Recommendations for a bra similar to the Marie Jo Tom Heart bra, but in a plain nude color?

I’m looking for recommendations for bras similar to the Marie Jo Tom Heart bra. I wear a 34C and absolutely love the shape and fit of this bra, especially how it gives my chest a nice, centered shape without making it look wide. A lot of bras I’ve tried tend to make my chest look broader than I’d like, but this one gives me the exact shape I’m looking for!

The only thing is that I’d love to find something similar in a simple nude color without any lace, appliqués, or decorative details on the straps. Ideally, I’m looking for a smooth, everyday bra that disappears under clothes but still gives me that same shape and spacing as the Marie Jo Tom Heart.

Does anyone have recommendations for bras that give a similar shape and fit, but with a more minimal, seamless look? I’d really appreciate any suggestions.

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 days ago
▲ 10 r/Fude

Best blush brush

Looking to purchase a brush for a small face for powder blush and having trouble deciding. Does anyone have a blush brush (preferably squirrel) that they love and would recommend?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 12 days ago

First red light mask purchase- Current Body Series 3?

Looking to purchase my first face mask and trying to decide between the Series 2 vs. 3. I would use the additional benefits the Series 3 provides and don't mind the extra cost however, I'm wondering if there is something I'm not considering for choosing one over the other.

For those who have use a face mask, do you have any thoughts on which one I should purchase?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 24 days ago

Very dark natural hair 15% gray how would you subtly lighten it without losing dimension?

Hi! I’d really appreciate some advice from the professional stylists here.

My natural hair is very dark brown dark enough that people often think it’s black, although I believe it’s probably a level or so lighter than true black. I have around 15% gray, mostly throughout my hair, and I’ve been using demi-permanent color to blend the gray.

The problem is that my colorist has been using a shade that seems a little too dark for me. Over time, I feel like it has taken away some of the natural variation in my hair and made the overall color look almost solid black. What I really want is the opposite: a very natural, blended look that still looks like my own hair, just slightly softer and lighter.

I’m not looking for balayage, obvious highlights, or stripes. I’d ideally like to lighten the overall appearance by maybe 2 levels/shades, while keeping enough variation that it doesn't look like one flat color. I also want to minimize damage as much as realistically possible.

I've been doing some research and came across the idea that, when lightener is necessary, a lower-volume developer such as 20 vol can be preferable to 30 or 40 vol because the process is slower and potentially easier to control. But I don't want to assume what I read online is correct, especially with previously color-treated hair.

If you were working with hair like mine, what approach would you consider?

Would you be thinking about:

  • selectively lightening some of the existing color rather than doing traditional highlights?
  • a very fine, subtle technique to restore some natural variation?
  • removing/reducing the accumulated dark demi color first?
  • another approach that I'm not considering?

I'm also curious whether the specific lightener/toner matters much for this kind of subtle result. I've seen professionals mention products from brands like Wella and Redken, but I'm much more interested in what type of product/process you'd choose than trying to buy something myself.

My main priorities are keeping the hair healthy, avoiding an obvious highlighted look, and getting back some of the natural dimension while only going slightly lighter overall.

II'd love to hear how you'd approach this and what you would discuss with the client before starting.

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 1 month ago

Which algorithm has everyone found to be the most accurate V1, V2, or V3?

For those who have tried different MacroFactor algorithms, which one have you found gives you the best/most accurate expenditure and trend estimates?

I’m curious if you generally prefer V1, V2, or V3 based on your own experience, especially over longer periods of consistent tracking.

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 1 month ago
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Looking for flattering jeans with good pocket placement

I'm looking for recommendations from denim lovers. I'm trying to find a pair of jeans that are flattering through the seat and hips while still having a classic denim look.

