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32M | CF M4F | ACE | CF4CF

Turned 32 and my life currently revolves around pet, work, workout, occasional binge watching, short trips, some shopping and living healthy.

Pics are from months apart or year. Purple t shirt anime name is the current one from yesterday.

I’m around 72- 78kg during different phase and currently 76kg. I need to add more colours to my life hence a CF search.

Oh I’m 5’10 athletic, slender body type. I like to workout this week was the only one I intentionally didn’t go to gym. I like to lead a healthy lifestyle and prefer someone with same interests.

I also like drawing a little when absolutely bored and I’m intrested in so many things and want to learn more.

Self taught in most things. Few months back I painted couple of rooms interior and added some wall panels, and designed that for someone. Thats a side quest.

Also reading anything deep like informative stuff not novels, cooking a little from YouTube shorts, short walks, going to beach, riding.

Location- South India- Kerala. Long distance within India is fine as well.

This is all about me so far I can ponder. If you can relate feel free to slide in DM I’ll be goofing around.

u/MrBrownie_3 — 19 hours ago

This sub is amazing!

Just found out this sub and read some comments this is exactly what I was yearning for.

What exactly is the point of marriage? License to be tied together and loose ourselves along the way.

Every single one of the men who were in their prime has lost their passion and some gone bald and fat over time with responsibilities and kids.

My fam was pushing marriage from the age 24 luckily I was away now I’m 32 still not married since, I’m back with this marriage culture around me I fell for having a companion as in my mindset.

I’m absolutely happy with who I am as a person, love what I do, more flexible than ever with time, less stress. Used to live by myself a decade plus. Once I came back home I had verbal fight with mom for weeks since I couldn’t get along.

It took some time to adjust. When I was by myself I never felt need of companionship or anyone. I love conversations with people thats it.

Plenty of divorce in my extended family as well.

I have raised few valid questions-

  1. Why should I marry ? Basic answer was procreate and to have a companion.

Isn’t that selfish?

Also asked what is the point of companion if no use or they die?

No answer. Literally my dad died and mom is widow. Exactly no point in having a companion right.

Being back to this toxic marriage and cultural stuff is frustrating me like I’m so done.

I blame myself I have fell for it in the last 4months and it have gotten in to me. I am happy as I could be, way before 4 months. Now my mind is craving for a companion.

I’m seen as some burden everywhere I go the typical question is like - aren’t you married yet? Why aren’t you not married? I know someone you might like.

When I was in my 20’s I was sitting in a park just relaxing. A dude in 40’s came up to me and said oh you shouldn’t be here hmmm you are not married are you? I didn’t quite catch what he meant. Basically it was - he thought I’m here sitting there to ogle at women. While I was new to that city saw that park when I was walking sat for a few minutes to relax.

Today on a narrow way at work a women was walking right infront of me with on phone talking .I had to get by and while I wanted to take a right turn she turned around go back(like back and forth walks on call) we looked at each others face just like any one would. Weird I don’t even know her she smiled I was confused but I smiled and walked away since I work on customer facing job thats my game face.

When coming back I went the other farthest way without going that way I came in. Thats just how I am.

I’m not awkward or under confident. I try not to talk to strangers especially women in my daily life. That’s how I am still.

What I’m trying to say is SOCIETY people around us had made marriage, being with women, companionship a thing that we eventually fell into it and yearn for something we don’t actually need.

CHEERS TO NO MARRIAGE🥂 AND LONG LIFE

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u/MrBrownie_3 — 3 days ago

32 M4F | ACE | ACEFLUX

Male in my early thirties and I’m an asexual person possibly fall into different pies. Finally found the term ACEFLUX

Things I do outside of work ~

If absolutely bored I’ll draw something- just a beginner

Anytime if I have something in my mind I’ll try to dig more info about that including nutrition, names of different muscles, a bit of anatomy, any lifestyle diseases, motorcycles, phones- specs, cars.

Other than that I enjoy long walks or shorter walks, used to bake, love cooking here and there something I saw on YouTube shorts, love to workout, dismantle motorcycle (I have one I couldn’t put it back 😭) or wash my motorcycle, car.

