u/Delicious-Search2519

I want to tell something somebody im not in contact with in a dream. Is it possible?

Cila kompani ka ofertat me t mira dhe cila eshte me e mire ne përgjithësi?

Ever since I was little, my dream was to leave my small hometown for the big city the second I turned 18. Growing up here feels genuinely suffocating and isolated, and I've always counted down the days to my escape.

​But that dream crashed down this summer. When reality set in, I realized I don't have the full funds to make a big-city move right now, and my academic footing isn't where it needs to be yet. My backup plan is to stay local to complete my degree, build my foundation, and then move abroad later on.

​The hardest part isn't just the delay it's the outside noise. Extended family members keep telling me that if I don't leave right now, I'll never leave, and that staying here makes me "lame" or means I'm making a massive mistake.

​Hearing that from people has really gotten inside my head. It’s making me super emotional and anxious. Am I actually trapping myself forever? Is my plan dead just because it didn't start at 18 the way I scripted it?

​Has anyone else stayed behind for university and still managed to break out later, or is it really true that once you stay, you're stuck forever? Any advice would be helpful

For the past few days, out of nowhere and at random times of the day, I keep having thoughts about my ex. I don't like him in fact, I despise the guy. Whenever he pops into my head, I just picture his face and instantly remember all the crap he put me through, and it makes me angry all over again.

​We broke up three or four months ago, and I hadn't thought about him at all until now. Suddenly, it's happening constantly at the most random times, and I don't get it. I literally have zero feelings left for him. Is he somehow thinking about me and manifesting this, or am I just losing my mind?

My friendgroup has 4 people and one of them reposted a video that had a caption " the best trio" and the video is about my other friends and she also had send that video to one of the friends and said " this is us three" so exulding me. Now what makes me mad is the fact that she has made it so public for me and its just full disrespect.

So should i call her out on it or just leave it be??

I've been thinking about this for a long time, prom night is the last place where I will se him and maybe ever have the chance to speak to him. I've loved this guy for about 5 years now, we used to talk romanticly sometimes but it never lead to anything from his side and all these years we've been close friends/"lovers" to almost strangers now. I don't expect anything to happen or for him to start liking me now, I have zero expectations im making that clear but I just want to get it off my chest and for him to know how much he truly ment to me and means. I don't only love him romanticly but I fell i love with our friendship ,his quirks and I just want to express my respect for him and how successful I see him becoming ,i truly belive in him and I just want him to know that.

The only thing holding me back is that as I said we're almost strangers now and he's gotten into some kind of a bad crowd so I don't truly know if he's still the same guy who can understand what I will say to him.

So what should I do? Is it better to speak or to die?