u/LilSanrioAngel

i dont want otis nd preferably her oob

the effect of being a marginalized group in a red state with the dating pool of a puddle is guys coming into my life, nice guys really and they wanna give me the kind of attention i desire but i dont want it from them. no matter how hard i try i just can't be into them. but whenever i cry and feel lonely about the fact ive never had a real boyfriend my subconscious tells me i cant cry because i can just date them its not like im in the place to be picky right? obviously im not gonna date them ik im just got into them they aren't my type but i guilt trip myself into feeling guilty i wouldnt date them simply because "who else would date u?" idk i hate being trans ngl wish i was aroace sometimes

obviously woke is just another word for "respects human rights and diversity" but some ppl dont get that. like why is it so hard to find a woke straight guy.. (not to mention red state) like why is it so hard for men to not have such huge opinions on what women do with their bodies and fertility, why cant men not defend innocents being separated from family and detained by ice, why cant men not be so affected by fragile masculinity to the point even letting u do their toes or makeup for fun makes them have a bitch fit, why can't men not say words that are clearly offensive, why cant men not defend minorities. ugh its frustrating. anyone have cute lil woke bfs (this is a vent post and b4 anyone says "date a bi men" i genuinely dont think id be able to while pre op)