I have a pet dog possibly rage bait my dog almost every night, rough play, obedience training ( I have taught mine to get down, move back, give me paws, move when I intend to) tug of war 🐶

I can paint interior of a room or couple of rooms well and fix new curtains, some drilling, adding shelves or adding wall panel with right tools. I’d love to learn more🤞🏼

I love to keep a healthy lifestyle almost 3-4 months and budge a little on diet and enjoy things I like and get back to it again. My build is athletic, slender 40-42 inch shoulders 31 -32 inches waist. Also I look a little stronger than I how I look

Current weight and height 177-178cm 5’10- 72- 77kg. Currently at 76kg. I change my haircuts often short, buzzcut, long, medium.

Place and Country- I’m of Indian orgin lived almost a decade in North America currently settled in India - Kerala.

In general I was told - I’m easy to talk to and friendly.

I’m looking for someone to be friends with and possibly a relationship if it works out~

Feel free to reach out If you think you can relate to me~ less

u/MrBrownie_3 — 4 days ago

Engagement -

Guys basically found a perfect person for marriage. It’s a long story. Saddle up!

Innale ayirunnu engagement randu perum matching anu overall. Prospective is taller than me which I liked Pakshe ningalk kadha ariyillallo ath ingane anu thudagunath.

Avalude achan oru business man anu nalla 3 businessesukal run cheyunnu otta mol anu alu oru 6’1 kanum. Indian karanu North America settled. Ente business avarude proximity il anu agene anu Njan avalude dad um ayi company akunath. Pullikaran atleast 1 week il oru thavana nammude avide varum malayali ayathu kond nalla vibe, positive manushyan anu overall. Alu nalla personality anu age oru 60 varum kandal parayilla overall jovial guy.

Nammal kurach time samasarikum nattile karyam , business angane. Angne Ente eduthu chodichitund kalayanam enthan enn kazhikathe namal ath eey nokiyilla enn paranj ozhivakum.

Angane anu samsarikunna kootathil paranjath pullikarn molund enn oke paranjirunnu, njan karuthi cheriya kutti anenn. One day he came with family to our store. It was a surprising visit. Angane ellavareyum paruchaya pettu. Avarku valiya extended family anu but, Avar Moonu perum anu vannath.

Kurenaal kazhinju engagement fix aki. Ithuvare oru kuzhappavum undayirunilla njangal thammil but, engagement nadakunnath Aa timil avalku engagementinu thalaparyam illa enn paranju erangi oru ottam.Parayan vittu poyi alu oru divorce kazhinjaathanu unfortunately ath work ayilla. Ith one year kazhinjittanu nadakunath. Kurach trauma und especially engagement marriage okke. Alu pavam anu cash inte jada onnum illya.

Aval pakuthi vech Aa vella dresum(wedding gown) itt irangi foot pathiloode nadannu. Njan oru black pants Um white shirt and a bow tie Ath ayirunnu oufit. Njan oodi purake poyi. ( parayan vittu poyi We are like friends kurach chat okke undarnu, idak storil okke visit cheyum. Proper ayi oru dating nu pokan sadhichitt illa. Time constraints ullath kond. )appozhekum. Njangal kurach nadannu, samsarichu.

Alk Malayalam atra ariyilla keto. So Englishil arnu. Aal bhayangara vishamattil arnu past trauma und. Angene samsarichu topic okke matti Koch pillere pole pinne thirich adii paaadi tholel kayyitt nadannu Churchill ekadesham etti apozhekum njan ang unarnnu. Pinne bakki karyam aduth enganum kanuvanel parayam.

Have you experienced same please share.

u/MrBrownie_3 — 6 days ago

CF 32M | 4CF F| Asexual| ACE

Hello,

I’m CF 32 M and I’m looking for a CF women in ace spectrum asexual.

I can’t write most details as it’s 11:28pm I’ll add as comment

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u/MrBrownie_3 — 7 days ago

Best and worst quality _

Yello folks!

Commnet your 1 best quality and 1 worst quality as in personlity. It could be something that someone said hey you’re really a kind person something like that.

Mine is I’m short tempered at times and my best quality is I’m easy to talk to.

Share yours🫧

If you could change or have changed something please share that as well. You can share as many as you like

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u/MrBrownie_3 — 10 days ago

Locked in for 3months

Was off track and started dieting for 3months and 1 week absolutely eating anything. Back to basics for 2weeks in. Lean bulking

First pic- 2 weeks ago

Second pic - June 23

u/MrBrownie_3 — 12 days ago

Male 32 -5’10 CF | seeking F CF | CF4CF 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈

It’s past midnight ~ hello 👋🏼 members!

I’ll introduce briefly about me, thats quick to skim.

32 male 5’10 72-77kg.

