Getting bored out of my mind but not doing anything about it.

I have no close friends in the Bengaluru where I live currently. Invited a very old school friend to my house but she didn’t come. I don’t even feel like going anywhere here. I want to make plans but then I dread them. And I also don’t have anyone to make good plans with. Life feels like shit

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u/Moanerloner — 5 days ago

Has anyone here tried making a miniature study room or their house?

I am completely obsessed with the show and was sad to find that there is no Lego set of the show. I love miniatures and wanted to know if anyone tried recreating any scene in a miniature version?
I want to take inspiration and make something . I don’t know how though.

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u/Moanerloner — 18 days ago

Any cheaper legal gummy alternatives to Cannoza?

Really want to try the AYUSH certified gummies but Cannoza is expensive. Any cheaper options with similar quality ?

It’s INR 3000 for 10 gummies with 315mg active Cannabinoids. For me affordable would be around 1k for 10 gummies if that’s possible.

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u/Moanerloner — 23 days ago

How do I explain grooming when the girl is legally an adult?

I saw that a relative of mine (gag) who is 35M and dating a 20F. I pointed it out to my mom and other cousins about it, but nobody cared. They are like the girl should also have sense, what’s your problem if it’s consensual and things like that. I have had these conversations with my well meaning male friends also before and they say similar things unfortunately. They believe that if a girl is a legal adult then it’s her choice too, and not all such relationships means grooming.
I seriously believe that it does lead to grooming or being subjugated in one way or another due to power dynamics. Also, from personal experience, I know how easy it is to get lured by guys at that age, especially when they are older, seem more mature and in most cases have more money than you as they are older. The special attention is everything. I really think that before 25, one must not date anyone more than 3-4 years older than them as the brain is not even fully developed by that time and most people have limited life experiences before that age.
But I don’t know how to explain it to people, especially men. Or am I the one who is in the wrong ? Need some help

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u/Moanerloner — 30 days ago

How to explain grooming when the girl is legally an adult?

So I saw that a relative of mine (gag) who is 35M and dating a 20F. I pointed it out to my mom and other cousins about it, but nobody cared. They are like the girl should also have sense, what’s your problem if it’s consensual and things like that. I have had these conversations with my well meaning male friends also before and they say similar things unfortunately. They believe that if a girl is a legal adult then it’s her choice too, and not all such relationships means grooming.
I seriously believe that it does lead to grooming or being subjugated in one way or another due to power dynamics. Also, from personal experience, I know how easy it is to get lured by guys at that age, especially when they are older, seem more mature and in most cases have more money than you as they are older. The special attention is everything. I really think that before 25, one must not date anyone more than 3-4 years older than them as the brain is not even fully developed by that time and most people have limited life experiences before that age.
But I don’t know how to explain it to people, especially men. Need some help.

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u/Moanerloner — 30 days ago

Any affordable light therapy mask recommendations?

I am seeing some affordable ones on Amazon for 2-3k with multiple light settings. Are they any good? Also, is red light enough or other lights also help? Please recommend some good ones and share your experience.

u/Moanerloner — 1 month ago

How to get rid of fruits flies taking over my house?

Asking here cause could not find any proper Indian sub for this. I live in India. It’s an open kitchen concept and also has a balcony. Since a few weeks, fruit flies are increasing in the kitchen. I tried that apple cider vinegar and dish soap trick but it is not working at all. I have ordered some nets for my fruits. But apart from that, a lot of them are near the sink and water purifier. I have cleaned the sink and the drain several times with drain cleaner. We also got our water purifier replaced yesterday but the flies are sitting on the tap of the brand new one now. Please help. (Image is from the Internet)

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u/Moanerloner — 1 month ago
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How do I get rid of fruit flies? [read description]

I live in India. It’s an open kitchen concept and also has a balcony. Since a few weeks, fruit flies are increasing in the kitchen. I tried that apple cider vinegar and dish soap trick but it is not working at all. I have ordered some nets for my fruits. But apart from that, a lot of them are near the sink and water purifier. I have cleaned the sink and the drain several times with drain cleaner. We also got our water purifier replaced yesterday but the flies are sitting on the tap of the brand new one now. Please help. (Image is from the Internet)

u/Moanerloner — 1 month ago

Need some good ideas to decorate my new standing desk without putting anything on the wall.

