u/Desperadoscress

I put in every filter to say I want an entry level job in my town

I only get stupid shit like scam work from home offers

Or jobs in other country that offer relocations, most likely scams too

But no actual offer

In the title, do you have to wary of that when you are quick adding people?

I saw an argument on TikTok about that because a CC asked the same question and people were acting shocked he even ask this, and now I’m even more confused

I always assumed people crying in front of a movie was purely performative and crocodile tears, that it just showed you liked the movie (or any type of media in general)?

Same for people crying in front of books I saw a video of a girl crying in the train because of a BOOK

All of this made me assume it’s purely performative

Do people genuinely feel sadness or happyness watching media as if it really happened

I want to start wearing my Apple Watch more often but it’s really comfortable when it comes to just playing video game at my desk

Im not sure how tight it should be, should it be locked in place or have room to wiggle / move up and down?

Traveling is just a luxury rich people can afford, it doas not make you a good person or more cultured in anyway if you do it

The guy learning about the countries history in his room as done way more of a job at connection with the culture than the guy who just googled “best historical spot to visit” and learnt about why they are significant on site

Most of the time people who travel don’t even learn about the culture because they stay in small urban bubles or even worse only ever interact with people payed to be there

It’s in no way a need and I’m tired of people normalizing to the point your see as some kind of psycho if you don’t want to spend a significant amount of your income on it, for 99.9% of history most people didn’t even care to think about doing it and only people who did care came forward and did it, much better system if you ask me

I just got back into r6 and a lot of ranked game is end up being defenders winning only, like whoever gets defender win and whoever get lucky with the last round wins

If yes why is that not an issue people talk about much?

I have had this discussion a few time and the majority of people I have talked too ended up saying “oh that’s evil” or at the minimum “i understand but personaly for me it wouldn’t matter”

And i think it’s insane

The love for children is based around the fact you got to be part of something so grand that you created a being with a soul

You remove that your just the guy that raised them and payed for their food

I dont think saying “i would leave them if discovered X” mean you didn’t sincerely love the person to begin with

Like what if you learnt your partner cheated? Would you leaving them mean you never loved them? Obviously not

I keep seeing this weird debate about how some women don’t want to date a bi guy and they just refuse to admit it’s homophobic

Like it’s 100% homophobic, you can just admit your a homophobe we arent gonna force you to date a bi guy

Like for context I am a bi guy and I will say any idea you have about how bi men are different is rooted in homophobia and is wrong

The only difference is that we are attracted to other men, if that alone is a reason to cut out someone has a possible partner and treat them differently, it’s homophobic

Like you guys sound exactly like my parrent that say “I’m not homophobic just not my son other people can like men just not my son”

Doas it mean you HAVE to date a bi guy? No obviously not your consent is more important than political correctness

I personally have gone through a lot of trauma and has had my life affected very negatively by living through a socialist, culturally liberal country

And when i talk about the way leftist policies or culture aspect affected me their is never any accountability

Im not saying right wing policies have never hurted me but they have the decency to explain or give a reason and not just say I deserved it or that I just don’t matter

By example :

Trauma out of being born out of wedlock just for welfare, I only existed so that my mom could get some welfare money

Response I get from leftist : insults, threats, telling me I should have been aborted, never anything related to what I said

But if I do complain to something to a right winger their is at least enough EXPLENATION an aknoledgment, even if their explenation is shit and can be debated against

Leftist will ruin your life in everyday that matter and then hate you for not magically turning out okay after living through the shit time they created

I could give dozen of more example of how my life was affected by leftist policy and never even got an aknoledgment for it

I’ve always been told that bar soap is better but using it feels disgusting and a sensory hell, anyone knows what I may be doing wrong? I just rub the soap on the part I want to clean

I mean this has people overall, I find it very hard to still have empathy for other people when you associate other humans with negative emotion, how do you fix that I’m tired of having very limited empathy

Something I hate is the standard humans have to always value social behavior and demonize behavior that’s not social

Notice how I couldent use the word anti-social, because it means something else entirely and is the perfect example of what I’m talking about

By example bullying is social behavior, people will socially reward you for doing it on top of it being inherently social

While their is no commonly term for behavior that’s against society and social norms but is neutral or good

By example if you stand up to something you beleive is wrong when everyone is against you, that is deeply anti-social behavior yet you’d be using the term wrong acording to most definition

TL:DR Anti-social should be a neutral term instaid of it being negative one

For me horse meat, has a kid I always believed horse meat was very commun in Italy because it was a delicacy in my family.. and every single horse butcher in town were held by an Italian guy

I only learnt later that it was only slightly a thing in some part of south Italy, and most northerner either didnt knew about it or found it repulsive.. (sorry for bad English)

I find prank videos to be really fully but like I’m an adult now I shouldent he laughing my ass of at some random low quality most likely fake bullshit right?

I am struggling with a very specific and personal issue is that I just cannot tolerate being alone with my taught

It has been very torturous and I would like to seek guidance on that, it has made doing anything that doasent fully captivate my attention really painful and anoying

I can’t watch movies or read books because I hate being alone with my tought

Almost everything I do on a daily basis is about distracting myself has efficiently has possible

Anyone got some advise on this or has good through similar problems?

People love to complain about how élitiste people who are into literature are and how they will judge you for not reading, and while it is true for a lot of them, movies (or more so general Netflix type media) watchers are a 100 time worse

Like personally I don’t watch stuff like this because I don’t enjoy non-interactive media and acting makes me really uncomfortable among other issues, but when I say this too people they take it like a genuine personal insult

And I’m not talking about cinephiles specifically some people who only watch stuff like the billionth season of the walking dead and the last marvel movie act like you are mentally ill for not liking movies

Everytime I ask the answer I get are loaded with supposition, like « get a hobby » yes I did try that
« spend time with people who want to spend with you » I tried doing that
When I say I have trouble with relationships people assume it’s me that is not capable to fake being social but I am
I have this issue where relationship don’t form, I talk to people but no bound form they just feel like a stranger to me even if they start treating me like a friend

How do I fix this because it make my whole life feel very superficial

Asking people about how to get friends or just form a connection with things like family just showed me their is no hope if you are not born with it

Peoples answer are always contradictory showing the unlearnable aspect of socializing

I will be stuck only being able to be socially successful at a material benefit at most, never actually make friends