother is from the boyfriend and he always treated the younger brother like he's some kind of golden-god-heals cancer-child. But he's the worst. Disrespectful and lazy. He insults my mom 10 billion times a day. We never even thought of doing that.

Everytime when this comes up my mom says "oh my god yes I'M the worst mom ever 🙄🙄" and gets mad at US.

My mom always buys stuff for the little brother but gets mad at us when we buy a normal amount of food at the grocery store, telling us that we don't have enough money. (We are both underweight...) but again, a second later my little brother gets expensive game passes or sth.

She STILL meets her boyfriend even tho he moved out and she completely neglects us (like she always did when her boyfriend still lived in the house). There are moments where we all chill together at home and we have a nice talk but my mom never ever asks us if we want to go out with her on a family trip or sth.

But she goes out with her boyfriend and the little brother ALL THE TIME.

and it was recently our birthday and my sister nearly had to force her to go at a small restaurant with us and my mom said she wanted to go somewhere with our little brother instead of going out with us. ON OUR B-DAY.

The thing is, she isn't always so mean. She's alot of times like a normal mom and everything almost feels normal, but then we remember that she doesn't love us at all.

My sister plans to move into another country (her dream country, it's Canada btw) to let everything behind her and ghosting our mom and can start to live a normal life.

But what do i do? Breaking contact with our mom too just to be completely alone? No dad no mom no sister no family no friends.

But what I wonder the most is why our mom hates us SO MUCH. What did we ever do to her and why isn't she loving us ?????

I never talked about this but now i feel like telling someone somewhere.

I have a twin sister and we are getting both hated by our mom for no reason??? We have a younger brother and he's her favorite even tho his behavior is the worst a kid could ever have (he's 10 and im serious) my sister and I just turned 20.

In our childhood my mom had a boyfriend (our biological real dad was depressed so she left him 1 year after we were born and we never met him) and he was narcissistic and abusive and a pedophile so you can imagine how our childhood was. The boyfriend moved out when we were 16 years old, which means we went trough the biggest horror of being mentally abused, sexually abused and beaten up for fun, for around 11 years.

Because of that we were completely silent kids.

our 10 year old brother is from the boyfriend and he always treated the younger brother like he's some kind of golden-god-heals cancer-child.

And my mom basically never cared. He only moved out because I told an old therapist of mine.

Everytime when this comes up my mom says "oh my god yes I'M the worst mom ever 🙄🙄" and gets mad at US.

My mom always buys him stuff but gets mad at us when we buy a normal amount of food at the grocery store, telling us that we don't have enough money. (We are both underweight...) but again, a second later my little brother gets expensive game passes or sth.

She STILL meets her boyfriend even tho he moved out and she completely neglects us (like she always did when her boyfriend still lived in the house). There are moments where we all chill together at home and we have a nice talk but my mom never ever asks us if we want to go out with her on a family trip or sth.

But she goes out with her boyfriend and the little brother ALL THE TIME.

and it was recently our birthday and my sister nearly had to force her to go at a small restaurant with us and my mom said she wanted to go somewhere with our little brother instead of going out with us. ON OUR B-DAY.

The thing is, she isn't always so mean. She's alot of times like a normal mom and everything almost feels normal, but then we remember that she doesn't love us at all.

My sister plans to move into another country (her dream country, it's Canada btw) to let everything behind her and ghosting our mom and can start to live a normal life.

But what do i do? Breaking contact with our mom too just to be completely alone? No dad no mom no sister no family no friends.

But what I wonder the most is why our mom hates us SO MUCH. What did we ever do to her and why isn't she loving us ?????

Ich kann nicht mehr. Ich vergesse glaub zu viele dinge und mich belastet das extrem.

Fast jeden tag vergess ich mindestens 1 kleinigkeit.

Ich hab mir schon checklisten geschrieben aber in der realität arbeitet man halt einfach und kuckt dann nicht mehr auf solche listen vorallem wenn man zeitdruck hat.

Ich bin so sauer auf mich selber deswegen. Ich will aufgeben und Ausbildung abbrechen und dann wie ein loser zuhause heulen.

Warum ist mein scheis gedächnis so scheise?

Edit: ich meinte mit "kleinigkeiten vergessen" Aufgaben die ich im alltag auf der arbeit jeden Tag machen muss.

/ or what to add to it ... I've already tried so many things... Pesto, tomato sauce, other kinds of sauces, melted butter with salt (the best one so far)

Help

Edit: yall are genuinely geniuses. Thanks alot that's more options that I could possibly have thought of

(The flair doesnt fully match bruh sry)

He played the demo and it was really good and funny so I'm wondering if he played the full game already BUT I CANT FIND IT because i can't remember the name of the game.

There was a random half naked dude in boxers and I remember the control were kinda hard so he had struggle with letting this dude walk. I also remember the dude had a wiggling ass LMAOO and he was outside in some nature area. Thats it, that's all I can remember.

Please help me find it

Today my dog had to threw up rlly often but then stopped. Now he threw up again but this time blood. It's also weird slimish bl\*\*d ???? Idk.

But it's rlly late evening and our mom isn't home and she doesn't pick up the phone. My sister and I dont have drivers license so we can't drive to the vet.

What should we do ??? What does this mean???