u/Kalka4

Name the best movie from your country, I want to watch other Balkan movies

I'm tired of pretending to be okay my whole life.

I'm a 27F from Europe, dealing with functional depression and CPTSD caused by childhood sexual abuse and more. I grew up in a toxic and cold family, and although I have wonderful friends now, I've never told anyone what I've been through. I've spent years keeping everything to myself, and I'd really like to find someone who understands what it's like to live with mental health struggles 🤕

I've never been in a relationship, and I don't want one. Everything I've been through has left its mark on me. I struggle with body dysmorphia, I'm asexual, and sexual topics trigger panic attacks. I often feel lost in such a sexualized world, and I find it difficult to accept the role of women, and to me, sex feels primitive and humiliating 😳

I'm not looking for help, just genuine friendship with someone who can understand. I'd love to have at least one online friend I can be completely myself with, without pretending to be someone I'm not. I'm not looking for someone to only talk about depression etc.. I'd also love to share everyday life, funny moments, interests, and positive things. The idea that someone could know all of this about me and still accept me as a normal friend would mean a lot ❤️

I'm mentally stable thanks to medication, and I'm not suicidal. I can be positive, funny, and easy to talk to.

I prefer talking to women because it feels safer for me. I'm also not looking to chat with someone who is currently suicidal or in a severe untreated mental health crisis, because I don't think I'm emotionally able to handle that. And I'm not looking for someone whose views on sexuality are completely opposite to mine, (for example, someone with a porn addiction, someone who places a strong emphasis on sex, or someone who tends to view people and relationships primarily through a sexual lens.) as that is triggering for me.

Despite everything, I still love the little things in life - summer evenings, stargazing, plants, pets, astronomy... I'm just hoping to meet someone who understands what it's like to carry invisible wounds and still keep going.

Hiii! If you want to message me, please read my post first!!

I'm looking to meet people from Europe/European since I live here too, (timezone matters). I've been active on Reddit, but I still haven't found the kind of connection I'm looking for.

I've talked to people on Reddit many times before, but it always ends up being too boring and repetitive: what are your hobbies, what do you do for work, what's up... I would love it if conversations were a bit more meaningful from the beginning. Things like hobbies or what music someone listens to don't mean that much to me

For me, one of the main reasons I don't feel a connection is that I HATE chatting on Reddit. (I don't want to seem like a fraud, but many people want to keep chatting on Reddit, and I simply can't do that, it's too boring). No notifications and I prefer voice messages, maybe even voice calls, and if we're both women, maybe even video calls. I also like sharing pictures of pets and little things from everyday life.. 🌸 that's why I prefer friendships with womens.

At the same time, I don't like moving to other platforms too quickly (I like to use Telegram since it's are safer and verry nice).

My life is quite monotonous now, and I'm someone who has had a difficult life, who struggles with depression, and someone who has become used to hiding pain, I don't judge, and I'm happy if I can help and listen to someone's fears and problems, as well as share my own. Despite that, if you heard or saw me, you would find me very cheerful and positive and I'm a very empathetic person and I like to talk to people who love to use emojis 🤭

I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me (range 26-33 is okey) or NSFW accounts. I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested in.

If you message me: please introduce yourself by telling me your age, gender, and country (so I can have an idea with who I'm talking to). Message me not because I seem like a good person to you, but because you feel that you are very similar to me!

Anyway, I don't want to make this too long. Message me if you're interested, and we'll see where it goes from there 🍀🌌

Nobody seems to like Reddit chat, it's really inconvenient, me too.

Where is the best place to continue a conversation without sharing too much personal information?

Personally, I don't have Instagram (I don't like social media)

Discord is good for anonymity, but I don't like Discord chat as much as Reddit chat.

WhatsApp means giving away your phone number... What is best?

Looking for a connection with someone who is also asexual, to feel a little less different in this highly sexualized world. No pressure, just exploring.

I enjoy talking about everything. My life has been messy, so I can sometimes be a little bit depressed and lonely. I've never had a partner because of my asexuality and I've never really known anyone like me.