My preferred styles:

  • Straight leg
  • Bootcut
  • Cropped length (around a 27-inch inseam if possible)

I don't like:

  • Baggy or wide-leg fits
  • Distressing, rips, or overly worn washes

Things I care about:

  • Good back pocket placement
  • A flattering shape from the back
  • Denim that holds its shape
  • A clean, timeless wash

I'm less interested in trendy styles and more interested in finding a really great pair of jeans that fit well and look good.

What brands or specific models should I check out?

Edited to add: looking for women's jeans

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 3 months ago
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Best jeans for a flattering butt fit?

I'm looking for jeans recommendations and would love input from people who have found styles with a really flattering fit.

I prefer:

  • Straight leg jeans
  • Bootcut jeans
  • Cropped lengths (ideally around a 27-inch inseam)

I'm not a fan of:

  • Baggy/wide-leg styles
  • Distressed denim, rips, or very casual finishes

I'm hoping to find jeans that flatter the shape of the hips and butt without looking overly "push-up" or gimmicky. I like a clean, classic denim look.

What brands or styles have worked well for you?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 3 months ago

Recommendations- looking for bras similar to the Marie Jo Tom Heart Shape

I've been wearing the Marie Jo Tom Heart Shape bra in a 34C for a while, and it's probably been my favorite bra I've owned. I have lost about 10 pounds recently, though, so I'm thinking I may actually need a smaller size now.

What I really like about the Tom is the shape it gives me. I prefer a more rounded, natural look, and I'm always hesitant to try new bras because I don't like styles that make my chest project out more they tend to make me feel like I look wider from the side.

Another thing that's important to me is smooth cups. I've had molded bras where the cup edges or molded part end up puckering or developing little dents over time, and then you can see them through T-shirts, which drives me crazy.

Does anyone have recommendations for bras with a similar fit and shape to the Marie Jo Tom Heart Shape? I'm open to any brands or styles that give a similar silhouette.

Also, if you've worn the Tom before and found something you liked even better, I'd love to hear about it!

(And yes, I know I should probably remeasure before buying anything—I mainly wanted recommendations for styles to check out once I know my current size.)

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 3 months ago

Anyone have Opalescence in-office whitening recently? Worth it?

I had Opalescence in-office whitening done years ago, and from what I remember I was really happy with the results.

Fast forward a few years...I've become a pretty heavy coffee drinker, so my teeth definitely aren't as white as they used to be. I've been using Crest Whitestrips, but honestly I'm just not seeing the results I was hoping for.

For anyone who's had Opalescence done recently, what was your experience? Were you happy with the results? How long did they last? Was sensitivity an issue?

I've always felt like Opalescence was a better option than Zoom, but maybe things have changed since I had it done. If you've had another professional whitening treatment that you think works better, I'd love to hear about it and why.

Just looking for real experiences before I book an appointment. Thanks!

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 3 months ago
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Anyone have Opalescence in-office whitening recently? Worth it?

I had Opalescence in-office whitening done years ago, and from what I remember I was really happy with the results.

Fast forward a few years...I've become a pretty heavy coffee drinker, so my teeth definitely aren't as white as they used to be. I've been using Crest Whitestrips, but honestly I'm just not seeing the results I was hoping for.

For anyone who's had Opalescence done recently, what was your experience? Were you happy with the results? How long did they last? Was sensitivity an issue?

I've always felt like Opalescence was a better option than Zoom, but maybe things have changed since I had it done. If you've had another professional whitening treatment that you think works better, I'd love to hear about it and why.

Just looking for real experiences before I book an appointment. Thanks!

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 3 months ago

Has anyone stayed at The Dewberry, The Charleston Place, The Loutrel, or The Spectator in Charleston?

We're trying to decide between the three for a girls trip and would love to hear which one you'd choose and why. If there's another hotel you'd recommend instead, I'm all ears.

A few things we're looking for:

  • Three adults traveling together.
  • A room with two beds (not a king).
  • We'd prefer a non-pet-friendly hotel.

