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▲ 156 r/depoop

Never buying from a new seller again

So I am a huge Katseye fan, and pretty much only use Depop to buy Katseye photocards and Katseye merch. Manon is my absolute favorite member of the group, so I'm always on the hunt for merch of her specifically. When I saw this seller selling a bundle of photocards of Manon that included some I didn't have and really wanted, I decided to ignore my own personal 'Never buy from new sellers' rule and buy it.

The seller never once replied despite being active and never sent my product. The following exchange happened. This was my first bad experience on Depop and honestly, I really wanted to say more but I have a perfect 5 star buyer streak from sellers specifically for being nice, so I decided to keep it stern but professional. I'm still extremely upset though. I understand if he thought he was pricing them too cheap (I myself thought it was a steal, which is why I was so quick to buy) but I'm quite literally the biggest fan of this group and have been searching for some of these photocards forever. I would've happily paid extra if he had just communicated that.

His lack of communication is something mentioned in his only other review as well, and now he wrote in his bio saying to ignore his reviews. Okay LMAO. The only reason he has a 2.3 and not a 1 despite the only two reviews I've shown saying 1 is because a different seller gave him a 5 star as a buyer.

So yeah. Never trust new accounts, and never trust accounts without ratings. Lesson learned. At least I got my money back but MAN, I didn't want my money back I wanted the cards. Oh well 💔

u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 5 days ago

The Manon Subreddit

I wish the Manon subreddit was a place where genuine fans of Manon would go. I adore Manon so much, she's my bias, but I can't enter that subreddit for a single day without every single person tearing down all the other girls in an attempt to lift Manon up. Manon wouldn't like that. Manon would hate anyone who did that. Also, Daniela isn't some mean evil girl who's out to get Manon. People took a quote from the skit and ran with it, especially on that subreddit.

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 15 days ago

People Who Think They Can Make It As 3 Are Delusional.

I think we all agree that they're gonna get a fourth, but some people seem to live in lala land where they believe the group can thrive as a 3 member girl group. I wish I had that level of delusion. As it stands, the group is VERY unbalanced as three in almost every aspect. When Lexie was still in the group, there were two strong vocalists and they were all decently good at dancing with Emily carrying in the dance department

Now Lexie is gone, and what do we have? A girl group with three good dancers but only one good singer. It doesn't matter how great or fun their dances are, if the songs themselves don't sound good the group won't make it. A lot of people listen to songs only for the sound and don't care about the choreo. Sakura is bad at singing as it stands and while she's improving in dancing, she still has a long way to go. Emily is a phenomenal dancer, but she's not that good of a singer. Samara can sing and dance, Lexie could sing and dance. With Lexie gone, that leaves Samara as the only powerhouse of this group, needing to carry the other two. If fans genuinely believe they can survive as a group long term with Samara carrying the dead weight, they need to open their eyes.

If they do get a fourth member and it ends up being another girl who can dance well but can't really sing, I think Samara needs to cut her losses and abandon ship like Lexie did tbh.

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 21 days ago

Three Year Redraw

Same artist, same character, three years later!

I did change some things. I removed her jacket because honestly I couldn't figure out how to draw it in this pose. And I forgot to add the Amity necklace, oops!

I personally headcanon that Luz is tatted up. So she would still have that snake tattoo, but you can't see it with the angle she's at. I also headcanon she would have tattoos of the original glyphs, with the light glyph obviously being on her wrist. The ice glyph would be on her other wrist, and the fire and plant on both ankles

u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 1 month ago

Chance they'll play Monster High?

I know some European Eyekons have shared the setlist and Monster High isn't on it. However, I'm going to the October 28th show. Obviously that's right before Halloween, so do you think they'll end up playing Monster High in the encore or something? Honestly I'm hoping they do, I think that'll be cool! I've never been to a concert before so I don't know if they're allowed to add songs in some shows that aren't in others

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 1 month ago

How to get an apartment??

Hi guys!

I'm 21 and I'm planning on moving into my first apartment soon with one of my coworkers. We both work full time at our job and calculated income together is roughly 3k - 4k a month. She has no savings, but I have 6k in savings. She has a cat and I don't but I would like one. Neither of us have credit (Her because she was too scared to build it, me because my parents banned credit cards for some reason. Don't wanna push that rule because I'm not 100% ready to move out yet and I don't wanna get prematurely kicked out. Don't bite the hand that feeds you sort of situation).

How does one go about the process of applying for an apartment? Will they even accept us given the no credit? And how do you pay rent??? Is there a certain app or website to pay it by? Will that be explained in the paperwork? What about utilities, is that paid via the same place rent is?

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

New to Kpop, what groups should I check out based on the ones I listen to?

I'm aware Katseye isn't Kpop, but they're my ultgroup and Touch is the song that inevitably opened me up to the world of Kpop and got me listening to some others. Of the ones listed that are actually Kpop, I say I listen to ILLIT, Le Sserafim, and OurBirthday the most (OBD only has three songs out but those three songs are absolutely amazing and I've been following since pre-debut)

I would love some more recs tho!! 🫶

u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/women

Going To A Concert Soon, Worried About Period

As the title suggests. Usually I get my period at the beginning of the month, which wasn't gonna be a problem seeing as my concert is at the end of a month. However starting about two months ago my body decided to do a 180 and switch to giving me my period at the end of the month. My concert isn't until October, but this is worrying me greatly. My skirt for the concert is short and white. The venue doesn't allow bags, I don't wear tampons. I am planning on wearing a hoodie, but I'm worried about not having room for pads between holding my phone, portable charger, and wallet. Is it worth it to invest in period panties for this? I've never worn them before, so does anyone have any brand recommendations? Thank you guys!

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago
▲ 54 r/katseye

260820 - My Photobook

I showed off my collection a few days ago, but I wanted to show off my photobook specifically! Surprisingly despite how many Daniela photocards I have, Manon is my bias. Hoping to get more official cards of her soon!

u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago
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Can't Call Out Twice When Sick

This is another story from my old job that I was thankfully able to leave a few months ago.

When I was 17, my mom suggested I order from this pizza spot I've never heard of for takeout. I took her advice on it, and I ended up with the worst food poisoning of my life. Back then I only worked two days a week. My food poisoning started a day before my first shift. The day of my shift I was still sick. I was throwing up, so I called out of work. The next day, I was still throwing up. By this point I had been puking consistently for three days straight and couldn't keep anything down. I had been throwing up so much that my throat was irritated and raw and my mom was about to take me to the hospital (Never ended up going because I have a fear of hospitals and doctors and wanted to try over the counter stuff first, which thankfully ended up working.)

Seeing as Im still actively puking and ill, I called out again. When speaking to my ex-boss and explaining the situation, she went "Ok_Fan, you called out yesterday. You're really gonna call out again today?" Honestly I was pretty shocked in the moment, so all I said was "I'm sick. I'm sorry." My old boss stayed silent for a second, then goes "I mean. You're really letting the team down. We're gonna be short staffed." By this point I'm trying not to puke again, so I go "I know and I feel bad. But I'm sick. I'm calling out 6 hours in advance. I'm sorry. I have to go." We say our goodbyes and I hang up.

When I come into work after my food poisoning had subsided, my boss pulled me into a meeting to express how disappointed she was in me for calling out both shifts. I never got in trouble for it of course, but it still blows my mind to this day. Maybe if my shifts were weekend shifts I could see her skepticism. A teenager calling out of Saturday/Sunday shifts, that's a little eyebrow raising. But my shifts were on Wednesday/Thursday. I also wasn't in school pretty much that whole week, which one of my coworkers who I had a class with apparently mentioned to our boss. Did she expect me to come in and puke all over customers to prove I wasn't lying? I still don't get it all these years later.

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago
▲ 14 r/katseye

260818 - My Collection!

Just wanted to show off my Katseye collection! Wall is cropped because it's currently housing some old drawings I made when I was in middle school, but I plan to hang my posters up soon. I also have a light stick on the way so the second image is where I plan to display it! This display is subject to change over time as I add stuff. I do also have a Pinky Up hoodie and two shirts!

u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

HATING ME IS LIKE ALL YOU DO!!!

LISTEN UP HATERS 😡

I MADE A THEORY ABOUT MANON COMING BACK BECAUSE OF THERE BEING 5 OFFICIAL SONGS AND 1 HIDDEN SONG IN WILD AND EVERYONE IS CALLING ME DELUSIONAL!! I AM NOT! MISSY IS LITERALLY MY DOGS SECOND COUSINS GREAT NIECE ONCE REMOVED AND SHE TOLD ME!! SO HERES MY SEND OFF:

HATING ME IS LIKE ALL YOU DO BREAKFAST TO DINARRRRR!!

(/Uj For the love of God people research what a circlejerk sub is before commenting 😭)

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

PROOF MANON IS COMING BACK.

Okay guys, I just got done watching Wild, and I have some solid proof Manon is coming back. There's five songs on Wild's original track (Pinky Up, Animal, Hootie Frutti, Bel Air, and That Way) BUT there's a sixth song that's exclusive (Unloveu). How many girls are in Katseye including Manon? SIX. The reason Unloveu is an exclusive track is obviously because they're subtly hinting at Manon's return. Plus, you know who has been mentioning Manon a lot recently? LARA RAJ. Who was Unloveu written by? LARA. RAJ. It all makes sense now!!!!

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago
▲ 52 r/katseye

Wild Hearts Theater Experience

I just saw the Wild Hearts movie a few hours ago and wanted to share my experience. There were two showings at this theater, a 7 PM and a 10 PM. I went to the 7 PM one

Surprisingly not many kids ended up coming. My theater was packed, but it was mostly teens and young adults. There were about 5 kids, and they did cause some disturbances. If they were young children I would understand, but they were older (I wanna say around 9-11 years of age). Every time a song would come on they would sing loudly, one of the children next to me was filming every single scene with Lara, at one point one of the kids dropped their phone under the seat and her older brother turned his flashlight on to search for it.

They were also trying to be funny. One of them yelled out loudly "Stop showing clips of Pinky Up and show M.I.A!!" Whenever Manon would come on screen, one of the children in the back would yell "Manon!!"

I wouldn't say this ruined my experience of the movie. A bit distracting, but I was able to ignore it for the most part. But if you're someone who's distracted easily, I would recommend waiting for Wild Hearts to drop on streaming services instead of seeing it on theaters

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

What Would Happen If Manon Were To Return?

As much as I would love to see Manon return to Katseye as she's my bias, I don't think she is returning. But say I'm proven wrong. What do you think would happen to all the songs on Wild if she were to come back? Would the lines be redistributed to include her? Would she just not sing during those 6 songs and only participate in the dance? If it's the second, would the dances have to be reworked to include 6 members? We know Pinky Up was originally a 6 person choreo so that one should be easy to do, but what of the other songs?

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago
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The Final Straw That Made Me Quit

I've been at my new job for about 8 months now, and it really solidified my decision to leave. The only thing I wish I didn't do when leaving my old job was give a two week notice. I should've screwed them over and quit with no warning.

It had been a very long and busy day that day, on top of that we were short staffed. Very short staffed. Three callouts. Naturally, everyone was being a bit snappy with one another because of stress. Normally I wouldn't mind that because I understand, I was also catching an attitude here or there. This job has headsets so the employees can talk to one another.

I was working the back, one of my coworkers was working the front. We both had headsets. The rush had died down, but I had a customer who had a question about something from the front. I can't remember what it was now, I think something about the fries. I turn my headset on and go "Coworker, do you know what time blah blah blah? A customer is asking" No response. ".....Coworker??" No response. "Coworker, are you gonna answer-" Then the manager in training suddenly comes on the headset and loudly goes "CAN YOU SHUT THE FUCK UP?! Coworker went on break!" I kinda rolled my eyes a bit because how was I meant to know that? So I ask the manager in training (MIT) the question, and get no response. Great. I tell the customer I'm sorry but I don't know and if she pulls up front they'd be able to help her. She's a good sport and does so.

Now, that should have been the end of it. A little annoyance, but whatever, yes? That's what I thought, too. About 45 minutes pass, I'm taking the order of another customer when MIT comes over. He had a trash bag, which made sense because the trash bin was near my station. I pay it no mind. But he stopped, opened the trash bag, reached in, pulled out some paper towels, and threw it at me. It hit me in the head. That annoyed me greatly because it's not just disrespectful, it's unsanitary. But I drop it because I'm taking an order. Whatever, I can brush it off.

Another few hours pass. By this point it's been three hours since the headset incident. I'm in the office, speaking with the actual manager about the schedule. All of a sudden, MIT comes up behind me. He gets as close to my ear as he can without me noticing, and then he screams my name as loud as he could into my ear. I jump and turn around and see he's also recording. I tell him that's not funny and ask why he did that, he says "Now you know how it feels to have someone constantly talk in your ear!" I never felt more rage than I did in that moment. It had been 3 hours since the headset incident, I was trying to ask a question to Coworker about a customer concern, I didn't know MIT was on the headset. So I snap a bit. I say "That happened 3 hours ago. Get over yourself." And MIT absolutely loses it.

The area of the office we were standing in was narrow, made even narrower by the boxes stacked. So there wasn't much room already. MIT moves so he's face to face with me, making it so there's even less room. I'm basically pinned against the wall. He starts screaming in my face, calling me a bitch, saying I'm annoying, probably some other stuff I blocked out. I'm saying he's screaming so loud people from the kitchen hears. I start crying because I'm a (at the time) 20 year old woman and this 6'2, 40 year old man is screaming at me at the top of his lungs. He storms to the front and continues telling everyone loudly that I'm a bitch and "Nobody talks to MIT like that and gets away with it!" And blah blah blah. I'm crying so hard that my manager sends me home.

My manager told our GM about it and MIT did end up getting fired over the whole ordeal, but I was done. I started applying for other places that same day and when my current job was secured, I left. One of my other managers called me a bitch on my last day. That solidified my decision to leave. I have no regrets.

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

Does sexual desire ever truly return after?

Hello. Sorry for formatting, on mobile

I hear that there's two ways someone can swing after suffering SA. Either you go hypersexual, or you go asexual. I went asexual. The thought of sex terrifies me to no end, and I often consider myself to be a virgin as I don't believe someone forcibly taking what isn't there's counts.

I've been in many relationships, and the first thing I let people know of is my asexuality. I tell them if that's a deal breaker, to let me know before we waste each other's time. Most of the time it's been a deal breaker. But not this time.

I've been going steady with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I'm having issues. She knows of my asexuality and - while I haven't gone into graphic details - I've hinted at it stemming from SA. She understands and she's so, so gentle about everything. She asks before doing anything as simple as even kissing me. I truly appreciate how thoughtful she is. But it's got me thinking a bit. When I say I'm asexual, I mean the thought of having sex terrifies me and embarrasses me to no ends. The thought of anyone seeing me naked, or touching me, it scares me so much and makes me extremely tense and uncomfortable. But my sexual urges haven't gone away, if that makes sense. I still have a libido. And part of me deep down wants to become intimate with my girlfriend, but every time I think of it more than just a passing thought, it scares me. I trust her with my whole life, of course, but it scares me

Does this ever go away? This fear? My girlfriend let me know that sex isn't something she needs in a relationship, but part of me feels like I'm depriving her of it, like I owe it to her somehow. I've told her this, and she told me I owe nobody anything and it's my body and I'm not some toy to be used. And I know she's right, but I still feel guilty and confused. Has anyone else had these conflicting feelings?

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

What time should I get there?

Hello guys! I was lucky enough to get tickets for the Wildworld tour. I'm going in October, and this isn't just my first time seeing Katseye live, it's actually my first concert ever. What time should I get there to get merch? I really really want a shirt, and I also promised my friends who couldn't make it that I'd try to get them photocards of their biases (Megan and Yoonchae). The concert starts at 8, I was planning to get there for 6. Is that good? Or should I go sooner? Any Eyekons who were able to be there for Beautiful Chaos or SIS, what time did you get there for merch? Thank you!

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago

UPDATE: I'm Getting My Friend An Xlov Album She Really Wants And She Has No Idea

I got her the album yesterday. I was so excited for her to open it I was practically jumping. As shes opening it, she starts to go "I'm probably not gonna have a big reaction-" and then immediately gasps when she pulled it out and saw it was the Unlxve album that she wanted so bad. She covered her mouth and looked at it and shocked, and then was like "Oh my God. Wait. Oh my God!!" And started to freak out. She told everyone she knew she got the album and has been posting about it nonstop. She also hasn't stopped thanking me even over 24 hours later now. She didn't pull her bias, but she's still extremely happy and her reaction was so worth it. One of the things I enjoy about Kpop is how it brings people together, and this was an example of such!

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u/Ok_Fan_7920 — 2 months ago