War gestern auf einer Grillparty, habe Fleisch mit nach Hause genommen. War ungefähr 1h mit dem Rad bei 38° unterwegs, also nicht gekühlt. Habe es aber noch heiß direkt vom Grill mitgenommen. Ist es jetzt schlecht? Und viel wichtiger, werde ich da morgen Maden drauf finden, wenn ich Fliegen in der Nähe vom Grill gesehen habe?
Unfortunately I get regularly harassed/made fun of by minors when I'm out in public. How do I avoid that? I have a very alternative style of clothing but nothing too extraordinary. I also try to act/move/speak in a neurotypicial way but it never works. Does anyone have experience with shutting them down quickly or not becoming a target altogether?
It was my first time watching something music related in the cinema, I felt it was much too short for the price and also didn't really look good. I know it originally being a vr concert makes it hard to translate to 2d screen but wow, it was not worth the money...
Ich habe keinen Kontakt mehr zu meiner Familie und seit etwa 2 Jahren keine engen Freunde mehr. Die letzten 2 Jahre habe ich damals verbracht neue Bekanntschaften zu knüpfen, die mittlerweile auch alle im Sand verlaufen sind. Meine Therapeutin ist in letzter Zeit absolut keine Hilfe, sie redet dann nur davon, dass ja keine Beziehung für immer ist und sich auch Menschen in Partnerschaften oder mit Geschwistern und besten Freunden manchmal einsam fühlen. Sehr cool, aber nutzen diese Leute auch stundenlang KI-Apps um mal mit jemanden über ihre Tag zu plaudern? Glaub ich nicht. Und das muss ich jetzt den Rest meines Lebens aushalten, mannoman.
Ich meine irgendwas außer regelmäßig mit Filter saugen oder keine Teppiche/Vorhänge im Schlafzimmer. Ich habe mir zum Beispiel einen dieser hoch angepriesenen Luftfilter gekauft, was keinen Unterschied gemacht hat. Medikamente wie auch Spray hilft mir an manchen Tagen leider gar nicht und eine Hyposensibilisierung käme laut Arzt bei mir nicht in Frage.
I've been feeling quite lonely for a while and I think it's because I only talk to my friends every few days/weeks and my daily social interactions (work etc.) aren't as fulfilling. I very much want to have a person who I can talk to every day and who knows and remembers what's going in my life. I love my current friends and I know they love me too and I don't want to resent them for something they can't change. But the weekly/monthly check ins are absolutely not enough for me. Especially since they can't remember half the stuff I told them last Tuesday.
Does anyone have advice on what to do? I've been openly communicating my needs but none of my current friends have the capacity to make more time for me and I've already tried meeting more new people for the past few years but have yet to find someone with the same needs.
I'm in my mid 20s, came from an abusive household so I cut contact with my family. Had quite a lot of friends in my teen years and as a young adult, although I felt lonely most of the time already. Now I'm at the point where I only know two people I would call my friends and we barely talk (we compromised on texting each other at least once every month). I'm by myself 90% of the time and it drives me mad.
I live alone and I love my space, so I don't know if looking for roommates or moving would be the way to go. Have/had a bunch of different hobbies but never really connected with anyone and small talk with mere acquaintances makes me feel ever lonelier. My coworkers are nice but we have nothing to say to each other outside of work. I know pets help a lot but I work 40h a week with a 2h commute plus I'm also not home for the aforementioned hobbies so it doesn't make sense to get a cat or a dog. I don't have a need for romantic relationships so it seems dishonest to join a dating app to look for a partner. I tried reddit, multiplayer games, bumble for friends, talking up people at concerts and festivals and on vacations/in travel groups, social media... Met many interesting people over the years and yet I still have a total of 2 friends.
It's not like I can't be alone. I go to the movies and on vacation and to the restaurant by myself. But I wish I had the choice to have someone come with instead of the choice being, either I go alone or I don't go at all. Plus moving and other adult stuff is such a hassle when you are only one person. It makes me feel shitty that every one my age has a partner or a group of friends or is close with their family. I'm really scared of getting older by myself.
I have made lots of progress recently but the realization how much of my behavior and thinking is still strongly influenced by my abuse is making me feel extra hopeless. I cut off a lot of people in my life because they made fun of or didn't take seriously what triggered me and what behaviors I learnt from the traumatic period of my life. I'm starting to think there's no one out there who would fully get me cause a lot of the conversations about my boundaries just end up with the other person not being able to or not wanting to understand why I act the way I do.
It's about woohooing 5 different Sims in 5 different locations. I did one in my bed, one in my whirlpool, one when visiting the lab, the military base and the town hall. My Sim died in-between and was brought back by a genie, did that mess the wish up?
I want to make a non human household, I have every EP but supernatural and Into the future. Is it safe to use testingcheats or maybe nraas to change my Sims's life states to mermaid, vampire etc. or will that corrupt the save?
I've used the same, high quality, DS game roms for an emulator, my 3ds and my DSi. The DSi can't start half the games or crashes halfway through while they run beautifully on my 3ds and Citra. Any idea why that is? I thought the OG DSi would be the closest to the original DS hardware and have the best performance.. Or does it just not like non-cardridges?