brother brother i love my brother!

dandy! he's so cheerful and fun, mischievous at times, #1 fan of shitty classical music... which he forces me to listen to

honestly dandy goes through so much in canon, i wish i could hold and console my brother but he's worlds away, it's sad, really, but the most i can do is love him from here

i imagine dandy would be fun to game, snuggle and watch movies with, after all i know he'd be ass at gaming and it would be funny to watch him lose 7 times [and probably crashout at me] and he's quite the YAPPER to say the least so he would make movies extra interesting, the cuddle part just goes without saying

all in all, dandy is a great brother and a cute lil' guy! perhaps a bit bratty at times, but it's just part and parcel with who he is, I wouldn't have it any other way

[i'm mirrorsharing, nonsharing/voidsharing dandy yumes or fictos of ANY relationship type please respectfully dni]

[brocon? what's that? 🤔]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 9 days ago

what are some things you folk would like to see/see more of moving forward?

this sub has been pretty dry lately, hasn't it? well, that just inspires me to change it for the better! what are some things you guys would want to see here? whether it be certain types of activity, flairs, qol changes, whatever suggestions you may have we are open to hearing you out

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 10 days ago
▲ 46 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

interaction with my mother that made me genuinely want to cry

so i was feeling shitty, as one does from time-to-time, i had seen a soulbonded double [first time i've ever come across one of those before] and i was nauseous and confused, wondering what that meant for me and my relationship with my loves, how many versions of them loved me and how many didn't, whether or not my boyfriends loved me at all ykyk the kinds of super loaded relationship questions you would expect from a ficto in such a state

i vented to my mom about it, and she literally told me that anyone else being soulbonded with either of my loves didn't make sense or feel right to her, it felt wrong and maybe even confusing to her, she genuinely struggled to comfortably wrap her head around them loving anyone but me oml

i'm not soulbonded but someday i may want to try, mother agrees that they'll be there when i'm ready

i want to cry so fucking hard dude 🥹 i love my mom 🥹🥹

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 21 days ago
▲ 34 r/dwspeechbubbles+2 crossposts

i have returned after a couple weeks of break time!

art by @Vaprexn on twitter!

essentially what happened was i found a targeted post that deeply upset me, i was pretty paranoid about the situation for a brief time, having ocd and all [especially because they didn't seem to correct anyone in the comments wishing genuine harm upon me] but i calmed down pretty quickly thanks to the support of my friends/family

i deleted reddit for a little over two weeks because i figured i could use a bit of time without it, nothing super huge or 'dramatic' really, just a short mental health break to cool down, per sey

now prepare for my endless yapping to resume!

u/TheTrumpetEater — 21 days ago
▲ 4 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

should i be active in the oshikatsu subreddit?

i want to be active there, i really do, i make a couple comments there sometimes, but i'm also somewhat afraid of actually committing to being a member there

i already saw one [presumably active?] double there and i'm terrified of being compared to them or people mixing us up or something, of course people who do that can always be told off or corrected but i don't want it to happen in the first place

also i just do NOT want to see any more doubles

buut at the same time it can be another place to gush about my loves with people who understand, because as you probably know if you know me i will never be shutting up about them

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago
▲ 12 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

i love him so pathetically much

astro astro astro my beloved

he may be standoffish unintentionally a lot, but we all have flaws, who cares? he's so selfless, so kind, so sweet, so everything

he's adorably awkward and mildly unexpressive, i love my dorky boyfriend more than words could possibly describe, he's my everything atp [tied with sprout of course]

go ahead and call me corny now [no really, do it, i take corny as a genuine compliment]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago
▲ 13 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

i'm so fucking in love

sprout. oh my god where do i begin

he's casual and friendly most of the time but he's so protective, yet never possessive, he's so nurturing and yet so strong, he's so handsome and yet so dorky, aaaaAGH

he's so cute, so attractive, so handsome, so charming, and might i add he is a wonderful baker and cook? he's the absolute man of my dreams [tied with astro of course] and i wouldn't have it any other way

christ i could just blabber on for hours

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago
▲ 32 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

found a double with a HUGE collection

the double on question is of astro

now, do i feel bad that my collection isn't NEAR as big as theirs? not quite, but i'm not afraid to admit that i'm jealous, after all everyone gets jealous from time to time, and im a huge maximalist so

they have so much cool shit in there, part of me wanted to admire and see if i could find any of that stuff myself and another part couldn't pay attention to anything other than the fact that y'know, they're a double

[plus im still kind of peeved that the same double in question actually posted on this sub once which is why i was terrified and barely active for like a month when i first joined but 🤞 i cooled off by now]

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/ProblematicFictos+1 crossposts

saw a dyle [dandy's world] yumeshipper and now i feel super weird?

