Helping a Dad buy a suit while his 8yo Daughter vocally was afraid of the belts and asked me not to let him pick out a belt
The Dad was just ignoring his very bright, positive and verbal daughter the whole shopping experience. I work in the suit department of a large chain department store.
I took it upon myself to let her take the lead in the shopping experience. I worked as a nanny and lead sales at a toy store. So I know children can often be blunt and transparent while shopping. I thought it would make the obviously boring boring daddy/daughter time a little more positive for her.
I let her scan items and asked her what she thought looked best on her dad. Teaching her what colors go well together and what matched.
From the start to the finish of our time together the daughter talked about how they were Christian. How he daddy was very active in the church. And how she loved God and her time at church. As an atheist who grew up in a staunchly Christian house... I thought it was very sweet that she was happy in her faith. I never was as a kid.
When it came time to buy a belt that matched the man's shoes the girl became very vocal about how she doesn't want me to buy him a belt. How "this belt is like the one he spanks me with" and "this one looks like it would hurt a lot".
This made me extremely uncomfortable. The father heard all this and just ignored it. Maybe it was normal for him? I know spanking is controversial. Some parents use it, some see it as criminal. I'm in the camp of 'dont lay your hands on a child'.
At first I thought she was kidding when she turned to me and said "this one looks like it hurts'" but kids don't joke about that kind of thing.
I couldn't just say anything. I don't know these people. I wish I could call cps but I don't have these people's names or addresses. What do I do in this situation as a retail worker? In my 10+ years of working with kids I've never experienced anything like this.
Am I bad for letting this slide?