birthday with my boyfriends :]
▲ 11 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

birthday with my boyfriends :]

ah, august 18th, the day i turned slightly older than i was before

featuring my astro plush [my favourite object i have of astro himself] and my sprout keychain [the only object i have of sprout himself so far]

went minigolfing with them, though at some point i had to have a buddy hold astro for a while so i could actually lock in and put some force in my swings [she held him like a sack of potatoes 😭]

+ yes i did terribly and i blame the grass

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 day ago

how would one keep this from occuring?

so, doubles, what did you expect me to be talking about?

i don't have anything against them, i don't hate them, i never could, but even the most vague mentions of their ships hurts

to get to the actual point already, i get nausea spells, adrenaline rushes, gut cramps, and sometimes headaches just seeing any mention of their yumeships or ficto relationships, i worry it's starting to affect my physical health

i have a certain very popular [and for some reason incredibly glazed] double of sprout that i can't avoid mentions of anywhere, i won't directly name any names but you likely know of the guy, once i got actual sleep paralysis with that person's sona, i mean that's utterly ridiculous, is it not?

i do plan on speaking to my therapist about this next time i see them, i just was hoping for some input from a community as well

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 3 days ago

don't got much to say, i would just like some reassurance/comfort[?]

i originally posted this on r/FictoHideout but upon joining this sub i figured i would rather post it here on the comfort sub because organization can give me peace of mind, so if i'm being honest sometimes i just want direct reassurance that astro and sprout love me [and me *only,* except for eachother of course]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 5 days ago

response i got upon clarifying i'm nonsharing with sprout mid-yap ❤️‍🩹

i don't understand why i was laughing so fucking hard but istg i was actually wheezing

u/TheTrumpetEater — 9 days ago

do fictionkins need to claim their kins as well? if so, how? if not, what do they do instead?

i have seen a person say once that fictionkins who have their kin on the claim list shouldn't use their kin as a self-insert for their ship[s] in this subreddit, which i generally agree with, but that leads me to question what they *should* do instead? are fictionkins just not allowed to be open about that part of their identities here or is there more nuance to it than that?

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 12 days ago

reverse google image search isn't working and i want to find out who drew this

originally found on pinterest, though the og post with it was seemingly deleted

all that's popping up for reverse google image searching is one deviantart account and one instagram account respectively, both of which are repost accounts that i didn't find any credit on

u/TheTrumpetEater — 14 days ago

i've seen so many subtle emoji combos and whatnot here, give me more

like 🐰🎀, 🧸🍯, 🦀 etcetera

there's gotta be way more like i've seen some CRAZY subtle ones and i need to see just how clever y'all can get

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 17 days ago

very long "rant" of sorts [WILL delete later]

this is about my boyfriend, i love him but sometimes he worries me and since this is the most down-to-earth yumeship sub i know i was wondering if anyone had some second opinions

first off i would like to preface by saying his main f/o and the one talked about here is vee version 1 from dandy's world just incase that may deter any readers

my bf is very much voidsharing with vee, something i do understand, however from time-to-time the extent in which it goes can concern me

he's so nonsharing with her that most if the time when i so much as *mention* her unprompted >![and sometimes even when prompted]!< it makes him genuinely uncomfortable and/or upset. whether it be in a neutral, positive, negative light, it doesn't matter, it'll still most definitely bother him. like he rambles lovingly to me about her all the time but i can't say *anything* about her? it just feels odd to me

one time i simply mentioned a meme about vee and it turned into him angrily ranting on about how much he hates vee ships, how he's cried angrily about them before, and then started asking me why i happened to like some canon x canon ships with vee >![that i never bring up to him, mind you]!< despite knowing whatever i said would just upset him more

plus last i checked he genuinely hates his doubles as people and views them as *lesser* to him? that really doesn't sit right with me, especially because one of my buddies also yumes vee and i get offended on her behalf. on the bright side as far as i know he's trying to work on that

i think i heard somewhere that it's considered a red flag to not be comfortable sharing your f/o with your real partner? i mean he sure as HELL wouldn't share vee with me, which doesn't really bother me, it just confuses me, mainly because he isn't monogamous in fiction or real life so it's not a "1 f/o and 1 real partner, keep them seperate" kind of thing

please be civil folk, you can always be blunt just preferably keep it civil

downvote me to hell if i'm wrong here i suppose

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 27 days ago

ama as secret agent [dbls please interact 🙏🙏 i love y'all]

why am i terrified

y'know me being secret agent explains a lot of stuff, mostly just unexplained kinmems and feeling like i've known all the characters for many years already >![that part's kinda weird but in a good way]!<

yes you can make vulgar/crude jokes and/or swear if you want to, i swear like a fucking sailor myself ❤️‍🩹

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

perhaps a stupid question since i'm incredibly new to the game

how do we get to know about the playable characters? gender, actual names, personalities, lore etcetera

or is that all just purely up to fandom interpretation?

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

what

what. the fuck is that

it just randomly appeared on shift 1 when i wasn't paying attention, you can push it around and it's super slippery

teammate completely ignored it[?]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

WE GOT DANDY'S WORLD DARKSHIP MERCH? ON ETSY TOO?? ETSY??? HOOOOOOOOOOO BUDDY 😍😍

now how do i know for sure this is darkship merch? one, this seller made more stuff like this of other taboo pairings, two, they made a "ship and let ship" pin that proves they're proship so the overlap is normal, three, just LOOK at it.

i GENUINELY hit the fucking jackpot in the midst of my thought-to-be-hopeless etsy doomscrolling 🥹🤞

[does with break rule 12 if i'm intentionally keeping their username visible to credit/advertise them? hope not]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

oh? i'm getting NOTIFICATIONS from the sub now?

the tables have turned i see

[before anyone asks, the post was very uninteresting, just screenshots of a proship tumblr user telling people to stop treating fiction and reality like eachother because it only gets people hurt]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

can't tell if i did something wrong [READ BODY TEXT]

okay so this youtuber i used to watch sometimes for fun at some point nade a post saying they changed their bio, said bio had "proshippers dni" in it, so of course i made a curious comment under the post asking about that part like any good little keyboard warrior would do

we made a little thread talking about it [in a surprisingly incredibly civil manor] where i clarified the definitions and they claimed that they were still uncomfortable with proshippers even after knowing what they actually were

i [perhaps awkwardly] asked if that meant they would rather have more hostile people interacting with their channel, to which they just hearted my comment and did not reply

about a month later i get them on my feed again, check their account and they deleted the post we had that conversation under and changed the dni section to what is shown in the screenshot

yeah i really can't tell if i just recruited them to the proshipper side, was super pushy, or if my moral ocd is just beating my ASS rn

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

hey, remember when i got permabanned from a server for being anti-censorship?

posts that you can go skim if you wanna hear about that:

1 https://www.reddit.com/r/ProshipHub/s/5ZsVqxaxWR

2 https://www.reddit.com/r/ProshipHub/s/l64L7OcFux

3 https://www.reddit.com/r/ProshipHub/s/iMy2q73LnV

so i found another server through a friend that seemed lot cooler, it was way less tense and way more chill and i started to really like the community so i was active way more than in the other server

then abruptly while i was nerding out about something random a mod replied to a random one of my messages with the 👁️ emoji and just banned me on the spot

honestly i don't even think i'm mad anymore man, just disappointed :/

if anyone knows any dandy's world servers i can join for the emotes, polls or news that WON'T ban me for stupid shit please tell me i beg i'm so fucking tired

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago