u/Mobile_Tennis_6563

Main priority is accessibility from my table . There are about 150 books with avg width of 3 cm and A4 size . The room is pretty big space won't be a problem I think .

Hi , my dad has it rough , He lost his parents and his brother doesn't live with him . I was 11 when he lost his mother and my grandmother, he was an alcoholic before this ,but his drinking increased afterwards . I tried doing everything I tried telling him that nothing is permanent . Grandma could only live for so long instead of crying and being depressed every day we have to let go enjoy the moments which we spend with her rather than regretting the now that's what she would have wanted anyways . I was 13 when I said this for weeks I tried to help him and his brother understood what I said and moved on but my father never did . I tried to help his drinking problem I was always there for him and was always mindful so that I don't hurt him . But it's just so hard sometimes he wouldn't accept because I am his son and he is much more experienced or just because he doesn't want me to indulge and do better in my life and what not . It's hard when his personality keeps changing . It's because of my mom that has no empathy for her and is used to a luxurious tension free life since her childhood which my father can't provide . She would always hind something to complain about when my dad was improving she still kept complaining that he is still bad at that household work he doesn't put enough family time while he is clearly putting more than before and expects this to be the bare minimum . She never accepts that she is wrong and complains even in celebration to the point that she just sounds miserable and stresses out my dad always putting more burden on him . Which is why my dad just stoped giving time to family and hates her . I can't do anything about my mom she doesn't understand the fact when one is overwhelmed putting more burden won't make him solve your problems and realize what you want him to . She is very selfish too when I was sick she didn't even get up from bed to give me water I was very thirsty and couldn't get up she straight up refused . While I have always took care of her health multiple times when she had food poisioning I called her brother to take her to hospital and did everything I could to relieve her pain . I understand my father that she isn't really a great partner but I can't fix a tree that grew tilted she is too old to be as open minded as a kid thanks to her perception that she is always right . What do I do for my dad ?

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Apart from being casual friends . Apart from socializing learning how to talk to different prople , opening view on how different people live their life . Does getting in a relationship like that have anything else ? My friends keep saying you will know when you make one ... What will I learn ? What is the point I was wondering and couldn't help . Edit : all right I forgot to specify A LOT of things . 1. I'm not looking for romance or relationship my cousin and some older friends keep talking abt that and never clarify say that one will learn a lot from a girlfriend . 2. My drunk father and older cusion said that I should have a girlfriend and they were and are serious I don't see there point my dad wants a divorce and has become alcoholic , and my cousin is just in his bubble that being older is always right and one advice fits all . 3. I am a minor sorry for the drama .

Hi , every game I have downloaded works great except avatar legends . When I try to play online matchmaking it starts but it's just stuck at matchmaking and never connects . Am I doing something wrong ?

Hi , I am new to linux so far I have tried fedora it works great but I was thinking of switching to cachyos for performance. All the applications and programs are available on it , but my main concern is I have heard AUR has malware isn't linux repository based so how? Was it not tested ? Also what is meant by maintainance I have heard you have to maintain arch . Other than troubleshooting having stuff from official repos and waiting a bit when major update releases and seeing errors popping up what is maintainence . I like to troubleshoot occasionally and stuff and I'll learn a bit , but still I'm more of a I use my computer to get work done not work on the os guy . Should I switch ofcourse I know I should see for myself I have , but what I'm asking is maintainence and stability in long term .