I'd like us to share both our happy and sad moments and not pretend to be perfect just to find someone. If you're interested, and talkative person, feel free to DM me ✌🏼

I have pets, so you can also tell me if you have any pets 🍀

Bih i askbosnia sub mi uklanjaju post bez razloga.

A mene stvarno zanima to, znajuci u kakvom vremenu zivimo i da su posebno mladi momci povrsni, nezreli i ne zele se zrtvovati do braka, kakva je onda situacija devojaka koje nose hijab, zna li bar ovde neko da mi objasni, nisam te vere pa nisam upucena. Poz

Gde biste prvo ulozili? Ulaganja u smislu poslovnih prilika, aktivnosti za mlade, turizam itd..

Sto bi nateralo mlade ljude da ostaju u manjim mestima i ne sele se za Beograd, Novi Sad itd..

I can’t get aroused because nothing sexual attracts me. I understand how men can have orgasms... but with women it is more psychological. I can’t understand how women can turn themselves on, it is like tickling myself, I can't xd

I'm surprised that the relics were preserved even during the wars with Serbia.

ps: This is not rage bait, just a serious question, why you get triggered immediately

Hi, I have a phobia of sexuality, maybe be funny to you, but its due to sexual trauma, and I don’t know what to do anymore. I have panic attacks over every small thing related to sexuality. I assume you don’t have this, but maybe you have panic attacks about other things, so you can kind of understand how I feel. I went to therapy, but it didn’t help me, so I feel really helpless :(

Is there anyone from Europe here? :)

When an insecure woman wakes up from a nasty fall, she starts believing that she is a beautiful woman and gains the confidence to do things she was previously shying away from 😂

Sometimes I feel like the world was made for people who know how to fit into the “normal.”
Too much sexuallity, too many shallow connections, too many expectations about what love is supposed to be. And all I really want is something quiet. Gentle. Real.

I’m a girl who doesn’t measure love through sexuallity, but through presence, messages that arrive on difficult days, through silence that doesn’t feel awkward, through stargazing together, and feeling like, for once, you don’t have to pretend to be anything around someone, like

I’m asexual (sex-repulsed)! I want love when two people choose each other every day, not because they have to, but because they feel peaceful beside one another. I like to Cuddle!

I want someone who also feels a little lost in this world.  Someone tired of superficiality.

I’m not looking for perfection.
At first, I’m looking for an online relationship or a platonic kind of love that could slowly grow into a real relationship over time.

I’d love for us to text, get to know each other, talk about life, and maybe have video calls sometimes ( I oike to use WhatsApp).

I’m a very emotional, empathetic, kind, and friendly person. I have my own little hobbies, I adore clouds, astronomy, and plants, hiking. I’m asexual, but I still like looking attractive and taking care of my appearance.

🍀 A few things that are must have to me:
- You are European from Europe
- You have a casual/ordinary style (I’m not really into gothic/metal styles, too many tattoos or piercings, earrings, etc.)
- You are between 26 - 33 yo (not super strict)
-  You are emotionally stable guy and know how to carry a conversation

- You care about your appearance, and you would describe yourself as moderately attractive (although I am asexual, my appearance is still important to me when it comes to falling in love). - You care about your appearance, and you would describe yourself as moderately attractive (although I am asexual, appearance is still important to me when it comes to falling in love)
- Speaking English B1+

Even if we don’t end up being compatible, we can still stay friends,  I don’t really have any asexual friends anyway ✌🏼

have my first therapy session tomorrow, and I have a block/freeze when it comes to opening up. I paid a lot for 45 minutes!! and I really want to make the most of it, but I’m afraid I won’t be able to. Do you have any advice?

In short: my main issue is childhood abuse from pedophil... panic attacks, depression, and I’m not functional (I can’t go to work, I don’t feel like living), (26F) What should I say to the therapist?

(26F), I was abused in childhood, sexually abused, and my perception is so distorted. I am scared of this world, scared of sexuality, seeing it as something primitive and degrading. I can’t stand that people see it as something beautiful. I am having a panic attacks. I can’t tell anyone, no one will understand in this sexualized world..