u/ObjectiveThick1910

On the talk of love podcast both Buckwild and Saaphyri stated that Saaphyri was another spy in the house like Eyes was so she wasn't supposed to stay long anyway. I don't believe this and think they're just trying to save face because ...

1. Why would there be 2 spys? it doesn't make any sense. And plus why did she get in a fight immediately over a bed that she wasn't ganna use anyway?
2. We all know Saaphyri had a temper and I think she legit was a contestant and thats how it really went down, she was a liability for the show and got kicked out and just tried to save face with that "Oh I wasn't even ganna be there for the whole show anyway" excuse

Long story short, I'm looking for new apartments. I don't have the best credit score because I got in a car accident and by the time the insurance paid me the total loss it messed up my whole credit, plus some student loans, etc. so that made my application look not too good but, I was talking to two potential property managers about these concerns one was like “Ya but you’re nice and you’re a nurse so I can work something out with them”. Then the place that I wanted and got even though my credit report was not the best said “Well you’re a nurse and this and that, I respect you guys its hard work, I talked to the office and explained the situation and the good work you do”

It feels great to finally be respected by somebody lol, as we all know most of the times in our workplace the patients and management are not super appreciative all the time…

Edit: I don't understand so many people saying they've gotten out of speeding tickets which seems illogical? ok you're a nurse but you're still going at a more dangerous speed and can cause an accident... I don't agree with them on that one

They were friends in ROL 2 and seemingly on the start of Charm school as well, but then randomly Megan and Brandi C became best friends attached at the hip ...how? why?

Long story short, I was in school for my degree and the guy I had a fling with, him and his friend went to another school for the same career. During school me and this guy had a fling, mostly hookups. I'm pretty sure he told his buddy about us because he was showing pictures of his buddy and telling me how he got with this good-looking girl blah blah bla, talking to me about his buddy’s intimate life. So I thought, wow, if they're talking like that to each other, you really think this guy never said anything about your intimate life? He probably did. Also the big “exotic” part he liked about me since he was from another culture is that I am Russian

Fast forward we all graduated and I got a new job that I really like but turns out his buddy works there and sometimes on my same shift. When I saw him, I instantly recognized him from the photos and I think he knows exactly who I am too. One time I was talking to him about a Russian speaking patient. And he said, wait, don't you know Russian too? We deal with a primarily Hispanic population. I don't blatantly look white, so most people would lean towards guessing I’m Latina and speak Spanish, so if he guessed Russian, that was a pretty damn good guess. But I'm sure the guy I had a fling with told him so that’s how he knew.

My issue is, I'm pretty sure he knows that I hooked up with his buddy and they probably had a douche bro chat about all that, said god knows what about me in bed, photos, and….I don’t know, I may be dramatic right now but I’m a shy and private person, having a random coworker know all those details gives me anxiety. He never said anything weird or brought it up of course but still…

Yes he was a jerk, but i liked the way he called Bret out, I liked how he roasted him and didnt gaf. For sure that is why Lacey was eliminated that day because her dad embarrassed him on TV. Holy moly if that was the final edit imagine what else he said that didn't make it to the edit!!

Also it was funny how he was a classic rich middle aged man but had this hot younger gold digger wife lol

When I first watched daisy of love in real time I could not believe the 12 pack on there was the same guy from I love New York!!! Oh my goodness on ILNY he seemed like a regular jersey douche but on DOL he seemed really cool, intelligent, sensible. I was like…is this the same guy? Anyone else feel the same? I’m still shocked about it to this day and it wasn’t like those shows were filmed 15 years apart and he was way more mature.

I took my car to get tinted and as I was outside waiting for an Uber to take me back home. Some guy pulls up in his car and is like hey how are you etc. And me being nervous in the moment being dumb, said I'm waiting for an Uber to take me home. And he was like, oh, where are you from? I could give you a ride. And I'm like, no, it's OK of course, because who knows he might have a gun in the car or god knows what else. He asked for my IG I said I didn't have one which is the honest truth. (Should add that I was waiting in kind of a rural place outside where nobody was really around so not a heavily populated place)

So he drove away, but I was still on edge until the Uber came and he was a young man. He didn't look creepy or anything, but still….. Why do men feel comfortable doing this? Like yes, I'm totally going to get in a random stranger's car and let them pick me up and know where I live????

So i work 4 12 hour shifts a week and by the time i get home, theres noooo way I'm going to be washing any dishes just forget about it! So I end up in those 4 days stacking my reusable food containers that I have to wash in my tiny kitchen in my tiny sink and I will try now just buying those prep containers that I can rewash and use but I will just throw them away after eating. I bought a 50 pack of them which will last me at least a month for 20 dollars off amazon

so 20 dollars a month to spend to do way less dishes sounds great to me. Am I crazy or is this a good idea?

Or being new at any job really. I don't know how I came across it, but I was watching a prison documentary about what to do when you’re new in prison, how to stay safe, etc...Tell me why it sounded like good advice for how to be a new nurse at a new workplace too lol

Some of the tips I will quote word for word, “If you’re new in prison don't over share about your personal life, if someone offers you something say “I'm good” and don't take it because you don't know if you might owe them later on”

“Stay to yourself, if someone is being overly friendly don't fall for it. Don't trust people too easily. You have to observe, sit back, and listen. Figure people out before you become their friend.”

“If you see certain people try to warm up to you, watch how they treat others because 9 times out of 10, what they do to others they will do to you”

“If you feel something in the pit of your stomach that doesn't feel right, it probably isn't right and you need to remove yourself from that situation”

“There are some relationships worth developing in here you just have to find them"

Or being new at any job really. I don't know how I came across it, but I was watching a prison documentary about what to do when you’re new in prison, how to stay safe, etc...Tell me why it sounded like good advice for how to be a new nurse at a new workplace too lol

Some of the tips I will quote word for word, “If you’re new in prison don't over share about your personal life, if someone offers you something say “I'm good” and don't take it because you don't know if you might owe them later on”

“Stay to yourself, if someone is being overly friendly don't fall for it. Don't trust people too easily. You have to observe, sit back, and listen. Figure people out before you become their friend.”

“If you see certain people try to warm up to you, watch how they treat others because 9 times out of 10, what they do to others they will do to you”

“If you feel something in the pit of your stomach that doesn't feel right, it probably isn't right and you need to remove yourself from that situation”

“There are some relationships worth developing in here you just have to find them”

I work in healthcare and my department is different from the main department so I go to the main department station to ask someone who is more familiar a question.. I see a male and female coworker that I dont know because I don't work in that department talking to each other... I politely wait until they're done and I ask the male a question and after/as he answers that she's still standing there and she out of nowhere goes "are you pregnant?"

I've never seen this woman in my life and I'm not even overweight. Maybe my scrubs did make me look a little bloated but.. I was taking aback and said "First of all why would you ask me that its rude???" She said "well I just rather ask than not ask" (her exact words)

I said first of all, I don't even know you, I don't even talk to you, so why would you ask me that???? and she just kept saying "oh I would rather ask than not ask" Oh you know sometimes scrubs can make you look different"
blah blah blah

How I took it was she's trying to body shame me because how the hell else was I supposed to take that? I understand if I was very obviously pregnant. or if she was a close coworker that was my friend or something, but that was very rude and out of line to me