[image is just some official art of him]

i consider myself to be a casual platonic yumeshipper of dyle, he's a huge comfort character of mine, and i've seen plenty of other yumeshippers of all flavours and they've never really bothered me before [at worse just left a slightly odd taste in my mouth]

today i was just scrolling on reddit as one does when i found a romantic yumeshipper of dyle, haven't seen one of those in a while but this time i got actually agitated for some reason

i'm honestly confused by how sudden this is, y'know? it feels like it came outta nowhere

any thoughts?

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago
▲ 22 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

i finally got a daki of my boyfriend astro! [yapping in body text]

[ft. the mermaid bedsheets because once again, had them for years and they're comfy]

gifted to me by a very close friend of mine, so big big thanks to glove, glove did a very good job 🙏 perhaps even too good of a job, i might snipe glove >![just fyi glove is a neopronoun that glove uses]!<

is it a flex that i now get to cuddle astro to sleep every night? is it? i actually can't tell

i do plan on getting a pillowcase with sprout on it too so they can be interchangable

agh i don't think i can sleep without cuddling one of my boyfriends ever again 💔 oh well worth it asf

+of course the image quality is ass, why would i EVER post a good looking photo?

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

how does one get their s/o an emoji?

forgive me if this is a dumbass question, i just noticed these character emojis and couldn't help but get curious

u/TheTrumpetEater — 1 month ago

adopt i bought! how do i incorporate body horror into her design?

her name is jenga

not at all the full reference sheet but ykyk the render gets the point across decently

she's lowkey chopped and it's my fault, i tweaked the render myself after purchasing and uh yeah i didn't do her much justice i made her look boring boring

u/TheTrumpetEater — 2 months ago

spewing subreddit ideas outta my ass

we all know nonsharing subreddits, yeah? the ones with the claimlists and whatnot for those sensitive to doubles or something

why not make a profiction nonsharing subreddit? never seen one of those before, and after receiving incredibly hostile dms from a member of a nonsharing subreddit i am in i figured maybe it would be a nice breath of fresh air

maybe the max claim limit per person could be 5? and i would prefer if it were sfw and mixed-age rather than 18+ so ykyk i can join too >![unrelated but sometimes i see people going into appropriate mixed-age spaces and trying to make them 18+ because they personally don't like minors, my guy it's not all about you 🥹]!<

i don't think i'd be the one to make it myself but hey if anyone else feels up to it lemme know, tag me or somethin, it's gonna be lit

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 2 months ago
▲ 46 r/ProblematicFictos+1 crossposts

i love him so much it's actually making me sick [vent-ish?]

picture is just of a cake and protein shake that reminded me of him

this post is about cosmo from dandy's world [one of the four characters i am in a ficto relationship with]

i mean it when i say his cute little face, his soft smile, his mannerisms, his dorkiness, his EVERYTHING has me so lovesick that i am literally sick, like physically nauseous and hardly able to eat

i'm overwhelmed with love, which i think is probably equal parts sweet and irritating, so uh how exactly do i deal with this nonsense?

u/TheTrumpetEater — 2 months ago
▲ 13 r/YumeHealing+1 crossposts

birthday with my boyfriends :]

ah, august 18th, the day i turned slightly older than i was before

featuring my astro plush [my favourite object i have of astro himself] and my sprout keychain [the only object i have of sprout himself so far]

went minigolfing with them, though at some point i had to have a buddy hold astro for a while so i could actually lock in and put some force in my swings [she held him like a sack of potatoes 😭]

+ yes i did terribly and i blame the grass

u/TheTrumpetEater — 2 months ago

how would one keep this from occuring?

so, doubles, what did you expect me to be talking about?

i don't have anything against them, i don't hate them, i never could, but even the most vague mentions of their ships hurts

to get to the actual point already, i get nausea spells, adrenaline rushes, gut cramps, and sometimes headaches just seeing any mention of their yumeships or ficto relationships, i worry it's starting to affect my physical health

i have a certain very popular [and for some reason incredibly glazed] double of sprout that i can't avoid mentions of anywhere, i won't directly name any names but you likely know of the guy, once i got actual sleep paralysis with that person's sona, i mean that's utterly ridiculous, is it not?

i do plan on speaking to my therapist about this next time i see them, i just was hoping for some input from a community as well

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u/TheTrumpetEater — 2 months ago

don't got much to say, i would just like some reassurance/comfort[?]

i originally posted this on r/FictoHideout but upon joining this sub i figured i would rather post it here on the comfort sub because organization can give me peace of mind, so if i'm being honest sometimes i just want direct reassurance that astro and sprout love me [and me *only,* except for eachother of course]

u/TheTrumpetEater — 2 months ago