I can’t get aroused because nothing sexual attracts me. I understand how men can have orgasms... but with women it is more psychological. I can’t understand how women can turn themselves on, it is like tickling myself, I can't xd
I'm surprised that the relics were preserved even during the wars with Serbia.
ps: This is not rage bait, just a serious question, why you get triggered immediately
Hi, I have a phobia of sexuality, maybe be funny to you, but its due to sexual trauma, and I don’t know what to do anymore. I have panic attacks over every small thing related to sexuality. I assume you don’t have this, but maybe you have panic attacks about other things, so you can kind of understand how I feel. I went to therapy, but it didn’t help me, so I feel really helpless :(
Is there anyone from Europe here? :)
When an insecure woman wakes up from a nasty fall, she starts believing that she is a beautiful woman and gains the confidence to do things she was previously shying away from 😂
Sometimes I feel like the world was made for people who know how to fit into the “normal.”
Too much sexuallity, too many shallow connections, too many expectations about what love is supposed to be. And all I really want is something quiet. Gentle. Real.
I’m a girl who doesn’t measure love through sexuallity, but through presence, messages that arrive on difficult days, through silence that doesn’t feel awkward, through stargazing together, and feeling like, for once, you don’t have to pretend to be anything around someone, like
I’m asexual (sex-repulsed)! I want love when two people choose each other every day, not because they have to, but because they feel peaceful beside one another. I like to Cuddle!
I want someone who also feels a little lost in this world. Someone tired of superficiality.
I’m not looking for perfection.
At first, I’m looking for an online relationship or a platonic kind of love that could slowly grow into a real relationship over time.
I’d love for us to text, get to know each other, talk about life, and maybe have video calls sometimes ( I oike to use WhatsApp).
I’m a very emotional, empathetic, kind, and friendly person. I have my own little hobbies, I adore clouds, astronomy, and plants, hiking. I’m asexual, but I still like looking attractive and taking care of my appearance.
🍀 A few things that are must have to me:
- You are European from Europe
- You have a casual/ordinary style (I’m not really into gothic/metal styles, too many tattoos or piercings, earrings, etc.)
- You are between 26 - 33 yo (not super strict)
- You are emotionally stable guy and know how to carry a conversation
- You care about your appearance, and you would describe yourself as moderately attractive (although I am asexual, my appearance is still important to me when it comes to falling in love). - You care about your appearance, and you would describe yourself as moderately attractive (although I am asexual, appearance is still important to me when it comes to falling in love)
- Speaking English B1+
Even if we don’t end up being compatible, we can still stay friends, I don’t really have any asexual friends anyway ✌🏼
have my first therapy session tomorrow, and I have a block/freeze when it comes to opening up. I paid a lot for 45 minutes!! and I really want to make the most of it, but I’m afraid I won’t be able to. Do you have any advice?
In short: my main issue is childhood abuse from pedophil... panic attacks, depression, and I’m not functional (I can’t go to work, I don’t feel like living), (26F) What should I say to the therapist?
(26F), I was abused in childhood, sexually abused, and my perception is so distorted. I am scared of this world, scared of sexuality, seeing it as something primitive and degrading. I can’t stand that people see it as something beautiful. I am having a panic attacks. I can’t tell anyone, no one will understand in this sexualized world..