I’m CF from the age of 17. A day in my life look like wakeup-> to my pet ->get ready for work-> commute -> work -> to the gym -> to my pet -> a bit of binge watching or drawing at times.

Hobbies - avid online reader(not social media), cooking, working out, short walks, drawing, roughhousing with pet, riding bikes.

On weekends may be short trips around. Bathe my puppy and wash my vehicles. Even cooking something I watched on YouTube or in here. Today is Sunday I have a recipe in mind.

I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs only thing I’m addicted to is SUGAR although I haven’t been into that much past years.

I’m keeping my face a lil private for now. Happy to show in the dm✉️

😺Would call myself an ambivert and am reserved to myself. I can be talkative as well as I enjoy silence. I love being positive and have a let’s do it attitude although procrastinate a bit. I’m mature but, I was told I have a friendly personality from multiple people even got an appreciation gift from place I worked way back.

📍Currently I’m in South India - Kerala settled -preferably looking into South Indians . Have my own home, no debts, being content with myself. I don’t have any specific criteria in a partner although if you have similar personality traits, love pets, working out we could easily get along well. My weight fluctuates depending on diet 72-77kg and my hair I go from medium length to buzz cut in a whim.

If you don’t like pets thats absolutely fine too although I would be having one as long as I live. It’s apparently a necessity like food, water and shelter.

If you are interested feel free to reach out! 📩

We could possibly post another successful story in here like others very soon! 🤞🏼

u/MrBrownie_3 — 15 days ago

Lunch- 🙂 around 2:54pm

Apparently innathe lunch was rice, egg and mulaku chammanthi, kurach savala chopped.

Usually there will atleast something there which has some flavour but, today had a depressing lunch.

What did you have for lunch cocos?

u/MrBrownie_3 — 16 days ago

CF stories -

Hello dear friends,

We all joined excitedly here with one common thing in mind which is we are representing as CF person or some want to be CF, some in doubts.

I’m sure there are several reasons that made each one of to be CF. I have mine and you have yours.

Can y’all share what made to you to be CF ?

For me briefly it’s due to the Childhood and situation currently going on in India which was the reason.

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u/MrBrownie_3 — 16 days ago

32 M | CF | 5’10 | Kerala | in pursuit of the other half 🍕

Hello there reddmatch folks!

I’ll introduce briefly about me, thats quick to skim.

AGE -32 male 5’10 72-77kg.

LOCATION- Kerala

I’m CF(Child Free) from the age of 17. A day in my life look like wakeup-> to my pet ->get ready for work-> commute -> work -> to the gym -> to my pet -> a bit of binge watching or drawing at times.

INTERESTS - avid online reader(not social media), cooking, working out, walks, drawing, roughhousing with pet, short walks.

On weekends may be short trips around. Bathe my puppy and wash my vehicles. Even cooking something different at times.🐶🧑‍🍳🚘

I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs only thing I’m addicted to is SUGAR although I haven’t been into that much past years. 🎉

Would call myself an ambivert and am reserved to myself. I can be talkative as well as I enjoy silence.

Currently I’m in India- Kerala. Have my own home, no debts, being content with myself. I don’t have any specific criteria in a partner although if you have similar prrsonaity traits, love pets, working out that would be something I love. My weight fluctuates depending on diet and my hair I go from medium length to buzz cut in a whim.

Feel free to reach out if interested ~ Maybe it could be that simple ‘Hi’ that we will be recalling after a decade when we are explaining someone - how we met🤞🏽

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u/MrBrownie_3 — 17 days ago

Male 32 CF |CF M4F|

Hello there awesome CF members!

I’ll introduce briefly about me, thats quick to skim.

32 male 5’10 72-77kg.

I’m CF from the age of 17. A day in my life look like wakeup-> to my pet ->get ready for work-> commute -> work -> to the gym -> to my pet -> a bit of binge watching or drawing at times.

Hobbies - avid online reader(not social media), cooking, working out, walks, drawing, roughhousing with pet.

On weekends may be short trips around. Bathe my puppy and wash my vehicles. Even cooking something different at times.

I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs only thing I’m addicted to is SUGAR although I haven’t been into that much past years.

I’m keeping my face a lil private for now. Happy to show in the dm.

Would call myself an ambivert and am reserved to myself. I can be talkative as well as I enjoy silence.

Currently I’m in India. Have my own home, no debts, being content with myself. I don’t have any specific criteria in a partner although if you have similar prrsonaity traits, love pets, working out that would be a plus. My weight fluctuates depending on diet and my hair I go from medium length to buzz cut in a whim.

u/MrBrownie_3 — 22 days ago

32M|CF M4F |

Hello there awesome CF members!