I am a working girl. I want to decorate my standing desk aesthetically without using the wall as it’s a rented house and it has strict “no nails on the wall policy.” I don’t use stationery that much as I mostly work on my laptop. Would like to make it look good and also cute but not clutter it. The demensions are 46X24 inches

u/Moanerloner — 2 months ago

I have no self control and I hate myself

I feel sleepy but I just avoid sleeping. I decide not to smoke at night but I just order a new pack. I try to write on my own for my work but end up using Claude for even emails. I realise that yoga really heals my cervical pain but I stop after two days. I decide to wake up early in the morning but just don’t. I keep my kindle beside me to read but end up on my phone and my brain refuses to read. I decide to read the news but get bored in two mins. I even attended vipasana and thought I am a new person now but returned to my old self after a few days of returning. I feel stressed about everything but choose not to do anything about it. I am becoming incompetent at my work, don’t talk to my friends nor do they talk to me. I literally have no talent. I thought I am good at writing and quizzing but I am even bad at them. I just hate myself and my life. Therapy has also stopped working for me. It helped before but now it feels hopeless and I don’t want to take it again. I don’t even earn good money and I am 31 now. Fml

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u/Moanerloner — 2 months ago

Parents asking to use alum water and clove oil instead of removing wisdom teeth.

Went to the dentist this month as I started having pain in my jaw which spread to my ears. There was also a clicking sound. I am unable to fully open my jaw. Got 3D scan and what not done on the recommendation of Dentist1.
Dentist1 said I need to get my lower jaw wisdom teeth removed as they are partially decaying and also growing in different directions, which might be causing the jaw pain. They also said some of teeth have craze lines Ana fractures maybe due to teeth grinding and gave me a mouth guard.
Now, I wanted a second opinion so went to Dentist2. He said that all the 4 wisdom teeth need to be removed. He saw the earlier 3D scan and said there are no fractures and only wisdom teeth issue exists.

Now my parents are asking not to do anything and use remedies such as using alum, turmeric, mouthwash etc to reduce inflammation. They are saying that removing wisdom teeth will affect my entire set of teeth and they might start moving.
I am very confused now what to do. Please if anyone can help.
Thanks

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u/Moanerloner — 2 months ago
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Indian parents suggesting to use alum instead of getting wisdom teeth removed. What should I do?

Went to the dentist this month as I started having pain in my jaw which spread to my ears. There was also a clicking sound. I am unable to fully open my jaw. Got 3D scan and what not done on the recommendation of Dentist1.
Dentist1 said I need to get my lower jaw wisdom teeth removed as they are partially decaying and also growing in different directions, which might be causing the jaw pain. They also said some of teeth have craze lines Ana fractures maybe due to teeth grinding and gave me a mouth guard.
Now, I wanted a second opinion so went to Dentist2. He said that all the 4 wisdom teeth need to be removed. He saw the earlier 3D scan and said there are no fractures and only wisdom teeth issue exists.

Now my parents are asking not to do anything and use remedies such as using alum, turmeric, mouthwash etc to reduce inflammation. They are saying that removing wisdom teeth will affect my entire set of teeth and they might start moving.
I am very confused now what to do. Please if anyone can help.
Thanks

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u/Moanerloner — 2 months ago

Please suggest any nice places to stay at Sakleshpura with friends.

We are a group of girls going to Sakleshpura for two days. We want to nice plantation stay where we can relax and enjoy. Please give suggestions. Budget is 5k per day.

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u/Moanerloner — 3 months ago

Please suggest good online/offline sources to buy office casuals for women.

I live in Bengaluru. I don’t want to spend more than 1k on a top. 1.5k max if it’s very good. I want to buy 4-5 tops for work. I also like quardsets. I am not looking to overtly formal shirts but like cool and chic clothes which are suitable for work and doesn’t show too much cleavage or my waist. So no crop tops. I want to look good during corporate meetings and all. Please suggest online and offline sources. Much appreciated.

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u/Moanerloner — 3 months ago

I feel paralysed to take action.

I am 30F from India. I really feel at a loss to do any physical activities. I have an online yoga class but I have just stopped doing yoga. I also bought resistance bands but I am not doing anything. Then sometimes I do yoga for a day or two but then either I have to travel or my periods come and then I stop again. I am also waking up very late, that too with much difficulty, and feel down all day. I am very unproductive at work also. All I do all day is watch YouTube, TV and play stupid games on my phone. Even shopping feels like a task. Everything feels like a task. I am also not cleaning up my house and all my clothes are scattered. Earlier at least after a few days I would become active again but now that has also stopped. I just feel paralysed and I start hating myself. All my friends are physically active and I feel very down. I don’t feel like eating also but thankfully because I have a cook, food is there. I also smoke a lot. Please help.

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u/Moanerloner — 3 months ago