u/MisanthropyismyMuse

I'm just trying to track an order, but when I go to log in, it just gives me an error. I've tried both email and SMS codes (I don't know my password) and am receiving the codes fine. But when I put the codes in, it says "something went wrong, please try again" and no explanation. I've tried it to log in and to reset my password, but get the same error no matter what. What do I do? All their "help" answers just say "check your spam folders". I'm GETTING the codes. They just aren't working.

I don't know how to properly crosspost, but this was also posted in cathelp.

Hi guys! My cat is a rescue. I was told she was roughly 2-3 years old when I got her and that was 2020. The girl I took her from used to just throw her outside regularly and now she has severe anxiety around anyrhing that has to do with going out the front door. I can leave it wide open and she won't so much as get curious, she runs to the other end of the house. I successfully got her into a carrier one time when I first got her and took her to get fixed and get her shots, but I think this made her anxiety worse. I haven't been able to get her in a carrier since.

I noticed just now that she's squinting with one eye and it's red on the inner corner and know she's long overdue for a checkup anyway, but I have no idea how to even get her to the vet without traumatizing her.

The issue is I know the biggest suggestion would be getting her used to a carrier using treats, but she doesn't have a single type of treat she likes. I've tried every type of protein, every brand, no interest. She won't even eat wet food of any kind. She's just that picky. I've tried catnip, but that doesn't work either. How am I supposed to reward her if she has no interest in the rewards?

Other things I've tried:

-Harness and leash (she just gets scared to go near the front door and pulls until the leash gets ripped from my hand).

-Wrapping like a burrito (she doesn't like getting picked up anyway, but the moment she realizes I'm taking her outside, she panics and squirms free).

-Forcing her into the carrier with another person's help (she's strong and I felt like if I pushed any more, she was going to break her own legs, so I gave up).

What do I do??

Sorry. This might seem like an odd quotation, but they happened to be touring with other artists I like right now and I noticed a majority of their merch is the "save a kid, kill a pedophile" or "kill all pedophiles" slogans. I would love to be on board, but I've sadly heard from several people that those specific lines are transphobic dog whistles used in a "trans=groomer" context. I've never heard of them before and I'm not sure if it's safe to support them since I don't know if they're meaning it genuinely or if they're meaning it in this fucked up way. Anyone who knows, can I go to this show with a clean conscience?