I’ll introduce briefly about me, thats quick to skim.

32 male 5’10 72-77kg.

I’m CF from the age of 17. A day in my life look like wakeup-> to my pet ->get ready for work-> commute -> work -> to the gym -> to my pet -> a bit of binge watching or drawing at times or read.

Hobbies - avid online reader(not social media), cooking, working out, walks, drawing, roughhousing with pet.

On weekends may be short trips around. Bathe my puppy and wash my vehicles. Even cooking something different at times.

I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs only thing I’m addicted to is SUGAR although I haven’t been into that much past years.

I’m keeping my face a lil private for now. Happy to show in the dm.

Would call myself an ambivert and am reserved to myself. I can be talkative as well as I enjoy silence. I prefer no drama, peaceful company and you can expect same as well.

From South India (Kerala) Have my own home, no debts, being content with myself. I don’t have any specific criteria in a partner although if you have similar personality traits, love pets, working out that would be a plus. My weight fluctuates depending on diet and my hair I go from medium length to buzz cut in a whim.

If you’re interested feel free to reach out~

u/MrBrownie_3 — 22 days ago
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CF - Male 32- 5’10

Hello there awesome CF members!

I’ll introduce briefly about me, thats quick to skim.

32 male 5’10 72-77kg.

I’m CF from the age of 17. A day in my life look like wakeup-> to my pet ->get ready for work-> commute -> work -> to the gym -> to my pet -> a bit of binge watching or drawing at times.

Hobbies - avid online reader(not social media), cooking, working out, walks, drawing, roughhousing with pet.

On weekends may be short trips around. Bathe my puppy and wash my vehicles. Even cooking something different at times.

I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs only thing I’m addicted to is SUGAR although I haven’t been into that much past years.

I’m keeping my face a lil private for now. Happy to show in the dm.

Would call myself an ambivert and am reserved to myself. I can be talkative as well as I enjoy silence.

Currently I’m in India. Have my own home, no debts, being content with myself. I don’t have any specific criteria in a partner although if you have similar prrsonaity traits, love pets, working out that would be a plus. My weight fluctuates depending on diet and my hair I go from medium length to buzz cut in a whim.

u/MrBrownie_3 — 24 days ago

Small celebration turned one more year older today.

How are you all doing?

Just want to share little happiness. I’ve been by myself for over a decade and in past I never celebrated. I think now it’s time. I turned 32 today. Also an excuse to eat sugar.

When is your bday guys? Do you celebrate usually?

u/MrBrownie_3 — 24 days ago
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Sharing a story

Grew up in a household with a big family. Eventually fights and so many issues me and mom moved to another place. She raised me for years, occasionally dad supported us and so many years nobody did bat eyes on us. We were left alone. It’s basically my mom and were divorced but not legally divorced stage. Used to live in a one bedroom tiny home, kitchen and bathroom. Had one single bed for me and mom had another one.

Now I’m realizing I have never got any new or bought new clothes like for so many years maybe thats why even though I can afford clothing I don’t buy like often. I don’t even buy new clothing for special occasions until someone pressures me. My favourites are always faded and old, it’s comfy and I used to wear wrinkled shirt outside and my distant sis felt bad I guess she called me back and made sure it’s ironed possibly because she has an image to keep.

Well, coming to current situation I have a big azz bed and it can be dismantled and after a month I dismantled it and using a tiny single bed I can fit myself and my last blanket got tored which was my dearly and old. Now I’m using a peice of clothing wide enough but not lengthy enouyto cover myself. Yesterday it was a bit cold and I curled myself up and the clothing I use fitted me perfectly for the whole night. I can still afford to buy 1 but, I choose to limit myself in so many things.

Even my mom asked me to buy a blanket that fits me. I said Whats wrong with this. Sometimes all those past still lies under our skin even after years. Certain life circumstances made my life being poor and also it he taught me to live with very less and no complaints.

I’m not saying all this it feel pity on me. I do love what I do and my old dress, wrinkled tees, faded shirts and my bed. It’s all dearly to me and people possibly might see me as weird but, they don’t know the story yet.

Currently own 4pair of jeans , 8 tees, maybe 4 shirts these are pretty new. I still don’t wear my 2 new shirts and even feel embarrassed wearing anything new to an extent.

Does anyone else feels this way or live this way?

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u/MrBrownie_3 — 25 days ago