u/Less_Engine7332

This one's hard to explain. I currently work at a summer camp, its my 2nd year here and last year I met a woman who got really attached to me very quickly. For context I'm 20 and shes now 40, but things started when i was 19 and she was 39. She had a lot of experience with kids so she's a decent coworker but she quickly began a 'friendship" with me. She was alright to hang around and I would dye her hair at home and it was fine. But she started getting into a lot of personal stuff with me that ended up being odd. Shes a very touchy person and I made it very clear that I'm not one for hugs or anything, but she kept going on rants about how touch starved she was and how she wished we could cuddle and shit. She clearly has a god awful relationship with her husband that has lead her to be a too open about stuff but it just kinda got annoying and creepy how much she would tell me. She always said I could tell her off if It was too much but I was always a bit scared to because of how attacked she was to me, saying we were bffs and how it was so nice to have a close friend. She was very clingy and overly chatty about situations that I was so uncomfortable with, (I'm also asexual)

It also turns out her husband is very not OK with her having friends, specificly male friends but found it ok after he found out I was gay.

This whole time ive just nodded along with whatever because I dont wanna be another relationship that gets fucked up by her but I just didnt know how to bring anything up. Ive always been awful at standing up to myself and i have a bad habit of putting other peoples feelings above my own because i dont wanna hurt them. Ik its a bit clishe.

. I started slowly backing away from everything, saying I was too busy to do hair (because 90% of the time I was) and she started doing her hair elsewhere. After the winter ended, summer camp started coming around the corner and I realized the whole situation was rly fuckin odd, but i also realised that i didnt wanna bring anything up because it could completely fuck up the summer. She had gotten a new position and our job was already a bit of a mess due to new management and I didnt want to be another reason we had problems. I just ended up not really engaging with her and using the kids as an excuse and saying im busy during and outside of work. I know I should say something but I'm really worried that it'll just mess everything up.

This has happened before but not for multiple days in a row and its getting to the point where I cant sleep without it being in a lot of pain when I wake up.

I cant afford a medical appointment atm, anyone have any advice on what to do/how to help?

I was laying down and when I got up my shoulderblade/scapula is offset and I cant move much. I cant find anything on how to fix it everything that comes up is just for ball and socket shoulder dislocations. Ive had it before but hasn't been this bad, please help

I tend to get audible ones and physical ones but not normally any standalone visual ones, is it normal to not have all 3 types?

I do believe I used to get visual ones, or something adjacent to it I just don't have them any more

It says "image cannot be loaded from passed link" its worked before when adding stuff to my profile but for whatever reason it's not this time

I have had the energy like i would with mania but today I still feel just dull. I had to get a minor operation on my shoulder so ive been stuck not doing anything exciting for the past few days and I think thats why. But its odd how much of a mix it feels

My partner is interested in getting his earlobes removed due to a few reasons and when talking about it I realized that I haven't really seen it but I'm sure it's a thing. Anyone seen this/have it at all?