u/Early_Gift515

My ex and I had sex literally two days ago and then last night he’s sexting some other guy? We were together for four years and he waited a day after we broke up to get on Grindr after telling me he loves me and going on a date with me that very same day. I’m over the thought of getting back together but I just don’t see how he doesn’t think that that’s gonna hurt / annoy me?? At least wait till you move out to start doing that.

Would you block this guy and go no contact? For back up, I posted the other saying my bf and I were going to try staying together but living apart. We got back together 3 days ago after breaking up for 3 days and in that time he and I treated each other just like we use to, and then yesterday we got back from a date night and I brought up how it would work when we move out and he hit me with, I don’t know what I want. To which I responded you slept with me 2 times in the last 3 days and initiated both, texted me all day, called me babe, and said you loved me??? I’m confused??

I got kinda annoyed for feeling really stupid and used, like he was just trying to get one last hit of the relationship before just saying yeah never mind. I’m debating just unfollowing him and setting up roommate dynamics till he moves out in July. Before I was in agreement maybe we needed to work on things and agreed we should break up amicably but now I kinda wanna block the dude.

Sorry for the word vomit. Appreciate yall hearing me out.

Also we’ve been together for four years. No cheating no abuse, nothing. Just lack of effort recently and daily life arguments

My boyfriend and i (23/m 28/m) have been living together for about 2 years together for 4 years. It was amazing at first but there's been instances where we argue and have gotten a little down on living together. we both really love each other tho and have considered, instead of breaking up, just moving to our own apartments. We have never cheated, never abused, never anything like that. just every day arguments, and he has never lived alone and wants to experience that, I also only really lived alone for about a year before he moved in. Do you guys have any advice when it comes to this? I'm feeling a little anxious about the move and will honestly miss him but am very excited for him to experience that.

tl;dr living apart together tips?

My boyfriend and i (23m 28m) have been living together for about 2 years. It was amazing at first but there's been instances where we argue and have gotten a little down on living together. we both really love each other tho and have considered, instead of breaking up, just moving to our own apartments. We have never cheated, never abused, never anything like that. just every day arguments, and he has never lived alone and wants to experience that, I also only really lived alone for about a year before he moved in. Do you guys have any advice when it comes to this? I'm feeling a little anxious about the move and will honestly miss him but am very excited for him to experience that.

tl;dr living apart together tips?

I want to restart my leggy monstera (that has spider mites and i cant deal with hauling it into the shower with such a big pot.) and i wanna keep a two leaf cutting, that node has an aerial root that grew above it that has recently reached the soil. should i cut it at the soil line, ill try and see if i can scoop it out but im tryin gto move that pot around as little as possible. Will it grow a new growth tip when i place it in water or is it going to be stunted?

I’m dealing with a small spider mite infestation (my boyfriend brought in a creeping Jenny from Home Depot and he didn’t check it…. We forgive cause at least he was excited about plants 🥹😅) I’ve found them on a handful of plants now and at this point I kind of want to treat my whole collection, I only have 40 atm, and most are small ones. I’m worried that the treatment (showering them and spraying them down with insecticidal soap for a couple weeks) will harm my poinsettia, my maranta and my small avocado plant, since they seem to have the most delicate leaves. Have any of you had any instances of damages to them like this?? I haven’t seen any mites on those three but I’m paranoid at this point and honestly might have seen a thrip or maybe it was dirt but yeah anxiety is high 😅😅 thanks guys!