Hi , I am a 16 year old kid . I was 8 when my mother said to my father she was suicidal while I was sitting right there , 9 when I got seperated from my friends at 11 I lost my grandparents . My parents had never had a place in my heart ,it was only my grandmother who truly cared about me . I had to stop their divorce myself , my father is an alcoholic I realized that day , and also he cares more about his friends and colleagues than family . He has always ran away from his life problems and couldn't bare losing her mother , he was an alcoholic much before that incident though . I was just so tired my parents didn't know how to parent they didn't know how to communicate with people and are financially irresponsible. For then next 3 to 4 years I tried everything to stop my father's drinking problem , I said to him about his mother that nothing is permanent everyone we know will leave you can't control that . Only thing you can control is your reaction and just enjoy the time you had with her instead of regretting her death . I tried to explain this in multiple ways his brother understood , moved on , but my father never did . He finds it against his reflection of himself to learn something from a kid , I told him running never solves it will worsen , and already has . He now doesn't spend much time with family keeps cursing my mother . My mother to solve my father's lack of awareness is trying harder to not aware him then complaining to me why it's not working . My father never pays attention to her how will ignoring solve it ? My mother just keeps openly saying now and then that she is suicidal . She is spoiled her father is a rich man her brother is succesful earns good spends a lot of quality time with family keeps the environment good . My mother on the other hand is miserable she chooses despair she always finds negativity in even the best things then complains about it . I regret stopping their divorce . Both of them never accept their failures ,my father always gets used in work people take benifit of him . My mother she thinks she is always right . She doesn't care about me one day I was sick and was suffering I asked her to please bring me some water she never did she refused I asked her for half an hour no water . When she is sick she will start crying blackmailing and all sorts of things to get anything she wants . I hate my parents , I didn't ask to be born if they cant handle their life how could they become a parent ? Everyday my father doesn't spend family time and curses my mother while my mother keeps complaining to me . I have said her the 100th time that if you try to talk to him by stating your problems on an overwhelmed man he will be more overwhelmed. Why don't you think of his problems be relatable and approachable to him and solve them for once to get some trust , but she has 0 patience after all her father makes 6 figures has reputition , she got everything she wanted , and her mother is super caring , she isn't used to struggling she expects results in a single day . I am tired of pouring water in bottomless jars . I am just tierd of living with them . What do I do ?

I have never read a single comic or book of ATLA , and I was thinking instead of rewatching the show I should rewatch and read some comics . I have heard kyoshi novels were great could someone suggest me some more good comics .

I was mainly thinking about going to sri nagar in this month .

Hi, I am new to Ghibli . The movies I was planing to watch are : the boy and the heron , grave of the Fireflies , Kiki's Delivery , My Neighbor Totoro and Spirited Away . My main concern is I will simply read the subtitles before the dailogue fully finishes and then I will look at the movie , by no means it itself is bad , but I feel like to watch in english would simply be relaxing .

I'm having a problem , I am getting downloads which are much slower than my wifi , and no one else on that site says slow download . I'm using qbittorent most of the time it doesn't even connect to seeders if it does it's like 20 percent of seeders . On transmission I get higher speeds but it disconnects to seeders very often . I'm on fedora 43 kde . It is even slower with proton vpn . It's a wierd problem since it downloads fairly quickly till first 40 percent then downloads very slowly . All the torrents gave 10+ seeders .

So .. the show aired in 2010 to 2017s in asia. It started with a board or something that could take you to other world. It had an anime style .It had a bunch of teens , like a bit more than 4 they would sometimes do meetings . In that world they used some cool devices used to fight or idk . It was a unique show it wasn't dinosaur king . I really can't recall more . I wish someone could help me .

So .. the show aired in 2010 to 2017s in asia. It started with a board or something that could take you to other world. It had an anime style .It had a bunch of teens , like a bit more than 4 they would sometimes do meetings . In that world they used some cool devices used to fight or idk . It was a unique show it wasn't dinosaur king . I really can't recall more . I wish someone could help me . Or could anyone suggest a subreddit to find tv shows or anime etc.

I passed colorblind test but whenever I have to identify subtle shades of colors I struggle. In the end I can distinguish but i have to stress my head hard and it's annoying for some reason any explanation?

Hi I need some help for my dad .

So I am a kid . I didn't know what jaundis was until today . ( Ignore my bad english it's my 3rd language) So my dad's eyes have been yellow not chronically but during most of the day for like years .... and he drinks alcohol . I was thinking of suggesting him to get his lover checked any idea on how to convience him ? He thinks he is very healthy runs 5 km a day and walks another 15 but I'm worried as his diet isn't balanced and he has low muscle mass .It's hard for me to convience him to go to dr any suggestion?

So I am a kid . I didn't know what jaundis was until today . ( Ignore my bad english it's my 3rd language) So my dad's eyes have been yellow not chronically but during most of the day for like years .... and he drinks alcohol . I was thinking of suggesting him to get his lover checked any idea on how to convience him ? He thinks he is very healthy runs 5 km a day and walks another 15 but I'm worried as his diet isn't balanced and he has low muscle mass .It's hard for me to convience him to go to dr any suggestion?