u/Much_Candy_7030

I (almost) always got INFP on tests, but drifted away from it because I slowly stopped relating to the stereotypes, which was kind of a silly thing to do.

I was trying really badly to find my "real" mbti type because there was no way I was an INFP even though INFPs are supposed to be emotional and are "bad at logic since their Te is their lowest function", right? This is what I thought for a long time, and I got a period when I thought I was an ISTJ because I thought it fitted better with 6w5.

I also have an ISTJ mother so I had to develop my Te, and I value Si ; I do like routines, but get tired quickly of the same places.

So, I'm pretty sure I'm an infp 6w5, and this is why I had such a hard time finding my type.
Does anyone relate?

I'm asking because my mother is clearly an ISTJ and we have some differences, but I learned to accomodate my behaviour to be more efficient which led me to think I'm an ISTJ too.

(And it is possible I still am but did any ISFJ mistype themselves as ISTJ for this reason?)

I could understand using other things with the right hand is normal as a left-handed person, but we can't just write with both hands randomly. (or we can but it's done poorly)

I made people take this MBTI test when I didn't know it was unreliable, and four people got INTP, three got ENFP, one got ENTP and I got INFP (sometimes INFJ).

No this is not a typing post, I'm just curious if anyone got a sensor type after taking it because it seemed impossible to me.

This is very specific but did you ever see an ISTJ as a main character, especially a young one or teenager? I've seen a lot of ISXPs but not a lot of ISTJs

Yes, I do explain it, but I'm tired. I say I'm trans, and they say "so you want to be a boy?" like transitioning medically is suddenly going to make me shapeshift into a man. But the most hurtful thing about this is that they don't see me as a man until I "look" like a cis man.

Oh and when you're pre-T and they flirt with you, but when you ask if they're still going to be interested after you transition medically they say no. Like, I know you can't magically change your sexuality but at least pretend you acknowledge me as a man already.

(Quick note but them calling us tomboys...seriously?)

It says enable access but I already did. I can't disable it because I'm on iPad, and I tried deleting the app and reinstalling it. How do I fix it?

Basically I will tell all of my behaviour that doesn't align with the stereotypes of my own type (which is also why I had a hard time finding it)

• I dress casual and could describe my style as alternative.
• I often change my mind because I'm never sure which thing is the best option.
• I'm very empathetic.
• Not afraid to stand up against a rule if it doesn't make sense to me.
• I love art, writing, psychology, and music.
• Math and biology are hard for me.
• I get a MBTI type on tests that has the same cognitive functions, but not in the same order.
• I procrastinate and always feel like I'm never doing enough because I prefer doing things I love more than working.
• I mostly act on my emotions but try to keep a balance.
• My favorite subjects were languages, litterature and art. I was also very good at chemistry and physics, but it wasn't something I loved.
• I am open-minded.
• I like reading fantasy.
• I plan on travelling.
• My friends are ENXPs.
• I'm polite and know social expectations.
• I grew up with a mother the same type as me and a father the opposite on the cognitive functions chart.

I cut my hair two years ago and my mother keeps saying comments like 'your hair was better before' 'you would have gotten so much compliments nowadays' is it to make me feel guilty? Yet when I tell her that I prefer my hair like this she gets frustrated and tells me hair isn't that big of a deal. She also criticized my mullet. I just don't understand what people expect you to do when they say that. To magically grow it out? And if it doesn't they hit you with the 'it will never grow back as long as it was before' like we're doomed forever. Are these comments really necessary?

Back then I could just remove it, but now it's either covering the whole thing or doing a weird cropped ad to the side with grey around it. The only way to get rid of it is to say I'm not interested, but I don't wanna do it everytime it pops up. I'm new to Spotify so it could just be normal, but that's pretty annoying.

I'm a content creator on Pinterest and I noticed most of my recent pins get hidden for absolutely no reason. I maybe think it's the text so I hide it (because Pinterest will censor anything) it works, but a few hours later Pinterest hides it AGAIN. What is going on and what did I do?. Is it because of the blue filter I'm using? The symbols? I'm so lost.

I know MBTI cannot really tell you which types are the best / worst in terms of communication and relationships, but honestly I can relate to Fe / Si blindness, etc.

I was friends with a guy who I believed was an ENFJ, and at first it worked out. We were joking around, and he was basically the more social one. Disclaimer, I'm not saying all ENFJs are like that, we were pretty young, and I also had some confidence issues or setting boundaries. He said he was an introvert but was still social with pretty much everybody. (It made me kind of jealous too, I can't lie) He would almost always talk in friends groups I didn't know, and I just had to sit here and wait. Whenever I was feeling down or annoyed, he would always try to cheer me up, which just made me uncomfortable and smile nervously. He had a habit of being weirdly caring but in a parent way? Sometimes it was even a little creepy because just because I don't smile doesn't mean I'm being annoyed. The moment we didn't talk to eachother anymore was when I complained about him looking happier when he was with more extroverted people (Fe blindness because I can't just personally switch my 'personality' with different people, or just very subtly) and he said he felt more himself with me. But I didn't feel myself with him. I thought that he was fake most of the time, and didn't truly care about me. I made mistakes too like not being honest enough about my boundaries, and was almost exhausted trying to keep up with his pace. I think it would have worked out if both of us tried to work on the communication part. Forgot to mention that he said I was too closed-off. I took it personally because I was just tired with him back then but now I know why he said that. I don't know why but I couldn't bring myself to fully trust him. Also, his way of pleasing straight up rude people, or people he insulted in the past behind their backs made me feel like he was hypocritical. He didn't care about his health, and once said "i'm only getting help if i'm bleeding really bad." He should have cared about his own health instead of asking everyone else if they're okay.