Also, we are thinking of going mid October. I was in Charleston in 2018 at the beginning of October and remember it being pretty hot still. Does it typically cool off by mid month?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 months ago

Has anyone stayed at The Dewberry, The Charleston Place, The Loutrel, or The Spectator in Charleston?

We're trying to decide between the three for a girls trip and would love to hear which one you'd choose and why. If there's another hotel you'd recommend instead, I'm all ears.

A few things we're looking for:

  • Three adults traveling together.
  • A room with two beds (not a king).
  • We'd prefer a non-pet-friendly hotel.

Also, we are thinking of going mid October. I was in Charleston in 2018 at the beginning of October and remember it being pretty hot still. Does it typically cool off by mid month?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 months ago

Parlux Digitalyon, Ethos or Elysium

I currently have the Digitalyon and absolutely love it, but I need to buy a second dryer to keep at another location. I'm debating whether to get another Digitalyon or try the Ethos or Elysium instead.

I mainly use it to blow out my naturally curly hair straight, so strong airflow and smooth results are my top priorities.

Has anyone used the Digitalyon and either the Ethos or Elysium (or both)? I'd love to hear how they compare in terms of power, drying time, smoothing, and overall performance. Which would you choose?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 months ago

Parlux Digitalyon, Ethos or Elysium

I currently have the Digitalyon and absolutely love it, but I need to buy a second dryer to keep at another location. I'm debating whether to get another Digitalyon or try the Ethos or Elysium instead.

I mainly use it to blow out my naturally curly hair straight, so strong airflow and smooth results are my top priorities.

Has anyone used the Digitalyon and either the Ethos or Elysium (or both)? I'd love to hear how they compare in terms of power, drying time, smoothing, and overall performance. Which would you choose?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 months ago
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New Gold Card- Amex offer question

Two weeks ago, I was approved for the Gold card. I already have a Blue Cash card and receive a ton of Amex Offers on that card, but I'm only seeing a handful of offers on the Gold so far.

Do the offers typically increase over time, or are they more tied to spending activity? I'll be putting most of my spending on the Gold for the next few months to hit the welcome bonus, so I'm curious what others have experienced.

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 months ago

Non-molded, lightly lined bra without lace or embellishments on straps

I recently discovered the Body by Wacoal Underwire Bra and loved the seam as I find molded bras tend to pucker after awhile and can be seen through tops. I love the minimal design, no padding or embellishments/lace however, I wish it was lightly lined because I really need a little coverage.

I trie tried the Marie Jo Tom Heartshape Bra (my size is 34C) and like it, but again would prefer there not to be embellishments on the straps.

I wanted to ask if you all have recommends based on what I'm looking for, a lightly lined bra (molded bras tend to make my chest look wider and want to avoid that) with either minimal lace and no embellishments. I also prefer European brands. TIA!

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 4 months ago
▲ 2 r/Makeup

Compact mirror recommendations

Im looking for a compact mirror, one that closes that is a simple or timeless in style/design. I saw one by Victoria Beckham which I like the design of however, iim curious if anyone has any recommendations?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 5 months ago

Compact mirror recommendations

Im looking for a compact mirror, one that closes that is a simple or timeless in style/design. I saw one by Victoria Beckham which I like the design of however, I'm curious if anyone has any recommendations?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 5 months ago

Compact mirror recommendations

Im looking for a compact mirror, one that closes that is a simple or timeless in style/design. I saw one by Victoria Beckham which I like the design of however, its out of stock here in the US.

Does anyone have any recommendations especially if it's a UK heritage brand?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 5 months ago
▲ 3 r/amex

Gold Card Dinning Credit- GrubHub Order For Future Date

I just got approved for the gold card yesterday so I have to use my $10 monthly credits for May today, If I placed an order today to pick up lunch on Tuesday, June 2nd will I still receive the $10 credit for May or would that go towards June's credit?

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u/LazyTiger9308 — 5 months ago