couples who run hot and cold, do you share one comforter or split the layers?
My partner and I are not on the same planet when it comes to bedding temperature.
I want something lighter most of the night, and he wants an extra layer by morning. One heavy comforter turns into a fight. Separate blankets work better, but then the bed always looks messy and kind of disconnected. I am wondering if the answer is just a lighter comforter with an extra blanket that can be pulled up or folded down depending on the night. That sounds less dramatic than buying a whole new seasonal setup, but I do not know if it actually works in real life.
For couples with different sleep temperatures, do you share one comforter, use separate blankets, or layer things so each person can adjust?