I was asked to leave a ride for the first time because I didn’t fit.

I was with my niece, nephew and my uncle. The ride was quite high up but wasn’t a full on ride, instead it was slow just going around a bit of the park.

The bar didn’t go down so I was asked to leave, the guy was very apologetic which I don’t know if it made it better or worse.

I just don’t know how to feel now as this has never happened before.

How do you guys deal with this stuff?

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u/Jibby_37 — 18 hours ago

How do I deal with becoming dairy intolerant?

As someone who loves dairy in all its forms, and who is someone who believes that they are becoming dairy intolerant (will be organising a GP appointment in due course), how do I cope with the lifestyle change?

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u/Jibby_37 — 15 days ago

I’m crocheting ribbing onto a cardigan, but the ribbing won’t turn around the corner, it just keeps going straight,

I have done a starting round of single crochet with 1 sc, ch 1, 1 sc in the corners but it’s still not working.

Any tips?

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u/Jibby_37 — 17 days ago

Any suggestions for nice places to go eat lunch at for a date?

Key points:
-The date is set for midweek lunch time.
-This is a first date, and my date is vegetarian.
-Mainly looking for place with good vegetarian and non vegetarian options.

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u/Jibby_37 — 20 days ago
▲ 2 r/crochetpatterns+1 crossposts

Got these scrap yarns from someone in a craft group I go to, but what do I make with these?

u/Jibby_37 — 30 days ago
▲ 1 r/Discussion+1 crossposts

Why does no one want to put effort into dating?

Like most people I’ve spoken to can’t even have a conversation with me. I’m always the one to carry it and for once I just want someone to take the reins.

For example m, I really like this guy I’m talking to but I’m always the one to start the convo. We text on instagram and I’m waiting for a reply from him. I sent the text an hour ago and he was last in instagram 8 minutes ago…. IM SO DONE!!!

I’ve already asked him on a date which he said he’d loved to but he doesn’t want to yet as he has really bad anxiety and wants to get to know me more first. He is also trans and very dysphoric. I want to tell him that if he wants to get to know me and go one a date with me, then he needs to put the effort in. But am I just overthinking it?

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u/Jibby_37 — 1 month ago

I think Taylor Swift and her music is overhyped.

Now, I like her old stuff but anything other than that is just way too hyped up. I mean her songs are practically the same but they’ve been recycled 5 times and just articulated differently.

And while we’re at it, for some reason I just don’t like her as a person. It’s just the vibe she gives off. I don’t hate her because I’m sure she’s great and obviously lots of people love her. But to me there’s just something about her that I can’t gel with.

EDIT: This is a hot take for me and what I’ve been seeing.

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u/Jibby_37 — 1 month ago
▲ 524 r/knitting

My knitting progress after one day of seriously learning to knit!

u/Jibby_37 — 2 months ago

How to make a movie on someone I met at a queer party?

I have there Instagram to help things. But I just found myself gravitating towards this person the entire night. We have some common hobbies but I really want to get to know them more.

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u/Jibby_37 — 2 months ago

How to make a move on a gay girl I met at a queer party?

I managed to get her Instagram if that helps but I’ve never made a proper move on a girl before that I have only met once.

I don’t know what it is about her, I just gravitated towards her the entire night. We share some of the same hobbies and I just want to learn more about her.

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u/Jibby_37 — 2 months ago

What does one wear to a sapphic party for pride month?

For context I’m 22f and pansexual, and have pretty much no queer friends. On top of this, I have never once been to pride. But I wanna be dressed up but idk what to wear!

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u/Jibby_37 — 3 months ago

New canon experience unlocked: matching with a girl on a dating app and later on finding out she’s straight and is only looking for friends HOURS before pride month 😔

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u/Jibby_37 — 3 months ago

I just got tickets to see Rent and I couldn’t be more excited!!

So Rent is in my top 3 favourite musicals of all time, and I was lucky enough to get a presale link. But when I heard Gaten Matarazzo was in it, it was pretty much a done deal.

Although the ticket cost me money I absolutely couldn’t afford to use I still brought it anyway as it would be somewhat near my birthday!

AHHHH I’m just so excited to see it!!!

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u/Jibby_37 — 3 months ago

Ended things with a guy I rematched with, now I’m unsure if it was the right thing to do

Last summer/autumn I matched with this guy and from what I remember things had gone really well. We talked for a while and then planned a date, when out of the blue he blocked me.

5 days ago, I get liked by the same guy. So I message him with something along the lines of “Ah hey M, it’s nice to hear from you again” as I assume he’s completely forgotten about me and didn’t realise what he had done. Turns out he did and apologised for what happened as apparently his mental health was really bad at the time but he said he really liked me. So I accept the apology but said that I was hurt and upset by it but I understood.

We then continue talking for a day, he says that he’s missed me and that he likes me and we arrange to meet up. However, I just wasn’t feeling anything, like I remained indifferent in my feelings towards him. I end up telling him this and I let things die down. 2 days ago he messaged me saying that he really likes me, I never replied but I feel bad as I think I let my feelings from what he did cloud the possibility of me liking him.

Do I leave it? Or do I text him back and see if I actually like him?

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u/Jibby_37 — 3 months ago

Why is it so hard for shoe shops and companies to accommodate people with bigger feet?!

I’m a woman and a size 8 foot, not only that I have wide feet and the shoes I need to wear have to have a bigger heel and sides to support my feet and to accommodate my insoles.

Why is it so hard for these shoe companies and shops to either not supply bigger shoes or to have them online only, like no I don’t want to buy the shoes so that I probably have to go through the hassle of having a refund.

Plus I swear there’s a big market for women with bigger feet! I’m honestly so sick and tired of not being able to just go into a shop and buy shoes then and there.

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u/Jibby_37 — 3 months ago

Why is it so hard for shoe shops and companies to accommodate people with bigger feet!

I’m a woman and a size 8 foot, not only that I have wide feet and the shoes I need to wear have to have a bigger heel and sides to support my feet and to accommodate my insoles.

Why is it so hard for these shoe companies and shops to either not supply bigger shoes or to have them online only, like no I don’t want to buy the shoes so that I probably have to go through the hassle of having a refund.

Plus I swear there’s a big market for women with bigger feet! I’m honestly so sick and tired of not being able to just go into a shop and buy shoes then and there.

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u/Jibby_37 — 3 months ago