u/Maegiri

Hi so I (24F) have a boyfriend (24M). We both just graduated last November and Im currently employed. My boyfriends family has a very successful business but he doesnt wanna work there in the future due to toxicity.

right now hes unemployed but is starting his own business (fashion and accessories). Mga 2 months pa lng niya stinastart. Nag babazaar sila (partner niya sa business isang friend namin na fashion student) minsan. Sometimes it goes well and sometimes it doesnt. typical startup struggles. Pero I truly think naman malaki potential ng business, need lang ng time and luck.

now the thing is im sort of extremely anxious for both of us. Kasi again we’re 24, lets say after a year the business doesnt do well. so at 25 siya mag stastart ng corporate work mismo.

we plan kasi sana na live in by 25-26 then married by like 30.

iniisip ko ung timeline if thats enough for us to save and have the future we dream of.

lifestylw kasi namin is sort of grand. Steak nights madalas, abroad together, etc. now that im working and hes doing business, lowkey lifestyle na muna siyempre to ipon and spend on necessities.

ive been thinking about this for a while talaga pero im not sure how to bring it up to him na parang hesitant ako sa business venture noya. Hes already pressures and anxious too and ayoko dumagdag.

talaga naman hes doing his all to make the business a success, d siya nagkukulang dun. Like i truly see how everything he does is mainly for me kaya naguguilty din ako na im anxious or doubtful. its just a matter of luck talaga esp in an oversaturated market.

i need advice huhu

edit; thanks sa mga nag rereply huhu. may history of anxiety din talaga ako kaya d ko matigil ung ganitong feelings

nag order ako eshop cards na 60 usd worth (tatlong tig 20) and instead of hust getting it as usual they did a “random check” verification and asked for my IDs. na aannoy ako, gusto ko lng naman bumili ng laro tos lagi naman ako bumibili diyan.

disclaimer: this is for my friend who does not have reddit

so currently she works at a start up for 2 yrs (3 counting internship) and her salary went from 35k to 73k in these 2 yrs (ikr wow)

she got an offer from SPX for 80k. Similar role siya.

shes thinking if she grabs spx despite having around the same take home pay para better tignan sa resume and more growth.

what do you guys think?

other things:
current - 3x onsite, free parking
spx - 4x onsite, paid parking

hi so I got a priority recruitment for shopees FLP program. I know more on operations toh but ano hitsura ng day to day?

i have a job na but might shoot my shot. Kaso im not sure if I like ano gagawin here so I wanna hear some experiences!

lately ive just been extremely anxious sa eork. 2 months pa lng ako dito. tbh the people are nice naman and work load is manageable pero minsan high stress but kasi I was assigned to a diff department after my first month due to lack of manpower. And I dont like what im doing now AT ALL. its temporary lng naman, by end of month may papasok na person but I dtill have to support this role until makaadjust ung new hire.

pero kasi my anxiety is getting really bad d ko alam if mentally ill last till that point. I have a history of anxiety and depression din kasi.

I literally dread mornings. I try to ground myself every morning by breathing lng. But to others, how do you manage it?

dami ko nakikita post na full wfh lng then mataas pay kasi foreign ung company. Paano nahahanap mga toh? for context I am a marketing and data specialist. I wanna shift to a stable wfh job so I can also focus on building my own brand and have enough capital for it.