u/Good-Rest-7538

Divorced dad w S12. House has been a mess and told him last night, when you get up pick up this stuff - all his. Not done when I get up after him. Tell him in the morning we're doing xyz today and you're doing this and packing for your trip with your mom, say it again a couple more times throughout the day of him just watching TV. Then go to Costco, he doesn't want to go so I say then you're cleaning this up while I'm gone. Come home to literally one item put way and lose my shit on him. He stands to attention and proceeds to take the literal five minutes to do all of it. Afterwards I say was it worth it? He admits he didn't want to do it and I remind him that everyone (me and him) contributing and that I dont want to make dinner should I just say fuck it and make your own dinner? I ask what would be easier, doing five minutes worth of work or me losing my shit on him and then doing five minutes worth of work. Problem is that we've been over this and I know it's going to happen again. I don't think he has any respect for me. I don't feel like I deserve it. I'm not a drunk or a fuck up. I want to blame his mom because she didn't respect me and she admittedly will do the least amount of work to get something done, but I know that's basically playing the victim. I just want him to do very reasonable chore requests like this without having to scream at him.

I haven't trued it myself, but curious if it would work. Kills weeds in 24 hrs. I'm thinking about this a couple ways.

1. Spraying shoots that pop up - equivalent to killing weeds but I imagine it would take several rounds to fully kill a shoot.
2. Some sort of tapping into a full tree and pouring it in; like drill into a tree at a 45 degree angle down towards the ground then feed the 30% into it with some sort of contraption like those bulbs you fill with water then out upside into potted plants.

That happened to me. Wife said she was leaving me. I convinced her to go to therapy though she basically said she didn’t want to fix things. We had both written intros to her prior, and had each given our story for the first 30 minutes then she turned to me and said that and that I need to move on. No abuse in relationship, though one could argue I'd been treated like shit. Wife was leaving me for someone else.

I was trying to message a sub's mods and I get a you can message that user error. I tried messaging this sub's mods too and get the same response. I use it on the web. Tried my phone's browser and Edge on computer.

Why are my kid's teeth cleanings (of all adult teeth) like a drive by cleaning that takes 5 minutes while mine are a normal teeth cleaning that take 15 minutes or however long it does that's more than the kid's?

Also, when should a kid start seeing a non pediatric dentist?